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desigal90

@desigal90

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 15 years ago

#171

Geet, specifically Cho (kyaktsar) and Me specifically said we have nothing against Bluemoon (geet), in that thread. ANd that you're a very logical member. You can go back and check.

But you know how outta control those e fights and e bullying woudl become.

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kawal

@kawal_tak

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#172

Originally posted by: ladygaga
Aww thanx for the compliment Kawal.. Well what happened was that I sent a PM to the mod.. and it was right around this time I suppose.. and its morning here right now.. so I thought the mods will get it later.. and confirm if I really wanna take such a BIG STEP.. OF BANNING MYSELF.. LOL.. I thought mods will try to convince me.. bachcha dont ban yourself.. so I jsut sent a random PM.. and then I thought that jaate jaate lemme have a chit chat with everyone.. and then later I will tell you guyz that I am banning.. but about 3 minutes after my BM.. BOOM I WAS BANNED.. NO warning no nothing. .I was shocked myself.. seriously.. LOL

haha omg that was funny, but anyway i'm happy that u are back 😃

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desigal90

@desigal90

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 15 years ago

#173

Quite an eventful day on IF!

Now I'll call it a night! Adios, you better be here when I return,lol!

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-Aladin-

@-Aladin-

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#174

Adios ji, I am really really glad to have you back. 🤗

I am also glad to see some of the fans back here and posting.

I will repeat something that I pm'ed to a few of you: Blame games do not help anyone at the end. You can't move forward if you live in the past.

Holding grudges will go no good. Afterall, it takes two to tango. It's easy to point out mistakes of others. But to look at one's own fault is a tougher feat.

Anyways, I am glad that members are back.

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415781

Suspended

Posted: 15 years ago

#175

I have to leave soon and god knows where this topic will be when I come back. I'll just say this -

There has been a lot of passive-aggressive posting on this forum. I am glad we are talking about this in the open and not making snide comments whether its in fanclubs or in BS itself.

Members did vent their frustrations in the fan clubs - A lot of people felt that they couldn't defend themselves in that particular topic without being called dimwitted or lameass etc. Or people saying that they are dramaqueens or accusations being made over things that have never happened. People got sick of it - stopped posting in BS and an unfortunate consequence of that was that some people instead vented in the FC.

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ladygaga

@ladygaga

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#176

Aww Geet and Aladin.. two smart asses.. hehe.. U both rock.. and we all rock! And I wanna say that I am fairly very new member but very old (in terms of IF old not really old..) and VALUABLE MEMBERS LIKE HIRU.. AND MANNU HAVE LEFT IF.. AND maybe some of us are to be blamed.. whatever the reason.. I HOPE THEy COME BACK.. THEIR PRESENCE IS Very imp to US.. As Riya Said.. we all are like a BIG FAT FIGHTING FAMILY.. lol.. PLEASE HIRU AND MANNU if you are reading this please come back.. I WILL NOT BITE YA.. HEHE I am vegeatariannnnn

Edited by ladygaga - 15 years ago

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anku-

@anku-

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

#177

Originally posted by: -bluemoon-

I know you're not making it up And I remember exactly who posted in the FC about your comments. And she said the same thing in another topic too. So again she was upfront about it . It wasn't me, or Hira, or Mannu or Kully. One person and she posted in BS about it too. I remember this because I told her that people are probably reading the comments here too.

Anyway I am glad this is out in the open. Hiru answered your comments and Mannu didn't because by then she had already stopped posting - so that is why she didn't discuss it with you (as far as I know). Because she never told me why she didn't discuss this with you. She just let it be.

As for lending support and ganging up and what not. Again it depends on perspective. I felt like people were ganging up against people who liked Shahid, PRiyanka and DP. You may not feel the same way. It goes both ways.

Just to hve myself cleared in this whole thing....

Yeh, it was me who posted in DPFC and I didnt go "omg i cant believe shes in it too" and bla blas but just one line of how it was weird bcoz of past relations that were shared. Not OMG OMG OMG! and countless times!!! I do not hve time for all that.

And then the other thing, it was so not behind the backs or watever but as I already stated in the very post that I left BS and had no friends left here as they also left and we were all at DPFC and so it was the only right place to put my views. The post was NOT AT ALL even discussed. And also bcoz I wud hve gotten replies back for sure to which I had no time to reply due to my papers. Neither did I bitch about anyone or called names as in that other thread.

And if putting out normas views like make your own topics, ignore the others, why get banned if u want a break and all that is making snide remarks and bitching then great, I ll agree I did.

Edited by ~angelz16~ - 15 years ago

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455517

Suspended

Posted: 15 years ago

#178

Dear Desu I love you - I really do 😆

I was like "another Kurbaan thread?" LOL what can my Desu still say about the movie?"

You know I read some comments about you're liking "too much" that movie and I was like another epic thread LOL.................

