I have been molested when I was young and it's traumatizing: Sonam! - Page 4

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Posted: 8 years ago
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RE - I don't want to argue with you coz you clearly don't see the point 🤬
I don't need advice from you about how to bring up my son. No thanks.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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It is indeed traumatizing... molestation and rape of kids, both girls and boys is getting so common or maybe it has become common for parents to seek help when behavior of their kids change.. Pathetic people who indulge in such acts🤢
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ranbirrocks

RE - I don't want to argue with you coz you clearly don't see the point 🤬

I don't need advice from you about how to bring up my son. No thanks.


And that right there is the problem. If i say something that is even right it doesn't matter because in this forum the femi-nazis rule. There was no point in what you said. Admit it and move on.

And FYI i have no interest in telling you how to raise your son but the truth is that in desi culture women are made out to be such sacred creatures that boys think they are untouchable and hence think it is okay to instead sexually exploit another boy just because the other option needs to be respected.

You point of view and your stubbornness to admit the fault in your thinking if what is wrong with our society.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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How brave of sonam. Where is the full episode?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Resident_Evil


And that right there is the problem. If i say something that is even right it doesn't matter because in this forum the femi-nazis rule. There was no point in what you said. Admit it and move on.

And FYI i have no interest in telling you how to raise your son but the truth is that in desi culture women are made out to be such sacred creatures that boys think they are untouchable and hence think it is okay to instead sexually exploit another boy just because the other option needs to be respected.

You point of view and your stubbornness to admit the fault in your thinking if what is wrong with our society.


That's extreme personal attack on me, questioning my education and everything. Reported .
This has made me livid.
No more from me on this topic.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ranbirrocks


That's extreme personal attack on me, questioning my education and everything. Reported .
This has made me livid.
No more from me on this topic.


🤣 Grasping at straws i see. I don't see me calling you names anywhere. These days the only resort is "you are reported". Questioning your education? I done see me talking about your education anywhere. Good luck. 👍🏼
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi Resident Evil and Ranbir Rocks- I agree with both of you. Resident Evil, we only speak from our own experience. Ranbir Rocks might be stating solution to what she has seen.😳

Men are bigger predators than females but both have appetite to hurt. It is such a confusing world today. My childhood male friend was repeatedly molested by male servant (he was only 7 years old) and women older than my mom would touch me inappropriately when I was in teenage. Both the episode left lasting impression. My friend committed suicide. I blame on the fact that there is poor sex -education in India. It took one of my more world wide friend who told me. It changed my career since I had to leave that course as the women headed the department.

My 14 year old nephew by law was repeatedly hit by 18 year old female acquaintance who would write inappropriate emails to him including sending picture (don't need to tell you what kind) and requests to meet alone.

Male molesting women is most widely known. I have faced it and I think most females in India have faced it sometime during their life. It is sad how we were always asked to ignore the inappropriate touches and protect our self by being at home before dark. Like light was some kind amulet. Sorry to rant.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I studied in school and it's more girls get molested than guys do. Even facts shown that. 1 in 5 girls and 1 in 20 boys is a victim of child sexual abuse;
Self-report studies show that 20% of adult females and 5-10% of adult males recall a childhood sexual assault or sexual abuse incident;https://victimsofcrime.org/media/reporting-on-child-sexual-abuse/child-sexual-abuse-statistics
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: indfam

Hi Resident Evil and Ranbir Rocks- I agree with both of you. Resident Evil, we only speak from our own experience. Ranbir Rocks might be stating solution to what she has seen.😳


Men are bigger predators than females but both have appetite to hurt. It is such a confusing world today. My childhood male friend was repeatedly molested by male servant (he was only 7 years old) and women older than my mom would touch me inappropriately when I was in teenage. Both the episode left lasting impression. My friend committed suicide. I blame on the fact that there is poor sex -education in India. It took one of my more world wide friend who told me. It changed the my career since I had to leave that course as the women headed the department.

My 14 year old nephew by law was repeatedly hit by 18 year old female acquaintance who would write inappropriate emails to him including sending picture (don't need to tell you what kind) and requests to meet alone.

Male molesting women is most widely known. I have faced it and I think most females in India have faced it sometime during their life. It is sad how we were always asked to ignore the inappropriate touches and protect our self by being at home before dark. Like light was some kind amulet. Sorry to rant.


Thank you. This trivialization of sexual exploitation is not only offensive but also deeply hurtful. I am saddened by the fact that people don't want to see the error in their thinking and get all defensive when told the truth. Here people are making fun of Sonam nonchalantly when in fact she went through something horrible and this is no laughing matter. But i guess people here think everything is a fan-war and every topic needs to be trolled and turned into a "i was done wrong story".
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Posted: 8 years ago
#40
i really wonder why and for what urge they go and do child molesting...

some where a black hole is developing in the conscious mind of men...and its increasing in alarming rate...

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