Please Read - Clearing up Confusion/Issues - Page 5

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8UVNT4wvIGY[/YOUTUBE]

Originally posted by: Dr3viL

Firstly in regards to me requesting personal information of dexterkichokri to be made available. The only request I made is in response to an apology I received from genie the day after I got banned which highlighted the fact that she purposely created a mess to have the forum turn against me and that she played the victim card. I asked genie to tell the mods what she told me and also requested she post on the board a similar apology, the same place in which she lied, defamed, harassed and instigated others to do the same against me. I still believe if she had an iota of decency she should of apologized on the same platform in which she created the mess.
RE: chat snippet. I came on when there was pages upon pages of abuse and lies - that I wanted her? When it was never that way, I posted facts hoping to dispel and cease rumors, However I am sorry dex, it was inconsiderate of me.

In regards to the molestation incident, the conversation firstly it is not a deleted PM, it was a yahoo chat. I was reluctant to talk about this because sexual molestation is painful. If I came forth and shouted myself hoarse saying no it didn't happen to me, I was concerned it might be perceived as an embarrassing thing to happen and that is why I am vehemently denying it. when in reality it is nothing to be ashamed about. But nonetheless I did feel that way also.

However I was not molested, I have limited experience having dealt with someone who was traumatized. That experience in itself has to an extent influenced me greatly, and I never wanted to share it with you all, their is nothing more personal in my life then that. To make a joke about stripping another human of their dignity and confidence was abhorant, molestation ruins lives. Not many people.. no matter how upset you are..are capable of reaching such low levels of morality, displaying no compassion or humanity, by insinuating such things it is almost a psychopathic attack with only one form of ammunition.. degradation. And I cant counteract one lie for another.

Dexter you ran a successful hate campaigning against me, apologising to me and pumping air into them at the same time!! congrats! its a shame you were unable to tell your friends how you manipulated them, took them for a ride, knowing the truth all along? I hope next time when you decide to dedicate the next 5 years of your life you will make it worthwhile and try to establish some meaningful and honest friendships. Don't take the support of your mates for granted, everyone has feelings and everyone should be treated with respect.

I am sorry that everyone was put through this, it has been a stressful and unhappy incident.
I dont hate dexter, I hate her actions and the choices she made, there is a distinct difference. I think she is irreplaceable, not many people have the luxury of being online 21 hours a day 7 days a week. But I think if you guys are concerned for her welfare, you would encourage her to find peace offline first.

I look forward to be being banned this time tho. I dont like many of you here too anyway ha. just one request though.. when u ban me can u make it so I can access my PM's?? they so damn dirty ..work of art. cheers

OK bellend, now you're just behaving like an attention seeking twat here, what is the purpose of all this horse shit once the member has left?, couldn't you say all of this when she was actually here?

Let's be honest for once, you initiated this whole fiasco when you decided to play pass the parcel with PMs and personal yahoo chat exchanges with other members, and I know you have shown extracts to other people, so don't bother playing dumb here. Ofcourse, when you find out that someone has been leaking your personal messages to other people, they are bound to freak out, this is absolutely normal, Dex reacted, why the hell wouldn't she?, anyone would.

Anyone can post excerpts of messages and leave out the context, and project anyone however they like. When you were showing me these extracts, Dex showed me the entire thing, after reading the entire thing, not once did I ever got the impression that she was after you... man you really fancy yourself to be Akshay Kumar of Aitraaz and she as the psycho Priyanka don't you?, snap out of it mate... quit being this delusional fool.

If she liked you at some point in the past, she doesn't anymore, you don't seem to understand this simple concept that people's likes/dislikes change all the time, what is the point of showing these old PMs when they hold absolutely no meaning or value.

Get over yourself, and get over Dex, she has been banned.. instead of handling this the mature way and just let it slide.. you decide to antagonise again, great job.. but people have had enough of your claptrap.

exactly anyone could selectively of used what they wanted too..and that is why my pms where requested to be ALL sent to the outbox and picked or dissed. I sent you the PM where she repeatedly asked for all and everyone of them..because she could still see certain ones that needed to be trashed that were sitting in her outbox still, as they were in my inbox. And I was sent an abusive PM by her which I did send to another member threatening all this drama play prior to it even happening, and wouldnt you? If someone says..im gonna do such n such.. oh who are they going to believe? LOLAs for OLD PM's I deleted them a long time ago, we only dealt with recent PM's. new dates.. not old ones. because as she requested I trashed them.

Can we please end this now... Lets move on...