Originally posted by: asyadada
Well said Bani and keep WRITING YOUR OPINIONS! Don't worry about hurt feelings b/c we are all adults here who can value and listen to each others opinions without feeling hurt at a drop of a hat.Promos like life are in flux and always changing. What is reality today is not reality tomorrow. For example: On the day of my wedding I was very happy and excited to start a new chapter of my life with my husband, but who new that 3 years down the road that happiness would fade and my life would become a burden which I wanted to escape. I had two choices, I could stay married for all of the reasons girls are told to do so or I could end my marriage knowing that I would be viewed as divorcee, thus never to be married again due to cultural restraints placed on us. I took the difficult road and eventually found my happiness again. But my point is, life is never as we expect it to be no matter how solid our life goals are. Thus it is true for Nivi and Sid as per the original promos. Yes THEY FELL IN LOVE, but their families had issues that were to huge for either of them to tackle and they both made decisions that benefitted others instead of themselves and now find themselves at the juncture they're at. So please don't place all of your faith in the original promo b/c now we are in new phase and chapter of CCBM.
I watch a show for the track. And really never bother about a promo. As I mentioned earlier that I am myself confused the way Nivedita's character sketch has been done especially in the last two months. Its very usual for a girl like Nivedita to think of sacrificing her love for her cousin and that was what she tried to do, till Sid intervened and made her understand that how come Divya live with someone who does not love her.
I feel Nivedita's character could have been better sketched by the creatives, where along with her sacrifical mode, her abilities as an able daughter or granddaughter or elder sister would not have been compromised. I am not concerned about who she marries and it is very straightforward now that Sid will accept Divya and Nivedita will accept Viren, no matter what happens. This is a show and this is bound to happen now. Had it been a real life incident, no truth had ever come out, Divya and Sid along with Nivedita and Viren would have done justice to their marriage from the first day of their married life. Love etc does not exist in real world at least now, what exists is attitude.