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Anisha/Habiba Barun Sobti ;-)

@Anisha_91

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Posted: 14 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Sofna
Apt intro n title Rach.🤗... I'm confused what exactly the Cv'z r trying to portray..😕..

Viren i undrstnd where he's coming from.....altho his actions seem childish😆...His trying to aggaravate this family into 'feeling'....Cz they arn't..whatever DS said after Viren truth....being soft towards him for few days...bending rules..hw a decison of then for good can turn out opposite...they are just words....The whole family except VD n nw CC to some extent..are just tolerating him n his antics.....their expression alone says it all as soon as he appears infront of them.

Viren said so true..when he wasnt doing bad he was constantly accused of it..now he will live up to that reputation..This is automatic reaction..the rebellious attitude...!!!

Nivi is wanting to help Viren, trying to mke him realise how much his family loves him. What undertsnding can she put in to his heart when he cannot feel it himself...

I cnt decide who's side she's on....atm Viren needs her most....Many of the things he may say n do will seem harsh.....But Nivi knows the inner Viren....She is aware he is doing all this to push her n all away...she shud not get affected...she herself said after returning the party night...'what Viren alone has suffered, all of them put togethr havn't suffered that much'....That alone shud be her motivation to crack this facade he's putting up, he is starved of love, attention, a simple smile from the elders when he walks in, little things like making food he likes, to punished/scolded when he does wrong, praised when done right.....Given his own respect as a human being.....!!!

The Cv'z somewhere destroyed the track with having Viren as Stalker.....even then it may hav not been as bad if they hadn't shown Nivi to be physically attacked 🤢🤢

Sofna Di!!! 🤗 Heyyy how are you doing Di???

Di i agree with you Nivi has to be stronger she knows the inner Viren she also knows how stubborn he is so she should not get affected she has to be stronger. When she promised to do this she knew that there are going to be many hurdles but she should be able to overcome that without getting affected. at the end of the day he is seriously hurt and he suffered far too much so this should be her motive as you have said. She has to be a lot stronger than this cos Viren is far too stubborn (awwwww) lol x

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Monica

@moniluvskinshuk

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Posted: 14 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: EijazKhanMyJaan
i just cnt wait 4 tomm epi..maybe we will get somthing new...😛

congratzz for da new thread...Nivren and CCBM Rox..😳

So true yaar , Even I can't wait for tomm epi . I want 2 see wht exactlyy hapenns b/w NivRen whch forced Viren 2 say dis 2 VD ?😕

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Diya Poonith

@diyaloveskinny

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Posted: 14 years ago

#23

Its clear it will be very difficult for Nivi to get back Viren, But once she confesses her love to him and makes in confident that she is always there for him and she will stand by him whole life, am sure gradually he will change, But even now he is not bad, yesterday his expressions showed it all, after Nivi left the room and he threw the clothes again from the cupboard, he checked if anyone was there and he made the room tidy again, and after that his expressions showed it all that he is trying his best to bring hatred in everyone;s heart for him, But I am sure the whole family may be angry with him, but Nivi will never get angry on him, as she is fully aware he is pretending, and he still has an innocent heart

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Monica

@moniluvskinshuk

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Posted: 14 years ago

#24

I agrre rachu Sods r behavng wid Viren asif heis some burden on them n they want 2 remove tht burden wid help of Nivi . RIDICULOUS .

no1 is tryng 2 understand his pain , Do any1 tried 2 talk 2 him in alone , make him sit n ask abt his feelings , reasons for his hatred 2wds his family ? no . nt evn VD who loves Viren so much . If she is nt geeting then wht 2 say abt those heartless peoples .

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Asma

@anjaani07

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Posted: 14 years ago

#25

Hey guys, just got back from watching the epi!

I've read a few people's analysis and thoughts and b4 i go on to my thoughts on Nivi-Viren, i just want to say that i really liked the PT-NT scenes today. They were unexpected and kind of sweet, i like that he is making an effort, dher se hi sahi but it's nice to see in these troubled times!

Ok, don't yell at me, i saw in the previous thread that a lot of people were angry at Viren after the pre-cap etc but i don't agree I'm sorry. I was kind of expecting this sort of thing from him, these past few days have been funny and he's been making Nivi smile with all his attempts but it was bound to hurt at some point and this seems like it was the start of it. He's carrying on with his goal of pushing everyone (especially Nivi) away and is just going a step further with it.

I think Nivi needs to tell him how she feels, maybe once he says outright that he wants a divorce? She needs to lay it out straight EXACTLY how she feels about him and why she is sticking around because right now, he probably thinks she is only staying with him out of a sense of responsibility, as a dutiful wife trying to help her husband rather than because she loves him with all her heart. Once she tells him, she can leave it up to him to take it how he wants but she needs to say it at least! I personally think they need to separate for a bit so that he can feel what it is like without her in his life but she needs to tell him b4 this happens.

The rest of the family, i don't know what to say, i'm so sad and angry at them! I just feel like they are only putting up with him out of guilt and he knows it which is why he is behaving this way more. They don't see the person Nivi sees inside at all and that's so sad, no wonder he is so angry and hurt all the time! They need to show him that they are doing this out of love and not guilt...

Anyway, my thoughts are jumbled at the moment but that's vaguely what i'm feeling. The pre-cap is not an issue with me right now because they are always misleading so will watch it tomorrow and see what happens.

