Love, understanding one sided - My thoughts - Page 3

Meenu nobody here is giving up on Nivi or hating her. We are just bringing out her weaknesses and mistakes. Nobody is perfect and showing or pointing out mistakes of your loved one does not mean that we are hating them or giving up on them. When any character does wrong we have pointed that out so why not in case of Nivi. Creatives have shown that she is a human too and makes wrong decisions but still somehow she comes across as a wonderful person who only worries about others. And nothing wrong about that. The problem is we have gotten so attached to her that no matter what we tend to overlook her mistakes and past few mistakes were enough for most of us here to point out and that is what we have done. We cannot bear our Nivi going to extremes for just few people and ignore her husband and take him and his happiness for granted. That is too much for me.

I know rachu how much we bashed Viren that time as we could not digest it. And we loved him so much. And fortunately we have not bashed nivi. We are just pointing out her mistakes.

Originally posted by: anjubala

I know rachu how much we bashed Viren that time as we could not digest it. And we loved him so much. And fortunately we have not bashed nivi. We are just pointing out her mistakes.

I remember Anju we use to say Nivi should call police and never go back to him but now if Nivi is going that way we can point her mistakes too.

Originally posted by: anjubala

Meenu nobody here is giving up on Nivi or hating her. We are just bringing out her weaknesses and mistakes. Nobody is perfect and showing or pointing out mistakes of your loved one does not mean that we are hating them or giving up on them. When any character does wrong we have pointed that out so why not in case of Nivi. Creatives have shown that she is a human too and makes wrong decisions but still somehow she comes across as a wonderful person who only worries about others. And nothing wrong about that. The problem is we have gotten so attached to her that no matter what we tend to overlook her mistakes and past few mistakes were enough for most of us here to point out and that is what we have done. We cannot bear our Nivi going to extremes for just few people and ignore her husband and take him and his happiness for granted. That is too much for me.

That is true Anju. I know what you mean. I can relate to what you're saying...I wish in the last days of the show they hadn't ruined nivi's character so much. Just want to preserve some good memories of the show 😊

Originally posted by: Cutie-NivRen

Minu we definitely get disappointed from the character whom we love. Making mistakes is not wrong and no one is perfect. When Viren was shown as stalker we were too much angry at him. He had to go through lots of punishment to repent for what he did to Nivi. I somewhere feel he is still going through. I don't hate Nivi but I hate the concept that she is blamed when she is not wrong but she is praised and called samajdaar when she actually makes a mistakes. This is my basic problem.

I agree Rachu. I've been really frustrated with the CT's too for not showing that Nivi has come to love Viren as much as he does her...but in yesterday's epi I felt I saw her point of view, however different it is from what I would wish. She is certainly not samajhdar - I totally agree with that. And Zarmeen had put it really well in a post a while back that there is a different between being samajhdar and being ziddi...and our nivi is totally ziddi and not valuing her husband as a loving wife would. I would love for the CTs to correct that picture and make them more like what we want to see -- and what I too very much want to see. But in 4 days what can we expect...sad that they will end the show like this.

Anju sry i have been lately cut frm all this cuz Exams n then all this crap drama. But i loved ur thoughts its like Nivrens intense love will never be shown by Cts all they knw is just to kill this hsow n the amzing pair