@Tanya
Didn't Aamir blog against Big B's Black? There is also an old Filmfare interview of Aamir where he said Big B's films misled youth and said he didn't use his popularity to send positive message. He called Naseeruddin Shah unprofessional and said he didn't enjoy working with him in Sarfarosh. He recently had a spat with Javed Akhtar over copyright and royalty issues. He is no less in controversies with seniors.
But yes I agree he didn't start war of words with SRK. It has been SRK's habit to take digs at contemporaries be it calling Akshay Kumar a junk food hero after Mohra success or taking a dig at Govinda for his dance in Raja Babu in 1994. His digs at award shows are also in bad taste. I do believe Aamir responded to what SRK kept doing earlier to him.
I don't know much about Salman's digs at others except SRK, Vivek, SLB. But I know he cannot be any less.
I feel they all are bratty. And say things to keep attention focused on themselves. They achieve it too. Look how this thread became BB that too with just old comments!
That said I feel they, especially Aamir and SRK are nice to general fans and public. At an AIDS awareness show in 2001, SRK called some kids on stage. He asked them who was their favourite and if they liked him or not. No kid named him as favourite and one even said he didn't like him. He was cool and jovial about it. Someone had called him the worst actor in a Rediff online chat, he had replied him saying he would try to improve. And Aamir of course never banned any abusive member on his blog or deleted comments and those who meet him have only nice stuff to say about him how he is simple and humble with fans.
Salman has incidents of hitting fans. Maybe depends on mood how he treats them.
Of late SRK did lose it at Wankhede and in early days he had hit a journo. In that respect Aamir is better as he didn't hit or abuse anyone.
They seem more or less on equal footing in nasty behaviour.
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