BCCI issues notices to KL Rahul and Hardik Pandya over KwK - Page 17

Originally posted by: angrybread

To kya different hai...kwk par aane waale sex life hi discuss karte hain apni bhi aur doosro ki bhi and KJO keeps having orgasm after hearing all this 😆

Originally posted by: togepe30

Then he shudve kept it that way.

But now the whole country knows abt it.

Those girls have names and lives. They have been spotted n linked with him or worked with him.

Ppl who know those cheerleaders are jst gonna be like...oh so you have slept with Pandya? I dont think they deserve that.

How is it fair to them and their families now? Have u seen the memes ppl are coming up with? They r even posting pics of Anushka and Hardik and posting shitty stuff.

Every1 whoz been spotted with this guy will go through character assasination now. Coz of his sanskari vicar n approach towards woman.

I'd rather ppl judge and insult him than those women who didnt even appear on the show.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

In general, I don't think a person of culture 'X' emulating culture 'Y' is a problem.

I think it gets problematic when there are double standards.

- a white person with dreads is cool, but a black person is unprofessional

- a white person with a hoodie and do-rag is cool, but a black person is deemed as a gangster

- a white person wearing a bindi is cool, but a brown person wearing it is teased dothead

- a person acts all cool for eating curry, but brown people are called curry scented bitches

IMO, the cultural appropriation discourse started because some people were discriminated against/made fun of for their culture while white people doing the same were deemed cool.

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I've never met anyone who dislikes dreadlocks in general, but thought it looks cool on a white dude, that doesn't happen. People who dislike dreadlocks, will dislike it irrespective of the race of the person. As an example, I dislike people who wear their trousers half way down their legs, it looks absolutely ridiculous, and the race of the person doesn't matter.

The people who wear dreadlocks, or a bindi, aren't the ones making fun of it, otherwise they wouldn't be wearing it, and the ones who do make fun of it, aren't open minded to embrace it.

As a side note, dreadlocks have been worn by many different cultures throughout history, including our own Indian cultures, it's not exclusively a black thing.

Countries that weren't colonised by westerners like Thailand, Japan, Iran, have also adopted western cultural elements, most people in Japan don't walk around in traditional Japanese attire, but western clothes, there is no western majority there to assimilate/fit in to, so from the cultural appropriation standpoint, this would be nothing but pure unadulterated cultural appropriation. Obviously I don't have a problem with it, but it's a problem for those who argue that case.

Things like putting Hindu deities on toilet seats are obviously insensitive and offensive, that goes without saying, but that it not what people outrage about when it comes to cultural appropriate, they outrage over a white guy wearing dreadlocks, or a white woman wearing traditional Chinese attire, something that they are well within their rights to do, that is very different from putting religious iconography on toilets seats or doormats.

Originally posted by: LifeOLicious

"Aaj mai kar ke aaya."

Were those the exact words? If so, this idea that I did it is so disrespectful to the partner. It's ok to have sex. It's also ok to tell your parents you have had sex. But this thinking "I did it today" or in western culture "scoring chicks" just shows a lack of respect for the partner.

Generally, many men think having sexual intercourse with a woman is some kind of an achievement. Let's start scoring men and put it on our list...iski li uski li...once you start doing that wait till you get called a "wh**e" LOL!

On a side note, why is that men takes and women receives? Women take the men inside no? He is the one who receives pleasure from it! So there is nothing to take or receive! Both genders suffer from this thinking. Women suffer the most!

Originally posted by: Heisenberg17_

You think girls don't talk casually about men in this way?

Originally posted by: Heisenberg17_

You think girls don't talk casually about men in this way? they do all the time. Most people who hookup don't really care about the partner they had sex with, the objective is to have sex and move on. This is what hookup culture is all about.

Originally posted by: LifeOLicious

This is not casual talk. This is disrespectful talk. If women are talking like this about the partners they are hooking up with, that's not respectful either. One does not need to care about the hook up to be respectful. You slept with someone. OK. Big deal. So why blow a horn about it anyways if it's not that meaningful to you?