Rhea Chakraborty is a real trooper. Wooow!! - Page 16

Originally posted by: pathaka

Nope

Family friends and girlfriends etc can only extent emotional support. They can’t be the regular therapist / healer for anyone if they aren’t qualified with a degree to heal mental illnesses

I have seen mental illness first hand in my family and it takes a toll on the people related to the person…they want to be supportive at all times but everyone has their own individual stressors in their lives …to expect them to always be in a position to heal/ calm someone is ridiculous…everyone’s a human being and everyone is struggling in some way or the other …to the point that people dealing with mental health issues of their family members sometimes run into mental health issues themselves…

This is why there is numbers to call, mental health awareness campaigns so that people experiencing issues know where to look for help….family can extend support by showing a bit of patience, financially paying for the medical bills etc …but they cannot sit with you and heal ur mental health illness …..as difficult as this sounds, we have to do that ourselves

Blaming Rhea for sushanth is ridiculous imo

I have deal with mental illness patient too that extreme that are violent and can kill in anger... at least with proper treatment like medicine and people they like, they can control themselves very well ... I have studied their behavior too... I still don't think Sushant was that extreme that he beat her or kill her in anger... unfortunately there isn't any medical reports etc that one can see... saying nothing can help except is weird.. because I have done things to help them as well

Originally posted by: YourCat

I have deal with mental illness patient too that extreme that are violent and can kill in anger... at least with proper treatment like medicine and people they like, they can control themselves very well ... I have studied their behavior too... I still don't think Sushant was that extreme that he beat her or kill her in anger... unfortunately there isn't any medical reports etc that one can see... saying nothing can help except is weird.. because I have done things to help them as well

Err one dosent have to kill and hit and do aggressive things …mental health can also mean people who are depressed / anxious and need constant validation, pep talks , having their chores done for them, having reminders sent to them for every little thing, someone needing constant help with their mental breakdowns / anxiety episodes, friends or family missing out in social events to support them/ be with them

All this can also drain the patience out of their family and loved ones lives …

If someone’s tank is only half full…they can’t fill someone else’s empty tank up…you need to go to a service station to fill up your tank…just like u need to go to a therapist to recover …not to a family member …most of your family members are dealing with their own issues and career stress, relationship stress, divorce, health issues, financial stress…they don’t always have much to give you in terms of emotional support
Sometimes they do…but not all the time ..no one can

Originally posted by: pathaka

Err one dosent have to kill and hit and do aggressive things …mental health can also mean people who are depressed / anxious and need constant validation, pep talks , having their chores done for them, having reminders sent to them for every little thing, someone needing constant help with their mental breakdowns / anxiety episodes, friends or family missing out in social events to support them/ be with them

All this can also drain the patience out of their family and loved ones lives …

If someone’s tank is only half full…they can’t fill someone else’s empty tank up…you need to go to a service station to fill up your tank…just like u need to go to a therapist to recover …not to a family member …most of your family members are dealing with their own issues and career stress, relationship stress, divorce, health issues, financial stress…they don’t always have much to give you in terms of emotional support
Sometimes they do…but not all the time ..no one can

True... note also that when you speak like that, one can know that you actually dealt with one...

Originally posted by: YourCat

True... note also that when you speak like that, one can know that you actually dealt with one...

I was the one that others dealt with

And I saw what it did to them

And I sought professional help instead of relying on them for emotional support

Originally posted by: pathaka

I was the one that others dealt with

And I saw what it did to them

And I sought professional help instead of relying on them for emotional support

People do not have to validate their endorsement of well-researched medical treatments with personal stories of disability. If you are sick, go to a doctor shouldn't be debateable. Lol

PS. Really proud of you for seeking help and hopefully you continue to raise upwards. :)

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

People do not have to validate their endorsement of well-researched medical treatments with personal stories of disability. If you are sick, go to a doctor shouldn't be debateable. Lol

Not just the stigma, but the symptoms are difficult to discern sometimes

…if I have a persistent stomach ache, I will go to the doc..,

Mental health issues and related symptoms are a bit tough to diagnose

People don’t quite understand the symptoms unless they have experienced it…even ppl who experience it for the first time can’t recognise what they feel…takes a while to realise if it’s a bad phase in life or a health issue

Originally posted by: pathaka

true.but mental health is not as cut and dry as general health maybe.

Not just the stigma, but the symptoms are difficult to discern sometimes

…if I have a persistent stomach ache, I will go to the doc..,

Mental health issues and related symptoms are a bit tough to diagnose

People don’t quite understand the symptoms unless they have experienced it…even ppl who experience it for the first time can’t recognise what they feel…takes a while to realise if it’s a bad phase in life or a health issue

I am a proponent of psychiatric healthcare being as accesible as possible. Everyone should be in therapy. The kind of pressures we go through in today's world, everyone needs mental healthcare.

Originally posted by: pathaka

I was the one that others dealt with

And I saw what it did to them

And I sought professional help instead of relying on them for emotional support

It is the same thing.. i did not deal with it but used to being the patient to psychiatrist... forget the doctors even the people working at the counter can be a witness for me... And that is my problem with believing Rhea, when it comes to bring witness, she brings a fraud doctor ..

Still I don't mean Rhea should take care until she herself is exhaused.. But at least maybe a simple message to the father saying he is not well, he is depressed? Not sure how she diagnosed this if no one can force them to get treatment.. would have save her ....

Originally posted by: Jaalipiya

And what could this agenda be by people in this thread supporting sushant ?

If they can be accused of having an agenda , then people supporting rhea by calling sushant mentally sick and a druggie, abusing his family must be nothing but genuine and compassionate only according to your logic??

I have no bone to pick in this whatever, but there is nothing wrong with mentally ill let alone some agenda. Sucidal ideation is caused by psychiatric disorders. That is medically attested. Mental health is not a joke; this much stigma against is embarrassing.

Rhea could be worse than Hitler and yet suicide would still remain a mental health issue

Originally posted by: pathaka

I was the one that others dealt with

And I saw what it did to them

And I sought professional help instead of relying on them for emotional support