Why is Abhishek hardly ever carrying Aradhya. I don't mean this in a nasty way, but surely it would be easier for him to carry her. Instead Aishwarya is always seen struggling.
Because he still thinks he's AB's li'l baby. Watch the part of KWK4 where his friends talked about him.. Someone said he is still a kid/doesn't want to grow up or something like that. I'm assuming being reluctant to grow-up, he refuses to take any responsibility of the real kid of the family.
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