I blame You - Page 5

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

Here's the thing, I didn't feel like he was the butt of every joke. People constantly rate Salman and Katrina last on Koffee with Karan for best actor - yes you can argue that it might be true (I don't think so) but it's their opinion and they're entitled to it. Yes he was made fun of on award shows but that happens even more so in Hollywood. Every late show host or SNL are taking constant jibes at celebrities. It doesn't lead to suicide. Relentless bullying is different and I don't equate these things to this.

As for work being snatched away or not getting the appreciation he deserved, that happens to the rest of us all the time. How many of us have been passed up for a promotion only for it to go to someone less deserving? How many times has someone else received the credit for our work? The whole black lives matter movement is based on systemic racism and it goes beyond being targeted by cops. It also means that we live in a system in North America that doesn't allow black people to have the same opportunities as white people. This is not leading to suicide. How many people live on the streets with barely any food or money. They don't commit suicide.

To say this is why Sushant committed suicide, makes him sound petty. He didn't value his family as much as his work or projects. He needed to be a part of the Bollywood in circle so much that he killed himself without thinking about the family that loved him? Like who cares if Alia knew who he was? It's a mental health issue. He felt he had no choice at that time. It doesn't mean he was weak, it's an illness.

I do agree that blinds and rumours suck and they can become so bad that they lead to bullying. It's what is also happening now to those being blamed for his death. They literally had nothing to do with his death but people are believing whatever the media spits out without verification.

Dharam Ji was stealing roles just to be paired opposite Hema ❤️

But this post is my thoughts. I just come off as insensitive but you said it the bestest way

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

Speak for yourself. If your easily brainwashed doesnt mean anyone else is 😆

I wasn’t actually speaking about myself. Media and news is perfectly capable in creating a narrative for the general public. I’m obviously too smart for that.

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

Here's the thing, I didn't feel like he was the butt of every joke. People constantly rate Salman and Katrina last on Koffee with Karan for best actor - yes you can argue that it might be true (I don't think so) but it's their opinion and they're entitled to it. Yes he was made fun of on award shows but that happens even more so in Hollywood. Every late show host or SNL are taking constant jibes at celebrities. It doesn't lead to suicide. Relentless bullying is different and I don't equate these things to that.

As for work being snatched away or not getting the appreciation he deserved, that happens to the rest of us all the time. How many of us have been passed up for a promotion only for it to go to someone less deserving? How many times has someone else received the credit for our work? The whole black lives matter movement is based on systemic racism and it goes beyond being targeted by cops. It also means that we live in a system in North America that doesn't allow black people to have the same opportunities as white people. This is not leading to suicide. How many people live on the streets with barely any food or money. They don't commit suicide.

To say this is why Sushant committed suicide, makes him sound petty. That he didn't value his family as much as his work or projects. He needed to be a part of the Bollywood in circle so much that he killed himself without thinking about the family that loved him? Like who cares if Alia knew who he was? It's a mental health issue. He felt he had no choice at that time. It doesn't mean he was weak, it's an illness.

I do agree that blinds and rumours suck and they can become so bad that they lead to bullying. It's what is also happening now to those being blamed for his death. They literally had nothing to do with his death but people are believing whatever the media spits out without verification.

Thanks for this. It's so rare to see a sensible post.

Can we stop this fake narrative of how Sushant wasn't appreciated enough and treated like dirt and everyone stole his work? They drove him to suicide because they are so dumb compared to our genius so their jealousy overtook them.

The reality is that he was pretty much a household name in India, first from TV and then movies. If he wasn't successful, you would not have even known his name. He got work with everyone- YRF, Balaji, UTV, Fox Star and Dharma. Star kids debuted with him and the typical BW hot chicks like Kriti Sanon dated him. He made literally CRORES, drove a luxury car and even had a vacation bungalow he owned.

He wasn't a poor, beaten down, abused victim of the evil industry. He may have faced some problems from people more powerful than him but so do we all. We all face politics at work and friends who make fun of us and family members who gossip behind our back. But not all us commit suicide. He had mental issues and he was trying to get himself treated but unfortunately it didn't work. The rest of it is just people going nuts because they want to blame someone.