One more thing i have to mention, Viren i know Nandu is ur one true bandu but SERIOUSLY??!! Aur koi mila nahi Valentines celebrate karne ko?? Tumhari peeche ek lambhi line lagi hai and u choose Nandu to take out 🤣 But aww bless, did u see how happy Nandu was??!! 😆

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Anisha/Habiba Barun Sobti ;-)

@Anisha_91

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Posted: 14 years ago

#26

Exactly Diya. He clearly loves Nivi and no one can deny that. If he didn't would he care if she burnt her hand and was hurting when she picked his clothes up?? would he be affected would he feel the pain instead of Nivi when she burnt her hand? also he made an excuse for her not to make anymore roti that day when he got hurt. All these are and evidence that Viren LOVES Nivi. He is a guy very much hurt at heart and you know his pain is very understandable because he tolerated his pain caused my his own family. now what can get worser than that. Having a family felt to him like he doesn't have one. I seriously feel for him x

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Rani2011

@Rani2011

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Posted: 14 years ago

#27

Hello everyone.
Thanks for the new thread Rach! very apt title you have got👏

I agree with u, milee & sauji. Right now, he is just craving for their love & care. not sympathy. These sood's r not really getting it, poor Viren I feel pity on him.

I liked PT-NT scene. PT has realized his mistakes, is trying to be good with his mother & brother. NT dadi's words have great impact on him
Milee, I agree with u here as well. These sood's have to learn the manners from NT dadi :)
Divya is trying to woo her husband on V-day????? well, it seemed like working, (after all it's HL's direction😉)Sid had smile on his face.
But, I don't know what NivRen up to.
According to the promos, they r going to get seperated. I don't know whether it will go to that extent...
Anyway, my thoughts r weird. when I think of one thing something else comes up so I end up writing points briefly in my own way. So I think it's better to read all ur posts & enjoy. rather than writing 😊

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Monica

@moniluvskinshuk

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Posted: 14 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: friendforall
Its clear it will be very difficult for Nivi to get back Viren, But once she confesses her love to him and makes in confident that she is always there for him and she will stand by him whole life, am sure gradually he will change, But even now he is not bad, yesterday his expressions showed it all, after Nivi left the room and he threw the clothes again from the cupboard, he checked if anyone was there and he made the room tidy again, and after that his expressions showed it all that he is trying his best to bring hatred in everyone;s heart for him, But I am sure the whole family may be angry with him, but Nivi will never get angry on him, as she is fully aware he is pretending, and he still has an innocent heart

Yes Di like it is said naa ki ishq chpaye nahi chupta , same is haenning wid Viren rght now n tht is wht Viren s scared of . He knows ki he may give up if for some more days he will intentionally hurt Her becozz he can't do it more n tht is why He is tryngg his best 2 push away Nivi as soon as possible

yaa He is innocent n veryy veryy good hearted man n yest He proved it , n agan n again by applying same idea for irritating his family by throwing his cothes here n there shows tht He is nt at all a bad guy . otherwise he would hav done many thngs whch could hav provedd him bad . but his dis little childish cutee tantrums only proves ki he is gd .

Article suggested tht Viren will give all d money 2 charity n Family will again asusual blame him n will confront him n would try 2 give him punishment . but No1 will ask or realize tht Whtever Viren did , He atleast used it for gd . He stole d money but he used it for noble cause . Isin'it d enough proff for his gdness ?

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Anisha/Habiba Barun Sobti ;-)

@Anisha_91

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Posted: 14 years ago

#29

ASMA DI!!! I LOVED YOU ANALYSIS!!!

and Di i agree with you. i am not at all angry at him for his behaviour. It was expected. I mean come on this is not the time when he would appreciate what she does.We just can't at any cost expect a nice reply from him now can we? He is far to angry for anything like that. He thinks its all sympathy and Nivi has to be strong and deal with it.

Its true Nivi has to confess its high time she does. He needs to be able to trust her he needs to know that she isn't doing it just because she is his wife and its her 'responsibility' he needs to know that its for love, she is with him cos she LOVES HIM!!! lol sorry just got a little frustrated then hence the capital ate 'loves him' lmao

I also say don't believe the precap this is exactly the reaction the CTs wanted from the viewers but sorry i still think Viren's behaviour is understandable lol x

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Asma

@anjaani07

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Posted: 14 years ago

#30

Moni, hi jaan, i agree with ur points and also ur points in ur analysis in the last thread 🤗

I read the article this morning and the first thing i thought when i read he gives the money to charity was that it was a nice thing to do! Then i realised that the family wouldnt think so and felt sad at how they wud tell him off again

I also was hoping that Nivi would offer to make the karela for him even if he refused. And Viren is right, why is there so much silence as soon as he walks in?!! I don't understand, he is ur son, grandson, ur blood and he is hurt and in pain, why are u not showing more love towards him?! You know, when i used to watch earlier epis, where YD was favouritising Sid, i used to wonder is Viren adopted or something! That was before we really knew anything about the past but it once crossed my mind. I just don't understand this family at all!! It seems as tho they are 'putting up with him' in the hope that NIVI will make him 'better'!! Why are they not trying??!

PS: sorry to rant but i am so annoyed at them!

Edited by anjaani07 - 14 years ago

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