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urvash

@urvash

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

is everyone saying that if you do not agree with your husband he must replace you with his previous girlfriens?????? that says a lot as these comments are coming from women????? i am shocked!!!!!!!! what would you do if it happebs to you.

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dhokai

@dhokai

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

i also agree when woman is fighting for her rights/thaughts /love it seems majority womans are only enemies of woman.why?because of krish?donot create negative vibration for rajni.Yes rajni is acting as very strong bahu that is not accepted by whole majority of woman world.

Regarding paulomi ,she was loving krish that is why she was behavng what ever krish/yasoda was saying.with her krish was behaving like child so she was enjoying ownership status of krish.Here krish is in so much of love of rajni so he is trying to believe whatever rajni says.same time he has ego of husband (not child).so he takes husband wala behaviour.

for any industraliest there is always other solution.if u r in us/canada/australia and suddenly u r fired .pl tell me have if u praised your owner on that day for his act,be true.if yes then all of u girls have hak to scold rajni.

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unniknairtcr

@unniknairtcr

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

even if we dislike rajni,from her behavior,most of us wont suggest bringing poulami to their house,or scene.

i dont like serials in which bahu r treated like servants & sasuma ruling them like hell.

still i dont like rajni s character,exactly dont know why.not supporting krish also.

we prefer bahus a bit shy or ask others permission b4 doing anything at least in the 1st few days. doing & saying whatever she likes in a sasural we really cannot accept..

if the in laws r terrible or they involve in each & everything,or dont give any privacy or peace of mind to the new bride,then rajni s behavior can be justified.

here she does nt have to raise her vioce,or interfere in their matters.we dont want this much strong bahu,for what? to bring darar in a happy marriage,where noone else do anything to destroy their marriage,she herself do that.

Edited by unniknairtcr - 13 years ago

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HawttInBlackGK

@HawttInBlackGK

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

great post and even though i do agree wit some of ur points i kinda feel that the character sketch was complete opposite of what they are showing us as rajni! i remember reading an article which said that rajni does whatever she is told to but here i am just seeing her as a person who is so very stubborn and feels the need to prove her point come what may; she fails to analyze the situation IMO plus also fails to see whats the best for EVERYONE; instead she just looks at it thru one perspective and that is it for her. Yes it is kinda annoying seeing her like this but i wouldnt have minded that if that was her initial character sketch... but here i'm just seeing rajni get overconfident by the hour which is completely different and a complete regression from rajni's initial characterisation

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PrincessRu

@PrincessRu

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Its not about being a doormat bahu or not voicing her own opinion, but its the TECHNIQUE she is using. Also, when you dont have in depth knowledge of a particular situation, you do not have much right to comment on changing the process.

Also, Rajni EMOTIONALLY BLACKMAILS Krish SO MUCH!! She has said time and again, "Mujhe laga aap meri parvaah karte hain" and even the comment when she said, I dint feed you to end the fight, I fed you cz you had not eaten the whole day.

Men are more practical and women are more emotional, thats why a woman succeeds in making a house a home and a man succeeds in crude business decisions.

I'm a working independent girl, who's not financially dependent on any man, but there are ways to put your point forward. Thats where Rajni lacks and Paulomi gains.

Its a myth that education spoils a girls sanskaar. Actually it is just the opposite...! And by showing Rajni's behaviour, they are just establishing that fact.

Rajni is a spoilt, headstrong and childish girl. She has no considerations for others feelings and is going to spoil the fun, loving and healthy atmosphere of the Vaishnav family...!

The message is: LOVE IS NOT THE ONLY THING REQUIRED FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE, COMPATIBILITY MATTERS TOO!

Edited by PrincessRu - 13 years ago

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Hina

@hinz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: PrincessRu
Its not about being a doormat bahu or not voicing her own opinion, but its the TECHNIQUE she is using. Also, when you dont have in depth knowledge of a particular situation, you do not have much right to comment on changing the process.

Also, Rajni EMOTIONALLY BLACKMAILS Krish SO MUCH!! She has said time and again, "Mujhe laga aap meri parvaah karte hain" and even the comment when she said, I dint feed you to end the fight, I fed you cz you had not eaten the whole day.

Men are more practical and women are more emotional, thats why a woman succeeds in making a house a home and a man succeeds in crude business decisions.

I'm a working independent girl, who's not financially dependent on any many, but there are ways to put your point forward. Thats where Rajni lacks and Paulomi gains.

Its a myth that education spoils a girls sanskaar. Actually it is just the opposite...! And by showing Rajni's behaviour, they are just establishing that fact.

Rajni is a spoilt, headstrong and childish girl. She has no considerations for others feelings and is going to spoil the fun, loving and healthy atmosphere of the Vaishnav family...!

The message is: LOVE IS NOT THE ONLY THING REQUIRED FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE, COMPATIBILITY MATTERS TOO!

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where's the love tab on your post ?
welcome to the forum... I so agree with every single word u said

the reason I didnt comment after a few comments is because this topic was being misinterpreted ...glad u put the point across with so much clarity...🤗

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PrincessRu

@PrincessRu

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

Thanks so much HINZ!!! <3

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Hina

@hinz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Oh and one other major point I wanted to clear is that we're only talking about the characters here...I hope its not mistaken for the actor/actress playing the role...and I dont even wanna get started on that 😉

@PrincessRu - 😊 call me Hina(ben)

@TM - I'm so glad you brought this up and now we can rest the case if ppl agree of course 😆

Edited by hinz - 13 years ago

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acjbmb01

@acjbmb01

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Posted: 13 years ago

#29

@PrincessRu...you have made some very good points. Compatibility is needed to keep a relationship strong overtime. I understand now that most viewers have problems with Rajni's actions and have nothing against her speaking up. Thank you for clearing that!

@hinz...I was glad I started this discussion too. It helped clear a lot of doubts I had about what issues viewers have with Rajni's character.

Thank you all for your detailed and thoughtful replies!

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Bvfan123

@Bvfan123

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Posted: 13 years ago

#30

So it is Capitalism against Socialism in the Vaishnav family. Both are equally valid and equally important points.

In Krish's defense: He is running a corporation and shareholders\owners are the top priority

In Rajni's defense: One can never forget the society especially a family that stands for everything taught by Krishna.

I think this is not just a family dispute, it is a social and global dispute.. Remember Cold War!

That's what happens and that's what will happen between Rajni and Krish 😆

I think she was completely justified in putting her thoughts forward. Jab samjhanese kaam na bane to harkar pe utarna hi padega! And since its her home, her family and her business she has all the rights to show right against wrong. I think I would do the same.

This just goes to show she is highly principled, kind at heart and feels for those in need. She gets that from her roots and thats who she is and Krish had accepted her that way.

I believe she is not wrong from a business ethics point of view, this decision will go a long way in building their business reputation, (companies spend millions on marketing to have this) improving employee satisfaction (companies strive to get this). Being uneducated and coming from a non business background has got nothing to do with this, her thoughts come from real life experience and that is a00 times more important and valid than a forecasted balance sheet.

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