Mothers must stop treating their sons like they're precious gifts from - Page 7

Originally posted by: flipfl0p

But they are the ones who are complaining the most 😆.

Many couples in major cities in India get food catered on daily basis. On Sunday, restaurants look like market.

Even in traditional families, catering is common on festival days, or when guests visit (even if it is one family). I hardly see people cooking pooran poli on festive days. Caterers will have orders (list going beyond 100) in waiting list.

After that listen to this 24/7 song.

Sonam was saying in this metoo context

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

For Bartan and Jhadu-pochha -- Servants. Even for most middle class families.

For Clothes -- Mainly Washing machine. I have seen people have servants to load, unload and hang clothes for drying. Still talking about middle class.

Many of these families with small babies -- have cooks. Even working couples have cooks.

And in festivals -- Pay extra to your house-help and get things done.

I will still not take away housewives hard work. Our mothers did work a lot. But these days ladies aren't slogging as much as projected.

Originally posted by: S_H_Y

Sonam was saying in this metoo context

How did it come to bartan jhadoo.?

No one read what is in article , sabne apna rona shuru kar diya.

Hows is this related to BW? With title i was expecting it to be Kangu jibe on BW Ladlaas Hrithik Ranbir..

again I am urging all the males in the thread, we all are privileged MCPs, so we don't need to justify ourselves and our entitlement in front of few internet warriors.

Remembered something my American boss (who is a scientist and is like a mother to me) told me...she also comes from a highly educated family (a family of doctors and scientists) and grew
up with 3 other siblings, her brother being the eldest...apparently her brother was not asked or expected to do regular household chores while it was mandatory for the sisters to do the same.
I guess the issue is quite universal, irrespective of country/culture and has very little to do with education

Also, this is slightly off topic, but somewhat related to the basic issue...
Back in the 80's she was working as a young scholar somewhere in UK... during the orientation
she was denied health insurance because she was not married at that time...apparently the rule was that a guy was eligible and then the wife was eligible as a part of spousal benefits only

Originally posted by: flipfl0p

Even with your own estimation (cokking separately for lunch and dinner), it becomes 6-7 hours. Fine, let me agree with your 24/7.

If an unemployed guy says, I am ready to put in that 24/7, how many employed girls will be willing to marry him?

Forget about marrying an unemployed, girls cannot compromise if a boy earns 10K less than them, (even if their combined salary is more than six figures).

I think every kid should be put up in hostel once... Half step towards living independent... Job in a different city, another step. (caveat: less interference from over protective-caring parents)

Originally posted by: flipfl0p

Even with your own estimation (cokking separately for lunch and dinner), it becomes 6-7 hours. Fine, let me agree with your 24/7.

Ifan unemployed guy says, I am ready to put in that 24/7, how many employed girls will be willing to marry him?

Forget about marrying an unemployed, girls cannot compromise if a boy earns 10K less than them, (even if their combined salary is more than six figures).

Arrey bhai this is equality now. 4s think they deserve 10s. Don't wanna settle but men have to and they do as they're desperate.

Don't marry, problem solved but nah shaadi karni hain, bache bhi paida karne hain, in laws ke saath bhi rehna hain 😆

if it's too much let's reverse the roles as you said but they can't like in ki and ka, kareena starts her rona in the end