Vikas Gupta's post on Sushant and Ankita

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I was not a fan of PR per se. I started watching KDMHMD as a teenager , grew to love the Bro bonds ..specially between prem and preet..and somewhat loved them more than any other jodi....I thought these two newcomers were the best one and the only flag bearers of the show. I loved meet.. They were cute.. Was not able to watch Preet's death....and as a teenager hated PR. Then gradually started watching the show as mom loved it.. and we had it on during dinner... The chemistry between the leads was so beautiful..you could see the naivety there..so innocent ..and this guy was beyond beautiful.. I loved them as couple and developed fondness for the off screen couple..He looked so much in love with the lady.. pursued her for such a long time till she gave in..and they looked like a forever kind of couple.. It feels bad when long time couples break.. This was also a heartbreak. and the way it broke.. ANkita for Sushant was rock solid support...I remember watching one of their last appearances together in IIFA..where Sushant paid a tribute to SRK.. the happiness in her eyes.. The twinkle..the pride..and Kreeti turns and congratulates her... I have not seen in any partner.. probably Gauri at one point of time..For a teenager like me they were goals.. I felt proud of him.. not leaving behind the TV girlfriend..while attending film shows.. She had seen him grow.. she had been with him through the failures and it all ended like that..in such and ugly manner... And with Ankita he also drifted away from his fans and some friends..

However I never stopped watching him..Watched Dhoni thrice in a movie theater.. [And it was not just because of Dhoni..It was also because of Sushant..Me being an ardent fan of the game cricket.. had a lot of love for Sachin.. Dravid and then Dhoni..I did not watch Sachin's biography though I and many of us are more of his fan than Dhoni.. Yet decided to watch it coz the trailer pulled me in.]

Also takes me to Abhishek Kapoors' point where he mentioned about guiding the young ones.. but they kind of get drifted away towards too much light.. I also relate it to the sudden breakup.

I don't know if I should say this but I have been having that nagging feeling that had Ankita been with him.. things would have been different.. It would not have come to this.. She knew him since they were in their early/mid twenties.. She knew the kid in him that missed his mother dearly.. she hugged him when their were tears of memories.. She was with him through thick and thin.. His success his failures.. did not bother her.. It was just him that did..And I cant let go of this.. if the first heartbreak of them breaking up had not happened.. second one of his death also would not...wistful or insensitive.. but i keep getting this in mind...And seeing Ankita cry like that..all broken..when she was ready to move on finally.. makes me think or rather I know..she also probably thinks the same way..atleast at this point of time..when the heart is totally shattered.

PS : I want to get away from this.I seriously want to get away from this. In fact , we all have lives beyond Bollywood ..forum.. IF. But this guys doesn't let me go. I am not a person who usually like visiting the forum so much or commenting on it too much. But the death has shook me. I keep thinking about what could have been..what should not have been.

Not doubting the intentions .. but i feel this post by VG on the social media is not a well thought one...

if one, it will increase the guilt in Ankita's mind -- the "what if" will hound her as well... also, it's disrespectful towards her current partner ....

I and many others beleive if Ankita would have been with him, she would have handled the Fragile mind. Atleast she would have made sure he gets the love and medication he needs.

But I really hope Ankita doesn't think so too, that will make her Life more disturbed and the Pain will never be lesser.

Wow...he made it about Ankita...shaming Sushant even now about the breakup..

Just wow!

Originally posted by: ArShi_scorp

Not doubting the intentions .. but i feel this post by VG on the social media is not a well thought one...

if one, it will increase the guilt in Ankita's mind -- the "what if" will hound her as well... also, it's disrespectful towards her current partner ....

Yes exactly.. That's why I feel a guilt writing that also..and somewhat him posting it it makes me feel that what I had been thinking might just be 10% correct.... I dont really find it disrespectful towards her partner.. because it enforces the fact that she was/is a a very backing partner..and partners are understanding enough to understand the past and the relationship shared.. Though I do believe she might get into a guilt mode reading this.. probably because she would be going through a tsunami of emotions..

Originally posted by: Guguminti

I and many others beleive if Ankita would have been with him, she would have handled the Fragile mind. Atleast she would have made sure he gets the love and medication he needs.

But I really hope Ankita doesn't think so too, that will make her Life more disturbed and the Pain will never be lesser.

I agree to it.. Though I had seen the happiest with each other..specially Sush.. But Ankita had started to look happy and content.. I dont want her to loose that.. Its very difficult to attain that.. and just when you have it.. it gets on the brink of loosing it.. I hope her parents...her friends and specially her partner.. helps her through..

On second thoughts, i Do doubt Mr Vikas Gupta's intentions ...

what karan johar is "accused" of doing to BW outsiders, Mr gupta is accused of doing to the TV outsiders.

His condolence post for Sushant was all abt me - me - lemme shame ppl - Parth, Priyank, Shilpa .. and he started it again ....

and now this post... i find it in bad taste.

if me as a person, (who has never posted anything against Sushant , but tended to believe the blinds )is feeling guilty on some level for this tragedy ... how much more will his loved ones , the survivors be feeling ??

be it kriti, rhea , his family, friends , ankita...