Welcome back Adios - ironic stuff : adios means Good bye in spanish ---LOL Now you become Lady Gaga Huge step in your e life....😆

And i agree with you dear Adios it's always better to say things directly and we're human so sometimes we prefer to keep quiet and talk to people we're most closed....But I can swear and everyone who has already PM'ed me can testify I don't talk about IF members on PMs I never do even in another mail boxes --- when I talk about IF members it's ALWAYS on the BS never on FC ----- And God knows I'm posting on FC considering the news and the MNIK promotion---You can check I only talk about the medias or fans in general not IF fans...and not specific people..

..I've already received hate mails, some people call me "gayrukh Khan fan" - sexist B***h or other sweet names - guess what I'm still here and I'm fine...If some people think I'm important enough to write me LONG insulting mails --- I'm vain/arrogant enough to take it well LOL

I like to consider myself as someone "objective" and it's true that sometimes Shahid's fans are reproached of liking him😕😕😕 The same for Deepikas fans...😕😕 it's a forum about stars so it's normal that fans say positive things about their faves or try to defend them, but sometimes it goes really over the top -

And some "free thinkers" (I include myself) don't like the whole "trial" concept : "y're a hater, y're negative and blah blah blah.."...we're just here to have discussions not to be right - it's not the point to say that we know the truth - it's just about chatting , having fun and exchanging ideas...

So people can have their opinions no need to try to "convert" them to what you think if they don't want to --- it's quite exhausting...to read some of repetitive posts...🤢

In ytube there are a lot of hate comments about SRK --- I don't care it's fine! Everyone likes what they want or dislikes what they want...But some times I reply "It's always nice for SRK to have haters who go to the cinema to watch his movies LOL" --- Because star haters watch the movies of people they hate LOL I have a friend who despises Kat and Kareena she's the first to send me links about them 😕

It has to be some balance in everything - Like I already said ; the ancient greeks believed that the biggest human flaw was Hybris = being extrem (emotions, reactions and so on)....I think they were right --- civilizations died because they couldn't stop themselves from inter destruction, so let's be smarter and preserve our forum from hatred and extremism!😊

About the ganging up stuff -- It's human --- we're stronger when we're together --- It's a normal reaction..As for me I don't like gangs I've never really liked that because sometimes you follow the trend to be appreciated by other members - I know that i can't say too mean things on Bebo because I truly adore Desu...LOL at Desu : Kareena dances likes a stick....LOL God I've managed to say a mean thing about her LOL.....Ok I'm not that corrupted after all😃

I had a friends gang when I was in high school and guess what everyone was free to talk to people that I hugely disliked, everyone was free to come and go...It's called freedom!

I hold it against you Adios because I can't read your posts any longer!!!!!!! LOL

And unlike what it's been said on that thread --- hanging or talking with "only" people sharing the same views as you isn't the best thing because it can lead to a wrong perception of socialization --- the people who are closed to me are always the people I'm really different from and it learns me to be acceptive and tolerant and I know through my experience on IF that I am because I have some interesting experiences....

People are who they are - I accept them : hater, rude, uneducated, blunt, arrogant, liar, and so on..............

It's humankind I have flaws myself : stubborn, arrogant, obssessive, possessive, anti social, sacarstic, like mocking.....

So I accept that people dislike me because I like SRK (even if it's unfair BUT LIFE IS UNFAIR), I accept that people like SRK with various degrees, I accept that some fans gang up, I accep that others are "free thinkers", I accept people's points of view and personalities and the most important I know some IF members are young members so sometimes through their posts we can tell where they're coming from but I don't analyze them because of their ages but because of their arguments....

I accept that people dislike me because I say some stuff on my posts - it's ok..it's ok to be human😉

Like I don't like it's unecessary arguments over the SAME STAR constantly ------ Shahid Kapoor to name him---If some people dislike him let them be if others like him let them be also! Peace - Paz - Paix - Pax

If you have time check my profile --- my main hobby is "Being unliked by virtual people and e people"..LOL

Like if it matters - chill!

It doesn't matter if people say stuff about you behind your back Adios the most important is that people who tell you things directly --- I don't care about people who talk behind my back I like people who have guts to say to me things - the others I don't mind...Keep that state of spirit ahead and you never fear anyone....!

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=baQ0-xbBGJg[/YOUTUBE]

Now I'll post that song in very "hot" topic..LOL🥱

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-iktaara-

@-iktaara-

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#179

Woops! Just got back from the finals and I see lots of things happening around in Bollywood forum...

Welcome back Adios! good to see you posting! 🤗

For others: Happy Holidays!

PS: Our forum is like one hindi movie, so much drama just like Kabhi Khushi kabhi Gham 😆

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455517

Suspended

Posted: 15 years ago

#180

Yeah yeah that's what I wanted to say by "it really goes over the top" -- just like masala movies our forum is so masala...Drama!!😆 And one more thing and not the least : it's not because we fight that we hate each other --- It's normal to have fights but not always the same fights over the same subjects.....

If you agree/disagree say it then move on..don't hold grudges...it's useless and pointless especially on our e lives...

Edited by lalixlili - 15 years ago