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Rani2011

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Once again nice analysis Anju.
Yes, I agree with u. Love, understanding is only one sided. She has taken him for granted or what?
Now she will apologize to everyone,they will forgive her. Viren looked as if he has already forgiven her. Then she will be treated as mahan for putting her life in jeopardy & saving the family etc etc

I didn't like today's episode as well. Except that the bhiji track ended. God, it took more than a week!!
I don't know how they will show all the open ends in 5 episodes. They will rush everything now..

I feel bad for the actors who opted this show. They have done whatever the script demanded, the CTs who have ruined everything.

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lams

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Anju I hate the CTs ...they have destroyed Nivren and they have made it a pathetic serial ..I have no words ... and am glad that BJ track is over ..that rubbish is out of the way ..and now in a fast forward manner they are gonna end it 😡

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samin6

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

.Hi Anju, I wanted a precap. You know love in this case is not one sided. But Viren had more occasions to show his love and also is had as he said did not care for anyone except nivi even himself (remember the line Tum mere liye bhaghban ki wo dua ho...). Nivi loves Viren too, but because he loves her and was the one who did for her more then anyone else ( in stalking episodes and in marriage). To her others are imp too but that does not may be mean she does not love Viren. As she herself said.. when you love you care for no one.
And yes she does not love Viren as much as he loves him. But consider that Viren loved her since childhood when she did not even notice his existance. Viren only had her to love, where as she had once Sid, the out of sid and then Viren to learn to love. So that enough accounts for less love. Put on top her preoccupation in family and people giving her duties so that she did not even have time to conc on her marriage and love. The only time she could was when they were working in the office, and our dearest CTs decided not to show us much romance at that time. But her love is increasing.

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zarmeeno

@zarmeeno

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: samin096
.Hi Anju, I wanted a precap. You know love in this case is not one sided. But Viren had more occasions to show his love and also is had as he said did not care for anyone except nivi even himself (remember the line Tum mere liye bhaghban ki wo dua ho...). Nivi loves Viren too, but because he loves her and was the one who did for her more then anyone else ( in stalking episodes and in marriage). To her others are imp too but that does not may be mean she does not love Viren. As she herself said.. when you love you care for no one.
And yes she does not love Viren as much as he loves him. But consider that Viren loved her since childhood when she did not even notice his existance. Viren only had her to love, where as she had once Sid, the out of sid and then Viren to learn to love. So that enough accounts for less love. Put on top her preoccupation in family and people giving her duties so that she did not even have time to conc on her marriage and love. The only time she could was when they were working in the office, and our dearest CTs decided not to show us much romance at that time. But her love is increasing.

Samina on many occassions she also had the opportunity to show her love for him but she never did. I always say one thing that one can always find the time for the person one loves and care. Like the people we love and care no matter how much busy we are we always take out the time from our busy schedules to call them and meet them and show them we care and from that other person realises that yes you care and people who are not close to us we always give them the excuses oh we are so busy, we have jobs, kids and the house. Nivi manages to find time for everybody excepts Viren. Viren is last on her priority list. Like when she was totally obssessed with Dewitta. Did prepare Viren his breakfast but was not with him. If he only wants breakfast even a servant can do that and serve him but the BT and dinner time is for husband and wife to sit together, eat together and talk and that refreshens both of them. When ur husbands sees ur smile on the breakfast table he looks forward to the hard day ahead coz he has the strength by just seeing his wife smiling face and when comes home and if the wife greets him with a smiling face he gets refreshed and is not tired anymore. I know that . She has repeatdly taken all the decisions herself and have actually imposed her decisions on Viren. But whenever Viren just even wants to go out with her she simply refuses. SHe is not even ready to give him her time, she is never ready to go out alone with him oh how can I go I have so much work at home. We all wives out there know that housework never gets done that does not mean that we don't spend time with our husbands. We will have the next day to finish our work and if not then what r servants for.

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Anju

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Zarmeen loved your post. Yes if a spouse sees the smiling face of his or her loved one then the whole stress, tiredness of the day is gone. The company and attention of the spouse is necessary and stress buster but Nivi never understood importance of Viren. He is the one who lightens down the whole atmosphere but he only looks for his Nivi.

