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Posted: 8 years ago
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Funny how the people who bash Kangana for getting abused by older men are talking about how bad abuse is over here 😆 only because she was a "mistress" of aditya the abuse is justified
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The topic is about love v abuse, not about Kangu using her victim card. So, please save the sarcasm for some other thread.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angry_Birdie



I am doing good NP, thanks. How have you been?

Ot: it is so effed up. I mean if someone calls Salman a passionate lover, i tend to judge that person so much. no one should ever confuse love and passion with abuse and violence.
I might not know what love is but, i definitely know what is not love and that includes abuse under the guise of passion.



I'm fine too. Not coming online these days!

If Salman is the role model for passionate lovers then lord should save girls from such men. 😆
Edited by NadanParindey - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angry_Birdie

The topic is about love v abuse, not about Kangu using her victim card. So, please save the sarcasm for some other thread.



What has Kangana gotta do with this topic? Am I missing something? o.O

Yea! I do enjoy my college life a lot but there's too much pressure too.

Such girls should be equally responsible for all the sufferings & miseries that takes place in their lives, for tolerating their good for nothing abusive partners. I don't feel bad for those girls either. I can't tolerate doormats. One of the major reasons why I could never respect or feel sympathetic towards Draupadi because she stayed like a doormat throughout the epic despite of all the mistreatments, insults and humiliation because of her so-called Dharmik (read Adharmi) husbands. A woman with genuine self-respect would've walked out & shunned her husband. So no empathy or sympathy for Draupadi

Do you know the reason why I respect Ash? I'm not even a fan of her acting or beauty by a long distance, but only because that woman had enough self-respect and dignity & guts to stand alone against that bully abuser and not even once she looked back at him in future or talks about him publicly to get attention or publicity, neither acts pally with him or how he's & will always be special to her. Respect! 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angry_Birdie



Yeah, i noticed you haven't been active here and i saw yiu mentioned about college pressure. I hope you do well.i miss college so much, it is the best phase of life. Make the most of it NP 😆

Honestly speaking, most girls today are in abusive relationships which is emotional if not physical. I have a bunch of friends in such relationships and only God knows how much we have tried to shake them out of their illusion that the guy is just torturing them. Once, a guy blatantly told my friend that your parents deserve whatever is happening with them when she told him about them being sick. 🤢 after alot of pursuing was done, she broke uo but then viola, back with him in a day. 🤢 so, girls act like fools.


Same have seen plenty of people dealing with it and sticking to their relationships. This is why I have stopped judging or having an opinion about it..They are educated, independent people who apparently choose this. They are like this is love and in the long run everything will be ok. That they can't give up on them that easily. Its their choice at the end and they are nowhere being forced into this and have justifications ready for everything. I guess everybody have different priorities.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: NadanParindey



Was has Kangana gotta do with this topic? Am I missing something? o.O

Yea! I do enjoy my college life a lot but there's too much pressure too.

Such girls should be equally responsible for all the sufferings & miseries that takes place in their lives, for tolerating their good for nothing abusive partners. I don't feel bad for those girls either. I can't tolerate doormats. One of the major reasons why I could never respect or feel sympathetic towards Draupadi because she stayed like a doormat throughout the epic despite of all the mistreatments, insults and humiliation because of her so-called Dharmik (read Adharmi) husbands. A woman with genuine self-respect would've walked out & shunned her husband. So no empathy or sympathy for Draupadi

Do you know the reason why I respect Ash? I'm not even a fan of her acting or beauty by a long distance, but only because that woman had enough self-respect and dignity & guts to stand alone against that bully abuser and not even once she looked back at him in future or talks about him publicly to get attention or publicity, neither acts pally with him or how he's & will always be special to her. Respect! 👏


NP, the person who posted before this post of mine waa taking a jibe at me for my opiniona on Kangu in the other thread. So, this was a reply to her.

Same here, that's the reason I too respect Aish. she had the guts to expose the abuse she went through and never did she try to use that as an excuse to highlight herself.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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ye sab TV serials ka kiya dhara hai... abuse ko bhi passionate love ki tarah portray karte hai... and I'm even more astonished that many women find it romantic & passionate
Posted: 8 years ago
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Well according to Gul Khan Yes. In General and Reality a big NO.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No

That includes verbal abuse from woman's side
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Absolutely not.

Verbal. Physical. Mental. Abuse is a big, big, big NO.

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