I haven't read all pages, but based on last couple, I get the drift of the thread.
I personally don't understand the huge hue and cry over Hindi threatening mother tongue of the region. I am Gujarati and have studied in Gujarati medium all my school life. Hindi was a subject and so was English. Everyone picked up Hindi easily and it felt more 'Apna' than English could ever do.
Yet, I never felt Hindi threatening existence of Gujarati. In fact, I feel with the rise of English Medium schools, Kids these days, don't even know to read or write Gujarati. You ask them something in Gujarati, they will answer you in English. I feel English is the one threatening existence of my mother tongue. So I should oppose English then.
And with such mindset, India can never have a Language that is spoken all across the country. I am someone who sees us as one and not different. Yes, we are different but the core is all same.
Let's see. My Mom knows Gujju & Hindi. She goes to a South state for travel. Residents there do not know Hindi and obviously they won't know Gujarati. So? Either my Mom first learn English or She should just be in Gujarat & not visit any other states I suppose as per some here. 😆
We had a Neighbor from Tamilnadu. Class 1 officer in Govt. job. Fond memories I have with his family. He stayed in Gujarat for 20 years and was our neighbor for 5 years. He never learned Gujarati. And yet we got along super fine.
I know so many of such South Indians staying in Gujarat for so many years, their kids being born in Gujarat. All on high Govt jobs position. And hardly anyone has learned Gujarati after migration. Kids even after being born in Gujarat do not know the language. But I have never heard any Gujju person having any issue with them not learning local language. Coz it's not easy. They are not born with it. And I understand it.
Gujarat are migrant labors from Rajasthan, Bihar, UP. Most restaurants in Gujarat have Rajasthani & Nepali staff. And they all converse in Hindi. Never heard any Gujju having issue with it. Never heard a complain that.. they come here and don't learn Gujarati. Guess what.. we don't expect migrants to do that. We accommodate. Coz they are Indians. Apne hai. That's what the feeling is.
And if we are talking about Communities having issue in integrating, then I will share some of my experiences.
So many of Tamils and Telugu people I hear shouting in their phones while traveling in Trains here in USA. It disturbs others. But they don't care. I feel that is so rude.
I was at doc's office and one Indian lady started talking with her husband while waiting for her turn. In her local language. So loud she was.. I can't fathom. Seating next to her was a Pregnant lady who had to bear it.
Everyday outside at work, I hear a Telugu guy talking to India on speaker phone in lunch time. In the lobby of the work area.
So many times, If I am sitting with 2 Tamils, they start talking in their own language while I seat there.. all awkward. Isn't it a basic manner that you shouldn't be speaking in your Mother language when the 3rd person doesn't understand it?
You will find all these same examples in Gujarati people too.
Now these are some examples. And, I do not judge all South Indians based of it.
Coz I have met and known some amazing ones in my life to NOT generalize.
Point is, Majority Indians are good at migrating & integrating with local communities. But Not all. You will find these examples from every state every community. That is no threatening point to any culture.
Lastly, I am of the opinion that.. A country should have a Unified language. That is it's own. We are in era of globalization and here we are fighting over regions. Pitty.
If you don't have problem with English being the common Language, then I just don't get the issue with Hindi?
English is definitely threatening existence of my mother language, yet I don't crucify it coz living outside of India, I know how important it is to know English to integrate on world level.
Yet, I want my country to have it's own Unified language. And if Majority is comfortable with Hindi. I see no issue of adapting to it. It's the vastly adapted medium. It has been there since independence and I know that.. we can't get rid of it & replace it with English. Not all classes can afford to learn English. It's anyways not ours. Hindi main Apnapan lagta hai. Angreji mein nahi.
About ignorance, Well Every region is ignorant of other region in India. I am sure many of you make fun of Gujju people for their hilarious English accent. 😆
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