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preity*zinta

@preity*zinta

Inactive

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Posted: 15 years ago

Hello,

This topic will probably go ignored, but it's worth a shot.

I can't believe I have to make this topic but I honestly thought a lot of us were way more mature than this.

This forum/section is not a picking ground, you can't just harass anyone you want anytime you want.

I think we've been pretty darn lenient when it came to this section, maybe to lenient, when it came to allowing everyone to voice their opinions, it's what we're here to do isn't it?

It's just not fair grouping 'fangirls' and other members and blaming them for our problems or using them as a reason to start causing trouble.

We've seen a lot of members leave the past few months because of the things that have been taking place here.

I guess the whole purpose of this topic was to ask everyone to be nicer to one another .. to allow others to express their opinions without having someone jump down their throat for not liking what they like, or liking someone too much. Let's make this a happier place :)

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Posted: 15 years ago

i agree to preity* zinta ji but what ur talking about...that's almost impossible...every now and then a member loses temper and jumps back on forth..for their favourite..or whatever they just can't take anybody's opinion in a right way...and see the attacked member is not going to bow down...it will storm back with hitting on the nail forcefully and thts how an unneccessary fight is created...we see the topic closed in a few days...and the thing continues in the next topics...

so i think this place can only become happier when people learn to take opinions just as they are...and not like an abuse..😆...well if it happens...but it seems impossible...but i would like suggest members to be a little tolerant to either avoid or ignore if they can, or can report or msg the mod or can have a break than getting themselves banned...thts not worth it.

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preity*zinta

@preity*zinta

Inactive

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

^ Well said.

I think it would help a lot if members didn't try forcing their opinions down other peoples throats. If you don't agree with something, okay go ahead and say it, but there's really no need to attack the user for liking/disliking something or force your opinions on them. Or simply ignore comments, post what you think and move on. It really isn' t that hard .. but some members fail to comprehend

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@ShadowKisses

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

I'm not sure I want to say anything seeing as it may sound preachy, but in the short time I spend here, I've noticed a general hostility simmering beneath snide remarks that are directed at members because they happen to be a fan of a certain celebrity. It almost seems as though fans who are a bit zealous are ridiculed for their opinions which doesn't sit right with me.

I hope your reminder makes a difference, though :)

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Mandy

@mandy0310

Alumni

+ 8

Posted: 15 years ago

Thanks Swati for making this topic! Its unfortunate that members are leaving the forum because they can't freely express their opinions without being attacked. This forum used to be fun and lively now these days everything becomes so personal. I think members just need to agree to disagree, there will be different opinions and that should be respected.

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@Terenaina

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

I used to be the most active member in this forum last year. I used to love this place. The day that a topic was made about how there was too many shahid/priyanka/deepika fans and how the forum was bias because of having too many of their fans, that was the day I had enough of this. It was a crime to be a certain star's fan. That's how most of the fans started not posting in this place. But it's interesting how the forum is falling apart even though many the fans that people were complaining about left.

Anyways, let's have the old forum back. Let's not pick on others for their opinion.

I have to admit, I was getting sick and tire of a certain member always use to come online whenever I voiced my opinion on something and they would be picking on my posts like it was their job. And I made a wrong decision by acting like them and arguing with them back.

We have to learn to voice our opinion and ignore the person that wants to start an argument with you.

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Mandy

@mandy0310

Alumni

+ 8

Posted: 15 years ago

It can get frustrating and is tempting to fight back but try not to, if you see a member personally attacking other members just report them and someone one the Dev Team will deal with it.

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Posted: 15 years ago

Thank you so much Swati for this post was really NEED it.

I totally agree with what you said. Honestly speaking i almost decide it to leave this place for some days ago because this place is becoming a hater place.

One cant comment in this place about someone who isnt their favorite or else one will get the 'hater tag' and fan groups will jump on you and attack you and tell you that why your opinion is like that they cant respect your opinion because its not like their opinion and people attack one and gets abusive if you say their favorite isnt looking good in this and that and they drag your favorites in the topics and says your opinion is like that because you a fan of this and that person.

Some members should just respect everyones opinions even though if they dont have the same opinion and just because one says they dont like their favorite in this and that they should just respect it and should NOT attack them and force them to like something. Just ignore the comments which you dont like dont jump on members just because you dont share the same opinion.

This place have become very different many have left and the change in this forum which have happend is very disturbing i hope that all members respects everyones opinions after this topic from now on or else honestly this place would become more worse and i would personally leave this place if the negativity goes on.

A suggestion to members if you think someone is bashing your favorite and using abusive words etc... then instead of getting abusive and you do the same mistake and attack the member who just bashed someone then report the member because the Dev Team will take care of it. If you start attacking the member then there wont be a difference between you and that member and if you attack that member then you will send a green signal to other members that now they can attack that member too and they will do that mistake too so if you think someone is bashing a celeb or anyone else then report it too the DT instead of you doing the same thing.

I just hope that now the DT does one thing and that is that they will be 'very fair' from now on if any member be it newbies, senior members, glodies,if-dazzlerz, if-rockerz, viewbies, mods etc.. or even if they fan of the same celeb then i hope that the DT still takes action against that member who goes aginast the rules, because its against IF-rules to attack members, use abusive words and bash celebs or members and its also against IF-rules to write in caps. So if anyone does this i hope the DT takes action against those members who does these things because many more members will leave this place if this hate goes on.

Lets make this place a better place.

Edited by -Crystal- - 15 years ago

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aishwarya

@aish_punk

Inactive

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

its really sad that its happening, we all should try n not do that!

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anku-

@anku-

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

It can get frustrating and is tempting to fight back but try not to, if you see a member personally attacking other members just report them and someone one the Dev Team will deal with it.

Been doing that since WEEKS but its become Useless since majority of fans of the celebs left so maybe the minor fans dont get the attention. Oh well, thats also ok. Cuz even the minors are gone now. Good luck to whoever stays now. Hope you hve a happy time. Enjoy!