I am built for sh*t

Honestly, I really am sinking in self-pity right now and will probably regret saying this, but it's like I am built for sh*t.

After losing my job, I started thinking and was like I have been a nice person all my life, but faced so many adverse situations. Honestly, I have the worst luck in the world.

I've never let it define me but I think everyone has a breaking point, and I'm close to mine.

My luck is so, so bad.

I think everyone knows d context of how I lost a job and a man I loved.

I really don't deserve this (am not even saying it out of self-pity).

Minty g

Trust me, this is just a phase, it will go for sure. No matter you must be feeling that why this is happening with you only, but we all go through different kinds of Sh_ts, we all deal it daily.

Bas thoda Sabar rakho, sab theek ho jayega.

Surround yourself with positive people❤️ Hopefully things will get better for you❤️

Sorry to hear that.

Take a few days off and binge watch some Kdramas/romcoms/horror movies (whatever you like). Also cry it out, it helps. Makes you feel better, lighter. Go for long walks. Workout a little. Sleep in. Eat something nice.

And once you feel a little better, get back to looking for a good job (don't settle for the wrong one in a hurry). Meanwhile, maybe take up some online upskilling courses, so that you can show that in your CV during this gap.

Sh*t happens! Don't let it bog you down. You got this.

This too shall pass!

Sorry to hear that.

Is it about the new job and the new boss who would send you flowers and flirt with you and shit? Workplace romance, especially when there is a power equation involved, is always a mistake in my opinion.

I am sure you have learned your lessons and will approach your next job with better wisdom. Every ending has a new beginning. All the best!!

Originally posted by: mintyblue

Honestly, I really am sinking in self-pity right now and will probably regret saying this, but it's like I am built for sh*t.

After losing my job, I started thinking and was like I have been a nice person all my life, but faced so many adverse situations. Honestly, I have the worst luck in the world.

I've never let it define me but I think everyone has a breaking point, and I'm close to mine.

My luck is so, so bad.

I think everyone knows d context of how I lost a job and a man I loved.

I really don't deserve this (am not even saying it out of self-pity).

I lost my mother who was the ultimate love of my life in a span of 15 mins after having video call with her . She was hale and hearty and was waiting for my marriage but she couldn’t see that . She had just fractured her foot and the doctor tied a tight plaster due to which there was a clot in her blood which travelled to her heart . Such a case happens one in a lakh and my mother was that 1 person .

Hadn’t seen her for 3 years due to covid . Having Worst luck is relative 😊

Stay positive. Believe me, you will attract positivity towards you.

Negative thinking will just make things worse.

You need to have faith that whatever happens is for your better, because it's the truth.

If you lost your job, maybe it's because there's a better opportunity coming your way.

If you lost your love, maybe he wasn't good for you, and someone better is out there who is meant for you.

Hi MInty 😊

Why not indulge a bit in self-pity as you feel so low at the moment.

Exactly, you did NOT deserve it and these people don't deserve YOU. Be angry at them, call them every names you know...imagine what you would like to do to them...grill them, over low heat...and then, kick them out of your heart and mind...just say a big NO to the negativity they brought into your life!

How is the weather outside? Sunny? cloudy? windy? rainy? Step outside, even it's only on a balcony or the door...get nature into you by deeeeeeep breathing.

And then, remind, that you are a tough girl, a tough woman, a tough person...you will NOT allow anybody to destroy you and the nice and lovable human being you are ❤️

Think of it as miraculously freed up time to read all the books you couldn’t because you were busy with work and life? Get lost in those books you have been meaning to read so far but couldn’t.

I would start there. One step at a time. Not the whole staircase, friend.

Originally posted by: MrChatVsNorway

I lost my mother who was the ultimate love of my life in a span of 15 mins after having video call with her . She was hale and hearty and was waiting for my marriage but she couldn’t see that . She had just fractured her foot and the doctor tied a tight plaster due to which there was a clot in her blood which travelled to her heart . Such a case happens one in a lakh and my mother was that 1 person .

Hadn’t seen her for 3 years due to covid . Having Worst luck is relative 😊

That is rough. I am sorry to hear that. May her soul rest in paradise.