Kareena on films, life n live in relationships

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-Mala-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

ii think live-in relationships are usually headed nowhere.

They stay where they are, or break apart.

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Kal El

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

I think the family in general prefers their women stay out of films but there have been a few exceptions with the later generations, like Sanjana and Karishma Kapoor. End of story.

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desigal90

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: -Mala-
ii think live-in relationships are usually headed nowhere.

They stay where they are, or break apart.

Yeah,it seems that way. Coz then people think, why not keep it just the way it is right now, everything's going well.

In saifeena case, there's the added point that its not even a religious ceremony for them, which is the case with most desis. If you're hindu or muslim for instance, so you either get the phere or the nikaah.

Since neither saif nor Bebo are religious, and have said once or twice that they'd prefer a court marriage, then there goes that moral pressure to get married.

So for them, it literally is just like a piece of paper that "puts a stamp" , in bebo's words, on their relationship. Doubt they care though, coz they're pretty open about living together.

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KhatamKahani

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

I don't agree that a court marriage makes it any less important to society, and there goes the moral pressure. People are not going to think less of the marriage because it's a court marriage*. It to them is still considered a marriage. Without marriage, society will still consider them somewhat less of a commitment and relationship. The fact that it won't be a religious marriage doesn't lessen the value, even in Indian society's eyes.

Imran Khan had a court marriage. So did Aamir Khan with Reena Dutta, and most likely also with Kiran Rao. They don't have an asteriks to their marriage.

For Saif and Kareena it may be a stamp. But society will still expect them and ask them about marriage regardless of religious rites. Unless they outright state that they have no plans on making it official, and firmly don't believe in the institution of marriage.

*I mean in the instance of inter-religious marriages. Otherwise yes, there would be a ... sort of embarassment at going for a simple court marriage. And even that, that's not thinking less of the subsequent marriage itself but rather looking down at the lack of tradition, festivities, culture (and even religion) for the actual wedding.

But in the case of rich people or BW stars, it's not like they're going to leave any stone unturned. They'll still have all the ceremonies and celebrations...but won't go through the final step in front of a religious head.

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desigal90

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

I think I should rephrase that.

What I meant with "moral pressures" is that in Islam atlaest, pre-marital sex is haram. Religiously wrong, etc etc.

I'm nto sure how ti goes with hindu religion or whether its the culture that looks down upon pre-marital sex.

But I guess I was speaking more in terms of the Islamic point of view that if Saif isnt very religious, that's one less "pressure" pushing towards marriage. I'm not sure about how hinduism views pre-marital.

Ofcourse, from the cultural perspective, Indian society will always push towards marriage. Any kind of marriage, even court marriage is just as acceptable.

But I wasnt speaking from cultural perspective when I referred to "moral", so I suppose that was the wrong term to use.

I hope I'm being a bit more clear now, lol

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IHeartDeepika

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Really want to see another GOOD performance from her! Like a strong female character! Perhaps with Dhuan or Heroine.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Kal El
I think the family in general prefers their women stay out of films but there have been a few exceptions with the later generations, like Sanjana and Karishma Kapoor. End of story.

exactly!😊 so there is no hard and fast rule!

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

can we stop this "kapoor family allows girls to act or not" debate...its getting really old...none of us are personal friends with the family, and we havent seen the circumstances during which lolo debuted...so we cant make any "valid" judgements abt their relationships with each other...

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-Mala-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: desigal90
Yeah,it seems that way. Coz then people think, why not keep it just the way it is right now, everything's going well.

In saifeena case, there's the added point that its not even a religious ceremony for them, which is the case with most desis. If you're hindu or muslim for instance, so you either get the phere or the nikaah.

Since neither saif nor Bebo are religious, and have said once or twice that they'd prefer a court marriage, then there goes that moral pressure to get married.

So for them, it literally is just like a piece of paper that "puts a stamp" , in bebo's words, on their relationship. Doubt they care though, coz they're pretty open about living together.

yea that's fine and everything, I just don't like how bebo embodies the person she dates. like with shahid it was all im spiritual and cultured and vegetarian and now with saif it's i read books and marriage is just a stamp, etc etc.

and I can see why marriage wouldn't matter to some people, but a part of me think kareena is sincere but for Saif it's just about having his young gurlfraan around.

I mean cmon, how long have we been hearing.."we will sit and discuss and get married" It's not that complicated of an issue, ESPECIALLY if you say that it makes no difference to you, but you will do it...

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Posted: 13 years ago

#30

^^that i agree...im 19 and even i wouldnt discuss sooo much abt getting married...😆...and they are like in their 30s and 40s respectively and they still dunt seem to be ready for it...kitna sochenge??