Yes, I Have Converted To Islam & Proud of it: Dipika Kakar - Page 10

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Posted: 7 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: tootyfrooty-


arey but they use brain na that's why they tell that they will not convert but boys lie in start give promises and then break trust ...and does not boys also use brain and show some honesty rather than lying,why they start loving other religion girls ,why you are putting all responsibility on women ,does boys dont have any responsibility? ...taking advantage of someone's love n trust is wrong n clearly they lie in start, its very wrong.

many girls dont know that in muslim its sin to marry in different religion i knew it now after so many years, we dont know about it ,we think jese we hindu can marry without converting every religion can do this

so its boys responsibility to tell truth rather than trapping someone.



Its takes two people to be in a relationship, both havev to take responsibility and know Wat they r getting into, so make things easier for yourself rather than more complicated, marry someone with the same religion that u have if u don't want to convert

but in the case of Dipika she is knowinglyy becoming a muslim, she has taken that decision, if she didn't want to covert forr marriage, if that's Wat she has donee, then she cud havv easily broken up with hima a
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Posted: 7 years ago
#92
Among Muslims a marriage is considered legal only if conducted through Islamic rites. A Islamic wedding can happen only if both the bride and groom are Muslims. Thats why Muslim families insist on conversion of the person the child is marrying a person from another religion. The sort of marriages we see in Bollywood like Saif-Kareena/SRK-Gauri ie through Special Marriage Act are not considered legal as per Islam. Since these people are wealthy so they can ignore what the religion says. Mostly conversion is for namesake like Sharmila Tagore's conversion. I had a friend who did this so I am aware of these rules. After conversion there is some tokenism like not wearing bindi on part of the bride. The groom's family might call her by her Islamic name. But mostly these women continue to lead the lives they used to as Hindus. Generally there is no legal implication like name change(apart from taking husband's surname if they want).
If it were the opposite that is if the girl is Muslim and the boy is from another religion then too they insist on conversion. Conversion is to ensure that rest of the family isnt ostracized by people from their own community. Also they want to avoid their kids marriage being called living in sin and their kids being called illegitimate by the society they live in.
Anyways I dont understand why we are discussing the personal choices of an adult woman with a tenuous connection to BW in this forum?
Edited by TheRager - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
#93
I think it's well known and documented that in Islam a nikaah is valid between Muslims.
Conversion based on marriage is usually just a dikhawa. However there are people who convert without being pressurised and out of their own free will.
I know someone who converted to Islam after marrying in to a Muslim family and one of my aunt converted to Hinduism after marriage. Both out of their own free will.
There are so many white Muslims I work with male and female and none reverted due to love or marriage.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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does anyone remember this scene from NL?

[YOUTUBE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cW4etwBQNQ[/YOUTUBE]

ishq mein koi shart nahi hoti.

Love has no limitations such as religion, race, nationality, or caste. if someone is forced/ convinced to change her/his religion for love, its not love🥱


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Posted: 7 years ago
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If shoiab family is so traditional than why they allow him to do acting and dancing ??
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: hasini009


does anyone remember this scene from NL?

[YOUTUBE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cW4etwBQNQ[/YOUTUBE]

ishq mein koi shart nahi hoti.

Love has no limitations such as religion, race, nationality, or caste. if someone is forced/ convinced to change her/his religion for love, its not love🥱




This is real life , not a movie
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: 2RsFan



This is real life , not a movie


I know its real life. their life, their choice. and the above said is my opinion.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Why are people on this thread forcefully making this a sexist issue..or a girl-boy debate when its clearly NOT!

I have seen many of my male friends converting to Islam after marriage..just very recently a Hindu male friend of mine converted to Islam to marry the Muslim girl.. its because the marriage won't be considered legal in Muslim community if they're not converted to Islam.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Sad that we still have to discuss things like converting in 2018
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Posted: 7 years ago
I don't think Dipika took care of the expenses of Shoaib's family while he was not working.. As it is, seeing Shoaib's family, I don't even think they have that much of expenses
And considering k she dated Shoaib for more than 6 years, I am sure she knew and had ample time to give the change of religion serious consideration

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