Neetu: Ranbir is not Joru Ke Ghulam - Page 2

Why r indian mothers n even fathers too obsessed with beta bahu relationship.

Even if beta is joru ka Ghulam what's the big deal. It's between him n his wife. Why should world or parents br bothered.

She should better wish that her son doesn't turn out like her husband in marriage

She is quite right here.

If a man sticks too much to wife, its a problem for parents.

If he sticks too much to his parents after marriage, its a problem for wife.

Balance is important. Usually the above type of men are mentally not very strong, They are either under their parent's influence or wife's influence.

And it happens in case of women too.

Kyunki saas bhi kabhi bhi thi has started kya? 🤪

A husband sticking to his wife should be totally normal. Parents need to let go when kids become adults, you don’t own a person forever. When they decide to build their life with someone, the focus should shift while still being a good adult child to your parents. They’ve always had a toxic relationship- she saw Katrina as compétition, that’s not normal.

Originally posted by: Porcupine

She is quite right here.

If a man sticks too much to wife, its a problem for parents.

If he sticks too much to his parents after marriage, its a problem for wife.

Balance is important. Usually the above type of men are mentally not very strong, They are either under their parent's influence or wife's influence.

And it happens in case of women too.

I cannot stand Neetu Kapoor ... comes across as a toxic mother-in-law from hell with all the nonsense she spouts.

Parents commenting and dispensing gyaan on their kid's marriage and relationships are always mega cringe.

You raised them. They are adults now. Your job is done. Let them live their lives and make their own decisions and choices. All parents should say is "I hope I raised them well enough to be able to make good choices and balanced decisions."

Lgta hai kitchen fights chaalu hogye😆

Originally posted by: IAmLuvBolly

I don’t know what she was thinking or what her intentions were, but everything went downhill when she used the phrase Joru Ke Ghulam. That has such a negative connotation.

I don't see anything wrong in what she said....First of all she did not say that Ranbir is not or is a Joru ka gulaam...she was talking in general....unless there is something more...I am basing off what you have posted.

I agree JKG is not a nice thing to say but then you have to remember she is from a different generation which is not as savvy or smart spoken as our current batch of actresses...or our feminists of today....when it comes to older actors and actresses....u will have to excuse their language.....😆Every generation has their own lingo to describe things....u might cringe at theirs's but trust me they might cringe at yours's

Hypothetically ...even if she was speaking about Ranbir because he is newly married these questions are asked....her answer was correct to the T.....a balance is necessary....whether its being Mama's boy or JKG😆

Except Neetu didn’t say what you have up in title. Whatever she spoke is right to the T. Whether it’s a Beta ya Beti, both needs to strike a balance between spouse and parents. Both are integral part of your life.

But since it’s Neetu, interpretations are fine. 😆

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

I don't see anything wrong in what she said....First of all she did not say that Ranbir is not or is a Joru ka gulaam...she was talking in general....unless there is something more...I am basing off what you have posted.

I agree JKG is not a nice thing to say but then you have to remember she is from a different generation which is not as savvy or smart spoken as our current batch of actresses...or our feminists of today....when it comes to older actors and actresses....u will have to excuse their language.....😆Every generation has their own lingo to describe things....u might cringe at theirs's but trust me they might cringe at yours's

Hypothetically ...even if she was speaking about Ranbir because he is newly married these questions are asked....her answer was correct to the T.....a balance is necessary....whether its being Mama's boy or JKG😆

A adult child is entitled to live his own life. Doesn't mean he should forget his parents. But if his wife makes the decisions in the house, it's not the mother's place to interfere as long as 2 consenting adults are involved.

Generation might be diff, but toxic is toxic. And its not about feminism though the anger gets directed to daughters in law. It's about parents needing to understand their control ends when the child becomes an adult.

And if a son is not paying attention to mom, it doesn't automatically follow that the daughter in law is keeping him prisoner and not letting him associate with his parents. Perhaps the son is thoughtless and irresponsible. Why blame the wife for an adult man's mistakes? He's responsible for it. It's not a woman's responsibility to fix her adult male partner's bad behavior.

(I get that Neetu said it's the man's fault. But she also uses JkG, which squarely places the blame on the daughter in law)