Let's talk about Viveik Oberoi - Page 11

I do not blame Ash here. No one knows what happened and I applaud her for ending the abusive relationship and announcing that she will never work with the ex bf and you know what? She never worked with him even in her worst phase.

Originally posted by: tapori

Just because JPeppers has a lowly opinion of "dignified" Aish doesn't mean you stoop down to personally attacking him/her. This is disappointing!

You can dock points off me for mocking her, but that's my only reaction to her hate-filled garbage.

And you call that opinion. If I didn't know better, I'd have thought she breathes in Ash and breathes out hatred. 😆 How that's a legit "opinion" is beyond me! The kind of nonsense he/she has been spouting against not just Ash but also women in general shouldn't perpetuate even in a small nook of india-forums, so forgive me that much, Mr. Tapori.

Originally posted by: Bekind

If you changed your mind, please let me know. I always skip paragraph posts, but stopped at yours. Maybe think about it👍🏼

I second that. 🥳

Originally posted by: coldbrew

You can dock points off me for mocking her, but that's my only reaction to her hate-filled garbage.

And you call that opinion. If I didn't know better, I'd have thought she breathes in Ash and breathes out hatred. 😆 How that's a legit "opinion" is beyond me! The kind of nonsense he/she has been spouting against not just Ash but also women in general shouldn't perpetuate even in a small nook of india-forums, so forgive me that much, Mr. Tapori.

I think there is difference between dissing a woman and dissing women in general. I think the only place where I saw a line being crossed was the Big B one, but even there, I don't even know whether that's true to even have an opinion.

Sometimes it is helpful to view things from diametrically opposite views than yours, lest we all start living in our own echo chambers.

As I said, I was just expressing my disappointment, that's all....

Originally posted by: tapori

I think there is difference between dissing a woman and dissing women in general. I think the only place where I saw a line being crossed was the Big B one, but even there, I don't even know whether that's true to even have an opinion.

Sometimes it is helpful to view things from diametrically opposite views than yours, lest we all start living in our own echo chambers.

As I said, I was just expressing my disappointment, that's all....

It IS a problem for all women when ONE woman is mocked for her the fact she dared to have relationships. Pepper poster didn't simply say Aish was the wrong one there. He/she claimed Aish had no dignity or self-respect for having those 4 people in her life.

Ie, a woman having a relationship (or more) after a failed one is a (insert your choice of epithet).

Also, even when it involves something like abuse, she is presented as the wrong one for daring to talk about it and malign that poor, defenseless, 40+ person (/sarc) with crimes the person actually committed. Pepper poster wasn't even saying that person didn't commit those crimes, simply blaming Aish for the fact the person got slammed by the public.

Ie, a woman who raises her voice to talk about injustices done to her is a (insert your choice of epithet).

Then, the woman goes on to have a successful life in spite of the criminal she left behind, she is maligned for actually having healthy relationships with her husband and FIL.

Ie, a woman who wins can never, ever be tolerated and should be called a (insert your choice of epithet).

Language has power. The kind of vilification which Pepper poster was throwing at Aish wouldn't have hurt simply her. Any young girl would've looked at it and imbibed the lesson that it is wrong to think of relationships, that is better to stick to an abusive criminal than to risk getting slandered as a (insert your choice of epithet), that it is never a good idea to raise her voice against injustice, that it is never a good idea to win, period. That young girl will learn that it is better to suppress everything which makes her a sentient being than risk this kind of verbal abuse.

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However, I wouldn't have called it mental illness. Because those with mental illness need to be treated with the same care and kindness we show say, heart patients or cancer patients. What we see in Pepper's posts is a classic example of spittle-spewing rage exhibited by some who fear their days of privilege will soon be gone.

omg 14 pages on vivek oberoi.....he looks super famous...He needs big Budget movie👍🏼🥳

Actually he was very good in these type movies

Originally posted by: maha15

omg 14 pages on vivek oberoi.....he looks super famous...He needs big Budget movie

He’s had plenty of those and they all failed

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Originally posted by: HearMeRoar

It IS a problem for all women when ONE woman is mocked for her the fact she dared to have relationships. Pepper poster didn't simply say Aish was the wrong one there. He/she claimed Aish had no dignity or self-respect for having those 4 people in her life.

Ie, a woman having a relationship (or more) after a failed one is a (insert your choice of epithet).

Also, even when it involves something like abuse, she is presented as the wrong one for daring to talk about it and malign that poor, defenseless, 40+ person (/sarc) with crimes the person actually committed. Pepper poster wasn't even saying that person didn't commit those crimes, simply blaming Aish for the fact the person got slammed by the public.

Ie, a woman who raises her voice to talk about injustices done to her is a (insert your choice of epithet).

Then, the woman goes on to have a successful life in spite of the criminal she left behind, she is maligned for actually having healthy relationships with her husband and FIL.

Ie, a woman who wins can never, ever be tolerated and should be called a (insert your choice of epithet).

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However, I wouldn't have called it mental illness. Because those with mental illness need to be treated with the same care and kindness we show say, heart patients or cancer patients. What we see in Pepper's posts is a classic example of spittle-spewing rage exhibited by some who fear their days of privilege will soon be gone.

There are a lot of assumptions and extrapolations in this post of yours. JPepper would know more than you whether he/she thinks any woman who has multiple relationships etc is vile or he/she thinks it's just Aish who's supposedly manipulative.

You are viewing those posts from a certain perspective with a closed mind without thinking other explanations behind those thoughts.

Let's agree to disagree on this! _/\_

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

He’s had plenty of those and they all failed

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My freind who has not pleanty failures😆