Originally posted by: anusonuraj
I am not bashing you. Are you afraid of Sid may go back with Nivi'like many? Looking at the story'.Nivi is Sid's girl not Viren's! He snatched her out of him. As brother'.cousin brother'. he should at least confront him before he asked her to tie the knot.
Viren didnt confront Sid before getting married coz Nivi didnt wanted anyone to know that she was backing out of Sid's life coz of her sister Divya.......who almost obsessively was in love with Sid.....(i mean Sid's name all over her blanket was scary).......n Viren was just doing what she wanted........though getting married was his plan.....but Nivi cudnt think of anything to let Sid know that she was over him.Divya's character does not match up with Sid's serenity. Would you be happy if you were to be married a women like Divya? And how would you feel if your family and friends tell you to close your eyes and take him as your wife?Thats true........noone can be happy with a wife like Divya........but who knew that Divya after marriage....wud turn out like this.......Sid bechara....also must have thought that since Divya is his friend....so she might be a good companion also.I am not surprised because lot people are expecting Nivi to do the same thing too'whether crook or a criminal take him๐'.this is your destiny. Pathetic! Having such a notion in your head? I think in India we need more Gandhi's or somebody has to rise up to educate what is women's right?๐๐ CT can't reverse the story'its too late even though its fiction. Although I believe she will change over a period of time'it may be too late for her. My dear, one cannot give up on love so easily!๐I totally agree....that its pathetic.....to accept someone who married u with wrong intentions......But most women in india think....whatever the reason......he is ur husband....so u've to accept him.
I think its wrong....coz now the modern women have all the right to speak thier minds n live thier lives thier own way.....but i guess.....that is what india is all about....its the cultures.....the conservativeness....the approach to things......in its unique way is still deeply rooted in all indian women......so no matter how modern they get....somewhere deep inside they still think the old fashioned way.The bottom line is....no matter how bad, cruel thier husbands are....they'll still support them in all ups n downs.Please forgive me if I heart your feeling!!๐U have a right to express ur thoughts.