Attracted to black folks

while many of you know me under the name Ronaldinha/SoukedInsoul/AkaiSgirl

though I like trolling on this board, this topic is serious.

I don't have a bf right now but I am mostly attracted to AA (African American) males, now coming from an Indian background ya'll probably can guess that this is sort of problematic.

Both my parents are racists and hate goras as well as kalas, though kalas more.
They'd rather accept a gora than a kala..
I can't help but be physically attracted to them though, and I know that I'll most likely end up marrying one/having a mixed child.
I don't know how to open their eyes cuz they are too ignorant.
I absolutely know that I won't be having a no desi babies with an Indian man, that is not me, never was and never will be.

So please help!!

How can I deal with them?

ETA
To make it Bollywood relevant, in Bwood mating with folks of different races is soo easy but in reality it isn't. I wish it was as easy for me as it is for the likes of Salman, MaheshBhatt, Ranbir, Katrina etc

See I wanna live my life my way, I wanna marry someone I love more than anything else.
I don't want to marry someone just because my parents tell me so or settle for someone. Not saying that they are forcing marriage upon me now, that is absolutely not the case now, as I am still very young, but I know that it will happen one day.
And idk, I just don't think I'll ever fall in love with a desi guy, I'm just not attracted to them (no offense).
Idk, everyone has their time and my type happens to be AA, I just wish they'd respect my wishes.

find a kalia who is a doctor or engineer, indians parents dont love any thing more than a rich son in law😆

Good luck with finding one without 10 babies and baby mama problems!

Ps. That wasn't meant to be racist "my friend is black" 😆

OMG .. so far I thought Sana was a unique piece on this forum ... I've been proven wrong today .. there are more of her kind here

Ah you are Ronaldinha. Find an educated black guy and then buy him fair and lovely. (just joking)

I am assuming you are dead serious and not trolling. Apologies in advance because I don't know how to say this without being preachy, cheesy and perhaps long..😉

Originally posted by: RoAya

Good luck with finding one without 10 babies and baby mama problems!

Ps. That wasn't meant to be racist "my friend is black" 😆

You know what, that's the most stereotypical racist shit I ever heard. And though I am not AA but Indian I took personal office to it. How would you feel if I told you every brown guy is a terrorist/illegal/taxi driver and/or fled their country due to poverty.

Don't you ever come at me with shit like that. smh.

Originally posted by: .Elixir.

Ah you are Ronaldinha. Find an educated black guy and then buy him fair and lovely. (just joking)

What happened to your obsession with that dancer ,forgot his name.

Since Indians are the target group of fair and lovely I don't think he'd be down with that.
As for the dancer, I believe he is gay so who cares about him. His name was Karan Pangali

Originally posted by: meribaat

I am assuming you are dead serious and not trolling. Apologies in advance because I don't know how to say this without being preachy, cheesy and perhaps long..😉

Your life is your own, make your own decision on this. You can change degrees, jobs but you cannot go back on the father of your child, he will be in your life even if you divorce. You owe it to your unborn kids to have a good father. So choose well. One of the best things in America is you have a choice in ethnicity. Don't exclude any ethnicity, find the person that speaks to your heart, that matches you regardless of ethnicity or color. Mixed race babies are super cute.

Good luck !

Thank you!

I don't wanna exclude any ethnicity, I believe that we are all the same and yeah biracial babies are the cutest ever. I just don't think my parents would be down with it, no matter how educated/rich the guy is.
Just recently my mom said something about how she 'surprised' that black folks were also going to college. I would have slept her if she wasn't my mother for that comment alone.