What should Kajol do? - Page 8

Originally posted by: -mistyeyed-

Those who are not married will never understand the dynamics that go on between a married couple! There is no question of what is right or wrong. Marriage has an unspoken rule. You always support your spouse, no matter what. And it usually works both ways. Especially, when it is something that is out in the open.

Kajol might look silly and doormatish supporting Ajay on this issue, but if she doesn't support him, she will come out looking disloyal, which is far worse. (From her point of view, I mean) Between themselves, Kajol might have told Ajay that he is a damn fool to do something so silly, but to the world, she has to show a united front and that she supports her spouse on the issue and not her friend / colleague.

Very easy to say that one has to stick for what is right, but you have to be married or in a serious committed relationship to see that it is not so simple and straightforward. You have to spend your life with someone and you cannot do that by being righteous and going against that person.

Originally posted by: -mistyeyed-

Those who are not married will never understand the dynamics that go on between a married couple! There is no question of what is right or wrong. Marriage has an unspoken rule. You always support your spouse, no matter what. And it usually works both ways. Especially, when it is something that is out in the open.

Kajol might look silly and doormatish supporting Ajay on this issue, but if she doesn't support him, she will come out looking disloyal, which is far worse. (From her point of view, I mean) Between themselves, Kajol might have told Ajay that he is a damn fool to do something so silly, but to the world, she has to show a united front and that she supports her spouse on the issue and not her friend / colleague.

Very easy to say that one has to stick for what is right, but you have to be married or in a serious committed relationship to see that it is not so simple and straightforward. You have to spend your life with someone and you cannot do that by being righteous and going against that person.

Same goes for parent-child relationship! All those who criticism Salim Khan for blindly supporting Salman have in all probability never had kids or haven't been in a position where they had to defend their children.

All right and wrong goes out of the window when it comes to relationships. Doesn't matter if your husband is a cheating asshold or if your child is the biggest douche who walked the face of Earth, you still stand by then, no matter what.

Originally posted by: -mistyeyed-

Those who are not married will never understand the dynamics that go on between a married couple! There is no question of what is right or wrong. Marriage has an unspoken rule. You always support your spouse, no matter what. And it usually works both ways. Especially, when it is something that is out in the open.

Kajol might look silly and doormatish supporting Ajay on this issue, but if she doesn't support him, she will come out looking disloyal, which is far worse. (From her point of view, I mean) Between themselves, Kajol might have told Ajay that he is a damn fool to do something so silly, but to the world, she has to show a united front and that she supports her spouse on the issue and not her friend / colleague.

Very easy to say that one has to stick for what is right, but you have to be married or in a serious committed relationship to see that it is not so simple and straightforward. You have to spend your life with someone and you cannot do that by being righteous and going against that person.

Same goes for parent-child relationship! All those who criticism Salim Khan for blindly supporting Salman have in all probability never had kids or haven't been in a position where they had to defend their children.

All right and wrong goes out of the window when it comes to relationships. Doesn't matter if your husband is a cheating asshold or if your child is the biggest douche who walked the face of Earth, you still stand by then, no matter what.

Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais

. <3 She even said so herself in an IV "You look at him & see that but then you get to know him & you're bowled away by this man & his personality. If he wasn't married, I would've pursued him."

Originally posted by: -mistyeyed-

Those who are not married will never understand the dynamics that go on between a married couple! There is no question of what is right or wrong. Marriage has an unspoken rule. You always support your spouse, no matter what. And it usually works both ways. Especially, when it is something that is out in the open.

Kajol might look silly and doormatish supporting Ajay on this issue, but if she doesn't support him, she will come out looking disloyal, which is far worse. (From her point of view, I mean) Between themselves, Kajol might have told Ajay that he is a damn fool to do something so silly, but to the world, she has to show a united front and that she supports her spouse on the issue and not her friend / colleague.

Very easy to say that one has to stick for what is right, but you have to be married or in a serious committed relationship to see that it is not so simple and straightforward. You have to spend your life with someone and you cannot do that by being righteous and going against that person.

Same goes for parent-child relationship! All those who criticism Salim Khan for blindly supporting Salman have in all probability never had kids or haven't been in a position where they had to defend their children.

All right and wrong goes out of the window when it comes to relationships. Doesn't matter if your husband is a cheating asshold or if your child is the biggest douche who walked the face of Earth, you still stand by then, no matter what.