Originally posted by: roni_berna
Regarding all men being trash...I do not say trash but most lack self-control when it comes to alcohol or women. They blame alcohol or drugs if they misbehave. My reasons are:
#1 I have seen many women who can stay without a man for months or years while men can't. If men do stay without women, some turn into animals when they don't get them or ask to compromise if they aren't in a relationship. I am not even talking about cheating as that's totally different.
#2 Men immediately get attracted when a woman wears short skirts or even sleeveless dresses or just by looking at a pretty face. Women mostly don't even if a man wears minimal clothes.
#3. Men judge a woman based on her habits and boy friends and even if she works late night. If women drink and have a lot of male friends, it directly means she can have an affair with anyone. Women mostly don't assume such things.
#4. Men don't get the meaning of a NO and feel the women is just playing hard. They assume a smile or a woman being polite means she agrees to it. Women also may cross their limit but men being physically strong can strongly oppose them.
#5. Men stalk more often compared to women and get aggressive when the women refuses his proposal and we see Acid attacks as a result of this.
So no, the women calling men trash and not those who are cheated by their boy friend but because they have faced too many issues with men. A woman in India can't walk on a street wearing a dress or even sleeveless tops without 5-10 men staring at her.
It happens with men too but there's no excuse to saying "Hence some men don't believe you". Many fake cases have been reported and nobody is guilty till they are proved so. No point of blindly supporting one side without seeing any proof. This movement has brought many to light many incidents that are true as well and the accused have been proven guilty.
You can't be more sexist when you say men lack self control. What do you have to say about those women who r married and cheating.. or those who sleep around with men because they have money.. or star power or have position? we are all human beings.. Just to say men have low self control is plain short sided and sexist. for your information, women lose control too when they see drugs and alcohol.. apparently you haven't met one!! smh
1) In some countries that are conservative.. .. men stay single till their 20s and thirties.. compare their rape stats to other countries.. and that blows your theory of men can't live without sex. It's like women are angels and don't need sex.. again.. very immature and sexist comment
2) women don't go gaga over men at all.. I mean have you ever been around celebrities and how women act around them? hell have you ever been around women when they have an attractive friend or cowrker. how they treat their attractive coworker.. friends or when they see a good looking guy. To say just men do that, Its again far from truth..
3) This is more an Indian and subcontinent thing. I am going to say Indian men not equal all men. When you say all men are trash.. you are just covering the main issue under all men are trash instead of looking at the shortcomings of your culture and the society you live in. if indian men are judgmental.. that doesn't make all men judgmental. same goes with afghan, Pakistani, Arab.. or any other country. yeah women can have affair with any men. some women just want to f**k.. they don't want anything serious.. they want to have fun.. its natural.. just like men do it.. Who cares.
4) That's more a culture thing again. As a woman you are encouraged to be shy, introverted, don't just give in.. make him work for it.. say no and no and no.. smile.. and say I don't know instead of yes.. Its a culture thing.. Not a men issue.. yeah.. there are assholes.. who just take it way too far.. but even as a men.. they are thought to be dominant and take charge.. Men get away with most things.. because they r men.. I have always been against that.. But again its a culture thing.. its not a men thing
5) women stalk too and they are far worse when it comes to spreading rumors and talking shit. They tend to remember things and small details and that makes them far more dangerous than men when it comes to stalking.. That's the reason I stop bringing women to my house for a long time.. until we were official
The whole women can't walk in the street is more indian and subcontinent issue than men issue. If your society teach men how to treat women.. if there are laws where they punish men severely for rape... and even any other bothersome behaviors.. maybe some day women can walk in the streets freely.. again all men are not equal indian men..
Here is what bothers me with this whole men are trash.. It closes your mind and make you not want to form a relationship with any men
You already believe that men lack self control, they can't keep it in their pants, they can't be around other women, they are judgmental, they don't take no for answer and they are stalker pyschos.. You come to a relationship with all of the preconceived notions. How would you form a relationship with a man when your mind is already made up about them.
most victims of sexual assault including me, we take the world for what its.. not for what happened and mourn about it. When you call men trash... you refuse to move on. you live in the past.. you refuse to form a relationship based on your preconceived notions.. and that shouldn't be the purpose of this movement. The goal should be for you to tell your story and get closure and move on to better and greater things in life..
Men are trash... and sentiments like that works against what the goal should be at every level!!
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