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Posted: 9 years ago
#21
Mama's boy rarely becomes a good hubby.
Seen it a lot in Indian families
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Posted: 9 years ago
#22
Don't think he is, but if a Mother is overly clingy and creepy then there's something wrong for sure there. Meddling his affairs constantly I dont know if Ranbir has given that right to his Mother, if he has then he has to deal with it. Neetu isn't like any other Mother, she seems to have serious control issues another Babita but a more extreme version making up for the 'grief' she had to face in her marriage by clinging on and taking it out on her son and his GF's is just wrong on so many levels, there aree boundaries that you shouldn't cross. Don't think she adds anything except more problems for her already problematic child a lot of it could be her own doing. He'll end up like Salman if he's not careful
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What's the meaning of momma's boy?
I never understood why he was called a momma's boy. Just because Neetu opposed DP and cropped out a picture of Katrina???

Yaar... if I was seeing a guy and his mom posted a family picture of themselves that included me, on social media, I'd get a little tensed.. especially when they haven't made it official with me! She behaved like a responsible lady IMO.

And, it's nice she involves in his personal life.. I think every mom and son should be that close - discuss GFs and personal lives. Choice in the end should be the son's but I'd call it healthy if son went home and discussed stuff about relationships. But these discussions should be merely discussions - shouldn't be taken too far to the point where parent/child lose a sense of what is right or wrong or suffocate or emotionally blackmail each other. The parent should be like a guide or a friend - "beta, this is my opinion - choice is yours, here are my blessings 🤗I'm there for you no matter what, you are a grown up -you know what to do " type :p ...it's a healthy communication... not one where mom starts making faces/gets bitchy/wants her son to act in such and such way...no.. :|

When I'm a mother, I'd keep tabs on who my child is mingling with too :) ..it's responsibility one feels towards a loved one.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The entire setup is super-creepy. Neetu used to cry & divulge her relationship problems to RK when he was just an adolescent. She's super duper possessive of him & believes him to be the perfect man hence her is "Raymond." She has a near asthma + heart attack every time he shows any inclination of being serious with any girl & starts off on her "Raymond" prayer chants as if that will ensure the girl will leave her Precious. All the whole berating her & cropping her out of from family pictures.. Now see, that does. Lol.


DP was the worst little s**t on earth when she was dating her Raymond & Kat was a sweet angel, the reverse happened when Kat begun dating RK. She is like one of those 60s mothers who believes her son to be a Demi-God on earth, to an extreme.



To Freud their relationship, so to speak, it reeks of a severe case of Oedipal complex what with all of RK's Neetu chants. At the age of 30+ if the mother proudly announces how she gives her adult son his pocket money & cuts his nails, I don't know what you expect him to be called.
Edited by Mallika-E-Bhais - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#25
Couldnt help but post this gem from Sarabhai😆

Meri moma yaani ishwar ki di hui badhaai
Ishwar ki samjhaai hui sachaai, ki duniya maaya se hi bani banaai
Sab kuch hai maaya, yeh sofa yeh kaaya
Ishwar ne table-cloth bhi hai maaya se banaaya
Rista bhi maaya, raasta bhi maaya, lunch dinner aur breakfast bhi maaya
Maya to sophistication ka pratik hai, thodi contemporary thodi antique hai
Maya to hai mamta ka chhaya, sara pyaar aata always via maaya

Maaya hai jeevan ki preyasi, Maya hai jaise dining table ki kursi


Tum bin jaise mai raaste ka andha bhikhari
thodi blessings daan me de do
thodi mamta tumhari
momma ho momma ho

Tumhe samjhe toh mujhe bhi samjhana,
kyu hai mera jeevan itna khokla,
jaise koi basi aur sada hua khaman dhokla




