Yes, I Have Converted To Islam & Proud of it: Dipika Kakar - Page 15

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: KSGFAN.

she converted to Hinduism and changed her legal name to "Nirmala Dutt" after they married on 11 March 1958.[23]

- I am not surprised she is a woman, not just a muslim, women in her days did change their identities for men, and they still clearly do!



Nargis' Dad was a Hindu who converted to Islam when he got together with her Mom
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Posted: 7 years ago
Pathetic love jihad!! I can't understand how girls are moronic enough to give up their good liberal religions they have been born in to, identity with for a man who doesn't respect her enough to let her be who she is!!
I didn't even give up my surname when I got married last year! That was my first term I laid down and my same relgion man was a man enough to accept me for who I was. He didn't need to erase who I was and wrap it in some twisted love to delete my identity! So I can't even imagine giving up my religion for a man!!

If he doesn't have to convert why should she? Our religions don't do this pathetic conversion as a sword hanging on the neck for a regulation for marriage! I hate women marrying Muslim men and with these rose tinted glasses of dating period where the man and the family both con and seem to be all hunky dory till wedding where she bloody has to give up she entire identity, liberal life, her children's relgion, her 50% of culture she should pass on to her kids!!
Pathetic!!

And the above post is the most polite I can put this with!! Because I'm disgusted!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
This is the fault of the abrahamic religions
They believe in preaching and converting
If not willingly then unwillingly and throughout history they have cunningly and cruelly converted people to their religion.
Because of such people like Shoaib , Islam getting even more bad reputation


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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: KSGFAN.

she converted to Hinduism and changed her legal name to "Nirmala Dutt" after they married on 11 March 1958.[23]

- I am not surprised she is a woman, not just a muslim, women in her days did change their identities for men, and they still clearly do!


She was buried after death so she might have been a practising Muslim despite converting.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: ---Betty---



Nargis' Dad was a Hindu who converted to Islam when he got together with her Mom

This is... Interesting😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
I don't believe in conversion. To be honest, I don't really believe in doctrinal faith either. Belief is personal and within a person. Hindu, Muslim, conversion, ritual - it is all man-made hogwash.
I also support free-will.

People become vegetarians to marry. People stop eating spicy food. People say their favorite ice-cream is vanilla to concur with a stupid crush when they really like the mint chocolate chip. So if they want to deprive themselves of mint chocolate chip for the rest of their life - their choice. I can eat all the flavors I want. I lose nothing.

You know what the real big issue is? Democrats who convert to Republicans for marriage.🤢 😡That is sad. Very sad. 😆😆
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: return_to_hades


You know what the real big issue is? Democrats who convert to Republicans for marriage.🤢 😡That is sad. Very sad. 😆😆

🤣
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Posted: 7 years ago
If she converted just so she could marry, that's unfortunate. Because, when you truly love someone, religion shouldn't be an issue at all.
However, if it was her calling and she could relate and associate more with Islam than her own religion, it's fine.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: return_to_hades



You know what the real big issue is? Democrats who convert to Republicans for marriage.🤢 😡That is sad. Very sad. 😆😆


Not anymore I guess. Dems and Reps are not even willing to date each other anymore 😛
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Posted: 7 years ago
Conversions for marriage almost always have emotional blackmail attached to them and women generally give in as they are supposed to be the sacrificing gender who is anyway expected to change their last name, change their home, abandon their own parents to go take care of the guy's parents, etc.

Btw, even within the *same* religion, a lot of times many rituals and ways of worship and celebrations are different. A Gujarati even does different pujas than a Tamilian would. Punjabis celebrate days like Karwa Chauth and Lohri which many other Hindus don't. Even in Hindu cross cultural marriages, the woman gets stuck adopting the ways of the husband's family but these guardians of religion only start shouting when the woman adopts some other religion's beliefs. It's okay when the same religion is taking away her culture though. 😆

With that said, if a woman can so easily be blackmailed by love to change herself so much, your religion or upbringing probably wasn't good enough to make her stay. Instead of outraging and getting angry, improve the culture, give women more rights, let them feel free and happy within their home/culture/religion that they do not want to leave. Make their life so good that they can't picture leaving those aspects for someone else's religion and culture.
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