NivRen: Missing love in relation - Page 5

Originally posted by: anjaani07

Hi Anisha jaan, thanks for liking my analysis sweetie🤗 I always feel my thoughts are scattered and maybe it doesnt make proper sense like it does in my head!!

It's ok, im frustrated too, i want her to tell him she loves him, SHOW him she loves him!! Maybe his response will not be so good but at least it's out there in the open and he can't hide from it. He does need to trust her and he can't properly unless she is clear about her feelings for him.

Pre-cap yep, there's no point worrying over it yet or getting angry, the CT's have done this so many times its un-countable! He is hurt, he's had this hurt inside him for a looong time, it won't go overnight and it will be painful for those close to him and Nivi is the closest to him!! Hope that made sense

Originally posted by: sahuja

dont u all thinks its interesting to see...that now nivi is part of the family... and no one bothers if she is standing and laughing with them like today's hall scene ...and viren who is supposed to be the son of this house...is no where in picture...infact everyone becomes silent when he comes... i thought may be nivi would say something and break the silence..but no use...i dont understand by keeping quiet and patient how she can prove to viren that everyone loves him... there has to be a plan..where viren can really feel a part of the family... the sense of belonging... if everyone is so happy if he is not around..and when he comes they become uncomfortable... then how can he call himself part of the family...

Originally posted by: Rani2011

thanks rani...i am getting frustated that nivi is crossing her limits in terms of testing viren's patience... earlier also i said when she was pleading ds to stop viren....that i would have actually liked her ready to leave the house with viren..and then let ds stop viren bec of nivi...atleast then viren would have known that nivi is always going to be with him no matter what...now the way they showed us...nothing is clear to him... not even nivi's feelings . its one thing to respect elders..and another thing to keep quiet and let them do what they think is right... atleast ds realised he made a mistake of sending him away...but what abt ysd...she still doesnt feel sorry for viren.... first when she said why wait for viren for breakfast...and then today...saying no to karela... what kind of dadi is she and does she really love viren?

Edited by sahuja - 14 years ago

Originally posted by: anjaani07

I agree 100%, i felt so bad for him today, it's better for him if he wasn't in that environment at all really, it's not helping him. And Nivi, i was WILLING her to say something or ask him something, or just say anything but even she didnt...ther is such a thing as being too patient and the moment passing u by...