Member of the Week: 2Direct - Page 96

Originally posted by: --ania--

okay so before your MOTW closes, this one question popped into my mind after reading some of your replies...

Ok, so let's say you fall in love and you really start to feel for the girl (something along the lines as if she is "the one" for you). Now, you both are dating and somehow she get to know of your past experiences and "drives" etc...she start to be doubtful if this relation is sustainable. Ofcourse, you are serious this time and can't imagine losing her trust or anything... then, how would you assure her that you won't cheat on her and that you're totally sincere?

Which also brings me to another question: are you commitment phobic?

👍🏼 Great job so far!!!

Originally posted by: 2direct

Difficult question Ania, cause I've never been in that position the can't imagine life without her position. I had zero interest emotionally or otherwise in my fleeting relationships because there was always my own personal agenda behind them I'd only give a shit about me myself. If it came to that then I don't know how else I could convince her other than banging the usual dialogues out. It'd be her call but then I know myself and my urges.

And to answer your second question, it's more than being phobic I lose interest in relationships very quickly once my physical needs are fulfilled then I immediately starting looking out for new ones. I can't explain it, it's just when you wanna have sex with every single attractive girl in sight it's a huge urge one can't describe it & it's one urge that doesn't surpress the complicated thing is when it starts to interfere in everything that you do i.e your day to day life Uni/work etc I guess I'm just hardwired that way. Shashi gave some hope that religion could help if it' does help even a little bit then it'd be great

Originally posted by: --ania--

The first question was all about supposing IF you had such a relationship...no emotional investment? That's rare actually...the guys I know have some kinda connection with their gfs that IS the cause their relationships last longer. Even if they still are flirts and can't help get attracted to other girls too, they still stay with their gfs. I think a large part of it comes from controlling your desires...all about mind and body control.

Religion does help! You have to be honest with it though...if you can't be outright religious, then try with being spiritual atleast...build a relationship between you and God and just pray to Him to let you overcome your desires...unless, you take an initiative to build this connection, it wouldn't work, IMO.

Originally posted by: 2direct

My reasons for getting into relationships were purely physical & they were very fleeting with absolutely no long term commitment in mind if it wasn't just sex then it was to try & leech on. Yes Ania that looks great in theory. Controlling your desires the mind the body. But actually carrying in out in practicality/action is another, especially when one has an extremely high sex drive. It's a constant battle you have to be in a similar position to be able to get a better grasp of it But that said I haven't given up hope completely. I'm still optimistic that it will wear away with time [or so I hope and pray]. Your advice on the religion/spiritual aspect is interesting & thanks for that 👍🏼

Originally posted by: --ania--

@2D: Sexual drives, most of the guys constantly experience it. 😆

But I'm hearing about it having this big an impact on someone for the first time...its just that my guy friends are pretty tamed in this aspect ...lol.

It may have to do with high hormone levels...

I know controlling may not be easy, however, you will only get better at it through practice alone! As they say, it's all in the mind....

Originally posted by: Omnipotent_Taco

Since everyone wants this to go to 150 pages...

So you'd like doing it outdoors 2D, but which one would you pick from the following: Taco my answer is highlighted in blue 😊

1. Getting a BJ while driving with your windows down in heavy traffic and praying you don't slam your car into the nearest vehicle

2. Doing it in your parents' place with a horde of desi relatives drinking sharbat in the living room. With them silently muttering tauba tauba because your chick's moans are louder than Maria Sharapova's grunts on the tennis court - There's just something thrilling about this scenario😆

3. Getting it on in an office pantry next to the coffee machine with a hot co-worker. (P.S.: The pantry door is unlocked)

4. Joining the mile high club and doing it on a long haul flight with the sultry passenger sitting beside you. Only to be thrown out by the cabin crew/airline at the next stopover because the passengers complained about not being able to use the loo

5. In an elevator, right at the back. The elevator, of course, has other people in it. So the thrill is 'limited' to a handjob and muffled groans

6. Anything else of your choice. If so, please say what it is.


II. You're at a rock concert with your gang and two smokin' hot groupies. They're ready to have hot and sweaty sex with you with that insane riff playing in the background. However, you have to choose between them or being part of an epic mosh pit. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity. What will you choose? I'd pick the first option Taco😊

Originally posted by: Jericoholic

2d do you watch po*n?

Originally posted by: 2direct

Rarely but I do when I feel like my favourite star is Sasha Peralto. She's smoking HOT