Why does he have to put it out there on social media, that sushant was happy wen Ankita was there.. this kind of happened to him, cuz he left Ankita ?? trolls will now take it as an excuse , to bash her up ... not to mention, you are adding to her survivor-guilt ...

Not the time to promote your friendship with Balaji ke Bache Mr Gupta ...!! if you dont have anything intelligent to say, kindly shut up!

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

https://www.instagram.com/p/CBj2GEeHJDg/

I was not a fan of PR per se. I started watching KDMHMD as a teenager , grew to love the Bro bonds ..specially between prem and preet..and somewhat loved them more than any other jodi....I thought these two newcomers were the best one and the only flag bearers of the show. I loved meet.. They were cute.. Was not able to watch Preet's death....and as a teenager hated PR. Then gradually started watching the show as mom loved it.. and we had it on during dinner... The chemistry between the leads was so beautiful..you could see the naivety there..so innocent ..and this guy was beyond beautiful.. I loved them as couple and developed fondness for the off screen couple..He looked so much in love with the lady.. pursued her for such a long time till she gave in..and they looked like a forever kind of couple.. It feels bad when long time couples break.. This was also a heartbreak. and the way it broke.. ANkita for Sushant was rock solid support...I remember watching one of their last appearances together in IIFA..where Sushant paid a tribute to SRK.. the happiness in her eyes.. The twinkle..the pride..and Kreeti turns and congratulates her... I have not seen in any partner.. probably Gauri at one point of time..For a teenager like me they were goals.. I felt proud of him.. not leaving behind the TV girlfriend..while attending film shows.. She had seen him grow.. she had been with him through the failures and it all ended like that..in such and ugly manner... And with Ankita he also drifted away from his fans and some friends..

However I never stopped watching him..Watched Dhoni thrice in a movie theater.. [And it was not just because of Dhoni..It was also because of Sushant..Me being an ardent fan of the game cricket.. had a lot of love for Sachin.. Dravid and then Dhoni..I did not watch Sachin's biography though I and many of us are more of his fan than Dhoni.. Yet decided to watch it coz the trailer pulled me in.]

Also takes me to Abhishek Kapoors' point where he mentioned about guiding the young ones.. but they kind of get drifted away towards too much light.. I also relate it to the sudden breakup.

I don't know if I should say this but I have been having that nagging feeling that had Ankita been with him.. things would have been different.. It would not have come to this.. She knew him since they were in their early/mid twenties.. She knew the kid in him that missed his mother dearly.. she hugged him when their were tears of memories.. She was with him through thick and thin.. His success his failures.. did not bother her.. It was just him that did..And I cant let go of this.. if the first heartbreak of them breaking up had not happened.. second one of his death also would not...wistful or insensitive.. but i keep getting this in mind...And seeing Ankita cry like that..all broken..when she was ready to move on finally.. makes me think or rather I know..she also probably thinks the same way..atleast at this point of time..when the heart is totally shattered.

PS : I want to get away from this.I seriously want to get away from this. In fact , we all have lives beyond Bollywood ..forum.. IF. But this guys doesn't let me go. I am not a person who usually like visiting the forum so much or commenting on it too much. But the death has shook me. I keep thinking about what could have been..what should not have been.

I am not his fan but I am having sleepless nights thinking about him unlike Sri Devi/Irfan/Rishi I am not able to put his death past me I just cannot

Originally posted by: ArShi_scorp

On the contrary.. i Do doubt Mr Vikas Gupta's intentions ...

wht karan johar is "accused" of doing to BW outsiders, mr gupta is accused of doing to the TV outsiders.

his condolence post for Sushant was all abt me - me - lemme shame ppl - Parth, Priyank, Shilpa .. and he started it again ....

and now this post... i find it in bad taste.

if me as a person, (who has never posted anything against Sushant , but tended to believe the blinds )is feeling guilty on some level for this tragedy ... how much more will his loved ones , the survivors be feeling ??

be it kriti, rhea , his family, friends , ankita...

Why does he have to put it out thr, that sushant was happy wen Ankita was thr ?? trolls will now take it as an excuse , to bash her up ... not to mention, you are adding to her survivor-guilt ...

Not the time to promote your friendship with Balaji ke Bache Mr Gupta ...!! if you dont have anything intelligent to say, shut up!

. Even i did not like his condolence post... I do agree with the Nepotism and bullying part as well ..I know this had to be kept in heart even when its' true.. I am sorry I posted it.. My guilt might just increase.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

. Even i did not like his condolence post... I do agree with the Nepotism and bullying part as well ..I know this had to be kept in heart even when its' true.. I am sorry I posted it.. My guilt might just increase.

this is a discussion forum.. fans can discuss stuff ( healthily) . but when a verified handle with thousands of followers posts something like this - he's kind of trying to validate it ...

it's different when you and me post stuff .... our reach is small