Edited by sphinx911 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#26
I feel for Neetu. It's not easy living with an abusive hubby. Her children must have been her world. That explains the obsession. Will not go as far as calling it a oedipal complex because that's a serious allegation. But I have seen women who suffer from bad marriage, get insanely obsessed to kids.
As someone said, RK is not actually mamma's boy. He hardly abides by mommy's instructions! About the pocket money bit...you are being naive if you believe that. A man earning crores take pocket money from mom? Yeah right in mars!
Edited by Lilac_N_Maple - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#27
MEB - I have missed that interview about pocket money and nail clipping interview . Please give me hints to google it.
Liliac - I can understand the space Neetu is coming from. Sadly RK isn't a momma' boy as he is portrayed to be.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sphinx911

Couldnt help but post this gem from Sarabhai😆

<font color="#0000FF">Meri moma yaani ishwar ki di hui badhaai

Ishwar ki samjhaai hui sachaai, ki duniya maaya se hi bani banaai

Sab kuch hai maaya, yeh sofa yeh kaaya

Ishwar ne table-cloth bhi hai maaya se banaaya

Rista bhi maaya, raasta bhi maaya, lunch dinner aur breakfast bhi maaya

Maya to sophistication ka pratik hai, thodi contemporary thodi antique hai

Maya to hai mamta ka chhaya, sara pyaar aata always via maaya</font>

<font color="#0000FF">Maaya hai jeevan ki preyasi, Maya hai jaise dining table ki kursi

</font>

<font color="#FF0000">Tum bin jaise mai raaste ka andha bhikhari
thodi blessings daan me de do
thodi mamta tumhari
momma ho momma ho

</font>
<font color="#FF0000">Tumhe samjhe toh mujhe bhi samjhana,
kyu hai mera jeevan itna khokla,
jaise koi basi aur sada hua khaman dhokla
</font>





Too good. Roshesh Ki kavita 😆
Momma rocks 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais

The entire setup is super-creepy. Neetu used to cry & divulge her relationship problems to RK when he was just an adolescent. She's super duper possessive of him & believes him to be the perfect man hence her is "Raymond." She has a near asthma + hearts track every time he shows any inclination he shows some small signs of being serious with any girl & starts off on her "Raymond" prayer chants as if that will ensure the girl will leave her Precious. All the whole berating her & cropping her out of from family pictures.. Now see, that does. DP was the worst little s**t on earth when she was dating her Raymond & Kat was a sweet angel, the reverse happened when Kat begun dating RK. She is like one of those 60s mothers who believes her son to be a Demi-God on earth, to an extreme.



To Freud their relationship, so to speak, it reeks of a severe case of Oedipal complex what with all of RK's Neetu chants. At the age of 30+ if the mother proudly announces how she gives her adult son his pocket money & cuts his nails, I don't know what you expect him to be called.



Oedipal complex what are you on?😆 You little perv😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais

The entire setup is super-creepy. Neetu used to cry & divulge her relationship problems to RK when he was just an adolescent. She's super duper possessive of him & believes him to be the perfect man hence her is "Raymond." She has a near asthma + hearts track every time he shows any inclination he shows some small signs of being serious with any girl & starts off on her "Raymond" prayer chants as if that will ensure the girl will leave her Precious. All the whole berating her & cropping her out of from family pictures.. Now see, that does. DP was the worst little s**t on earth when she was dating her Raymond & Kat was a sweet angel, the reverse happened when Kat begun dating RK. She is like one of those 60s mothers who believes her son to be a Demi-God on earth, to an extreme.



To Freud their relationship, so to speak, it reeks of a severe case of Oedipal complex what with all of RK's Neetu chants. At the age of 30+ if the mother proudly announces how she gives her adult son his pocket money & cuts his nails, I don't know what you expect him to be called.


Sorry MEB..i Usually agree with what u say but ..
Does a mom in an abusive relationship really need to divulge her problems to her child? Cant the child see it himself? Ranbir would know even without telling..when it happens day and night u cannot shield ur kids from that reality, however much u try.
Haven't really heard RK's Neetu chant..but if he ever did its ok..considering Neetu's life revolved around her kids. She could have quit, but maybe she stuck around coz there was love...inspite of everything..Rishi is n alcoholic..but never heard of him cheating or womanizing.
So in short if Ranbir respects his mom..so be it...she deserves it.
If Neetu is possessive about her son what can we do?
It looks like the story of 'kuch Rang pyaar ke..'😉

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