Will Shahid choose Mira over his work? - Page 29

Originally posted by: gatheringstorm

@KS...that is fine but I still don't get why you are so pissed, I have never seen you lose your calm like this so just surprised. Anyways none of these posts are making much sense to me anymore...ciao people

Why does he have to be by her side?It's not like God forbid she is bed ridden or something.he can go with her for walks and spend quality time with her.yeh IF ka article hai?😕I think she will need him more once the baby arrives.Good luck to both of them..

^^ True, Mini. Work on more movies to bring in more funds.. Not like the wife can as of now, anyway.

Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais

What nonsense, who cares if he keeps by his child-bride's side or not.


It's just highly disturbing for some reason that a child is having a child. :/

^^ Hyperbole. 13 year age difference. Married too young. Its clearly meant to express shock & not to be taken literally. Just very surprising how a girl belonging to Mira's social milieu & potential would choose to become a mother at such a young age. Certainly odd, hence, very surprising.

Originally posted by: gatheringstorm

Trust me its a very big deal in urban India especially considering the strata of society to which she belongs that is middle to upper middle class.There is no one and I mean literally no one that I have ever come across in my entire graduate and post grad college life who was married. As a matter of fact even after our post grads, most of my friends would express surprise if one of our classmates got married soon, before 25 even. I find it shocking cause the environment in which I have grown up, be it family or friends or social circle, no one gets married so soon forget having a child at this age.

Hence its a big deal cause I have no personal exposure to this phenomenon of early marriage and child and someone who belongs to the same milieu as me doing this shocks me.

+1000

She's comfortably upper-class going solely by pictures & the information we have on her. But it's still shocking.



What's even more surprising is that she could've forged an identity of her own, beyond Mrs Shahid Kapoor. Very strange indeed.

Umm. Marrying at 21-22 isn't a poor people thing...nor does it make you a 'child bride'. It is not a 16th century concept. Very very common in high society today too. Everything depends on the environment you grow up in...what your family thinks and believes/deems acceptable. Mira looks happy. It doesn't look like she was forced into anything. She's young yes but she's of legal age. Maybe they wanted a kid early or maybe it was an accident. I don't really get this disgust or really judgemental attitude about their life.

Originally posted by: turqoisedress

Umm. Marrying at 21-22 isn't a poor people thing...nor does it make you a 'child bride'. Very very common in high society too. Everything depends on the environment you grow up in...what your family thinks and believes/deems acceptable. Mira looks happy. It doesn't look like she was forced into anything. She's young yes but she's of legal age. Maybe they wanted a kid early or maybe it was an accident. I don't really get this disgust or really judgemental attitude about their life.

I know a girl who comes from a pretty rich family...married at 22 to a guy she knew for 3 months (arranged). She's been married for 3 months now and her OWN family, not even her in-laws, is already joking about her having a kid by next year. She wasn't forced into anything...she genuinely liked the guy. BTW, this girl has spent her entire life in USA...right from birth to college. It happens more than we think. Just because we can't imagine ourselves doing the same doesn't mean it's wrong for other people also...especially when they are privileged people of legal age & are capable of making their own decisions.

Imagine if Shahid Mira name thier daughter Shahmira or son Shahmir😆

Genie: True but a child. At THIS age? Ummm wow. How much of life has she seen? And isn't it bizarre to imagine a young girl of her age & social & financial background content to be the arm-candy of a big star? Frankly the easy acceptance of this by many on this forum is equal parts baffling & strange.. But to each their own I reckon.


Yes, she's definitely rich & such alliances do happen in business families but those are usually for girls who aren't ambitious... Considering her schooling, what we do know about her for certain, she does seem ambitious... And a 13 year age difference is certainly very uncommon in today's age. I cannot wrap my head around any of this, hence the shock.