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minu2011

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Nice post Anju. CTs ka kya kehna. I have no expectations left.
But I did like today's epi (I don't care about the fight scenes and they weren't so well done either) and I really liked that Viren understood and sensed nivi's dilemma and problem and did not force a confrontation. It was amazing how small his own loss seems to him when he sees nivi so worried. He gives her the choice to tell him or not, and respects her choice when she chooses not to. And then follows her. His love is unique and so deep. They've shown that well. and I liked that it has matured to the point that it transcends his own disappointments -- such a contrast to his earlier insecurities. His love is unconditional. He does not ask for anything in return -- true love does not demand reciprocation nor expect it, it just is. Nivi loves him too...and I felt today that she did not tell him or the others because she did not want anyone else involved or put in harm's way -- whether or not that was wise that is a different matter. And she has faith in viren's love for her and hers for him too. Though her love is less openly expressed...It is not what we want to see, but given what the cts are showing us, maybe we can find some positivity in their love...for our own sakes!

very glad the bhaiji track is over.

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*Resham*

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

Its completely CT's to be blamed for..and not the characters on the show who hs been scripted by these ppl...perfect analysis anju...I srsly dont expect them to show something good now...btter end it with some nivren scenes

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hebasamiya

@hebasamiya

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Once again loved your analysis. The only good thing about today's episode was the end of Bhaiyaji that's why I loved it. Atleast next week we dont have that stupid track. But the way they end it 👎🏼. I like the entry of Viren sood and the way he looked at Nivi and Nivi couldn't really see him in his eyes. After that all filmy. CT is really blessed to have such a talented actors but what's the use because CT is not creative enough to make use of such talented actors. Rajan Shahi is also letting them ruin the show 😔

I wonder what they have in store for us next week as there was no precap. Hope CCBM ends with a positive note so that we have some good memories cuz this week has just made us bitter, sour, angry and frustrated. Hopefully actors get new shows with CT and producers which really and truly care about their show and the feelings of the viewers watching the show.

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Dilbole_ShiOmRu

@Dilbole_ShiOmRu

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Posted: 14 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: minu2011
Nice post Anju. CTs ka kya kehna. I have no expectations left.
But I did like today's epi (I don't care about the fight scenes and they weren't so well done either) and I really liked that Viren understood and sensed nivi's dilemma and problem and did not force a confrontation. It was amazing how small his own loss seems to him when he sees nivi so worried. He gives her the choice to tell him or not, and respects her choice when she chooses not to. And then follows her. His love is unique and so deep. They've shown that well. and I liked that it has matured to the point that it transcends his own disappointments -- such a contrast to his earlier insecurities. His love is unconditional. He does not ask for anything in return -- true love does not demand reciprocation nor expect it, it just is. Nivi loves him too...and I felt today that she did not tell him or the others because she did not want anyone else involved or put in harm's way -- whether or not that was wise that is a different matter. And she has faith in viren's love for her and hers for him too. Though her love is less openly expressed...It is not what we want to see, but given what the cts are showing us, maybe we can find some positivity in their love...for our own sakes!

very glad the bhaiji track is over.

Minu I understand what are you saying but as a viewers we do want to see the expression of love in one or the other form from the person either by deeds, taking care etc. We couldn't feel the love for Viren from Nivi's side which we could feel from Viren's side even after revelation of him as stalker. They haven't shown her loving each and everyone equally but shown she is obsessed for few like Divya and dweeta and take her loved ones for granted like NT dadi, keshav and Viren. Viren comes in last of her priority list. None of her actions shows the love and care for Viren. She doesn't consult Viren while making any decision just take a decision and impose on Viren without thinking it's affect on Viren. Like decision of not having child or now dealing with bhaiji.

I agree she loves other and doesn't care about herself. She can be a good soul but not samajdaar as she doesn't think pros and cons of actions she takes. A samajdaar person will take actions after thinking how his or her actions will affect her or her family. This was like a normal woman who get scared and didn't reporting about crime due to fear causing harm to the complete family.

This is just CT's showed Bhaiji was releasing everyone but in normal case he would have killed all of them so that no reporting can be done as they can anyway recognize him.

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minu2011

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Posted: 14 years ago

#20

Yes Rachu the way the story has been written and scripted by the cts, they have shown nivi not expressing her love for viren as much as he does. It comes across as one sided, I agree. what to do. I don't want to give up on nivi or hate her. I'm just disappointed in the story's writers. That is why Abidah's version is the one I want to believe in!

Edited by minu2011 - 14 years ago

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