Originally posted by: MarcoPolo008

Did you ever watch a SSR movie in the theater ?

Yes , watched Kai Po Che only for him , also watched Dhoni

Have you ever supported him on social media( trends, messages, birthdays...) ?

Was a big fan and supported him so much , even spend the whole day voting for him in Jhalak Dhikla Ja .

Did you mock his looks, accent or mannerisms before ?

Never , loved him the way he was . Always believed that he was super talented

Did you curse him after his breackup with Ankita ?

Yes , totally guilty of that .Did not curse him on social media but was very disappointed with him and I felt that he did this because he wanted to be seen with a more happening actress .I feel very very guilty about this and keep saying sorry to Sushant , recently I was Ok because I felt that maybe they both have moved and are happy in their lives ......what has happened to Sushant is something I never ever expected . Feeling so bad and very very sad about it ....the pain just does not go away .

Did you enjoy reading blind items about him and believing every bit of it ?

No .

Did you ever NOTICE him before.

How could anyone not notice him , he was so good .

I blame you (and me ).

ps: I'm just having fun here no hard feelings.

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/bollywood/5115576/chhichhore-enters-100-crore-club

I stood by him here. I sleep peacefully ❤️

My comment on the thread 😭😭😭

After Sridevi died people were atleast sensible enough to not start talking crap about her immediately after her death but in Sushant's case the mocking has started so soon. It's very sad to see.

Originally posted by: LiveEatLove

My comment on the thread 😭😭😭

Yes but we can always watch his movies 👍🏼

Some are still raging their anger in the wrong direction.

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

Here's the thing, I didn't feel like he was the butt of every joke. People constantly rate Salman and Katrina last on Koffee with Karan for best actor - yes you can argue that it might be true (I don't think so) but it's their opinion and they're entitled to it. Yes he was made fun of on award shows but that happens even more so in Hollywood. Every late show host or SNL are taking constant jibes at celebrities. It doesn't lead to suicide. Relentless bullying is different and I don't equate these things to that.

As for work being snatched away or not getting the appreciation he deserved, that happens to the rest of us all the time. How many of us have been passed up for a promotion only for it to go to someone less deserving? How many times has someone else received the credit for our work? The whole black lives matter movement is based on systemic racism and it goes beyond being targeted by cops. It also means that we live in a system in North America that doesn't allow black people to have the same opportunities as white people. This is not leading to suicide. How many people live on the streets with barely any food or money. They don't commit suicide.

To say this is why Sushant committed suicide, makes him sound petty. That he didn't value his family as much as his work or projects. He needed to be a part of the Bollywood in circle so much that he killed himself without thinking about the family that loved him? Like who cares if Alia knew who he was? It's a mental health issue. He felt he had no choice at that time. It doesn't mean he was weak, it's an illness.

I do agree that blinds and rumours suck and they can become so bad that they lead to bullying. It's what is also happening now to those being blamed for his death. They literally had nothing to do with his death but people are believing whatever the media spits out without verification.

Do give it a read if you get time.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/bollywood/5165824/image-destruction-of-sushants-a-fan-observation-over-the-years

Blinds, rumours are commonplace in Bollywood but he was specifically targeted unlike other outsiders. Not saying he wasn't mentally vulnerable but I feel it all added up .

Originally posted by: Terenaina

I agree 100 percent with everything you said. Ayshuman said an a interview work is not like a priority and his family is, I don't remember the exact words but he said cinema is not like his world. He has a good support from his family, has wife, kids and other family members.

Sushant surrounded himself with industry gfs and industry friends. It would've been nice if he stayed in touch with his family or probably even married someone outside from industry like shahid got married with kids. Ayshuman forgives and forgets that's the way to be. I can understand sushant's personality of being sensitive and how certain things effect your mind.

How is it a bad thing to have industry people around him?? Ankita was also from the industry.So was Mahesh Shetty. Should he have dumped Ankita to marry some commoner ?