90s song Pari hoon main about child abuse?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Came across conversations on Twitter and a blog post on this popular 90s indipop song "Pari hoon main" (by Suneeta Rao) being actually about child abuse.



Miss Malini blog post on this -

http://www.missmalini.com/2015/07/23/holy-fck-is-suneeta-raos-iconic-song-pari-hoon-main-about-child-abuse/#2

What do you think? Does this video and song subtly hint at child abuse? Thought of discussing here since this forum has many 90s pop culture enthusiasts.

Link to the song video: https://www.youtube.com/#/watch?v=WjZf9VM4Lgc
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Man. This is coming as shock coz I never thought of the song as such, but now when I watched it, after reading this.. It does look like about a child abuse. Even the part of the song 'mujhe na chhuna' also add to it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hmm, when I had watched the video I also suspected it maybe abt child abuse as shes saying Chhoona naa mujhey, pari hoon main" and the guy seems to be her teacher or tutor? 😕

BTW the video u posted here is not the actual VM which shows the girl and the tutor. This is the VM, though its an old, bad quality vdo:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sGDGmE9iXgo

But on the other hand if u watch the vdo, the girl is smiling coyly at the teacher and seems to be attracted to him. It maybe a song abt a girl's first crush on an older man, which happens quite often in teenage years.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i don't think its about child abuse
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The blog post has video. Sorry for poor quality though.

I am confused. At times it looks like it is about a school girl's crush on her teacher oe tutor.

But then those words like "Na na mujhe chhoona na, door hi rehna" sound confusing.

There is constant refrain of "mujhe na chhoona".

Then those flying uniforms. What's this?

But then Suneeta is laughing and smiling through this...why would one laugh alluding to child abuse?

I am not sure.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: atominis

The blog post has video. Sorry for poor quality though.

I am confused. At times it looks like itnis about a school girl's crush on her teacher.

But then those words like "Na na mujhe chhoona na, door hi rehna" sound confusing.

There is constant refrain of "mujhe na chhoona".

Then those flying uniforms. What's this?

But then Suneeta is laughing and smiling through this...why would one laugh alluding to child abuse?

I am not sure.


Its abt a young girl's infatuation. Shes attracted to the older guy, her teacher, she feels the first stirrings of physical love yet she is scared and nervous abt these new feelings.
Thats why shes saying Chhoona na mujhey...he doesnt touch her in the vdo so its not abt child abuse, its abt the fantasies of the young girl and her reticence at the same time. At least thats my take on the vdo.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: atominis

The blog post has video. Sorry for poor quality though.

I am confused. At times it looks like it is about a school girl's crush on her teacher oe tutor.

But then those words like "Na na mujhe chhoona na, door hi rehna" sound confusing.

There is constant refrain of "mujhe na chhoona".

Then those flying uniforms. What's this?

But then Suneeta is laughing and smiling through this...why would one laugh alluding to child abuse?

I am not sure.

This is scary 😲
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Tbh, it looks like the teacher and the girl had consensual sex. A case of mixing business with pleasure. That's my take on it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If it's about sexual abuse then why is the girl smiling? But at some instances, she is scared and sad also. Quite shocking, must say.

@Jibber-jabber : The girl is clearly a child, how could it be consensual sex? It would be considered statutory rape then.
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Originally posted by: .krackjack.

If it's about sexual abuse then why is the girl smiling? But at some instances, she is scared and sad also. Quite shocking, must say.

@Jibber-jabber : The girl is clearly a child, how could it be consensual sex? It would be considered statutory rape then.


In some scenes the girl looks infatuated and watches him secretly. The teacher also stares at her while she is dancing happily in the rain. Maybe the girl is scared too owing to her young age and subconsciously also knows that this is socially and morally unacceptable. I could sense some sexual tension in some scenes.

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