MEMBER Reviews of KURBAAN (ADIOS returns p 13!) - Page 16

Originally posted by: desigal90

Geet you honestly dont think I've ever been ganged up on this forum? If not, then hmm..dunno what ot say. Do I really wanan get back into this Geet? I had left the forum at one point because I felt targetted. Why because i spoke out against a "certain celeb" that is revered. I came back, then again countless times, attacked for the same reason. And not my argument mind you, things like "You're too blind", "Stupid logic", "Dumb topic", "Why do you always have to say that. Get over it!", etc etc. Yes, its happened. Shocking eh?

And I mentioned Hiru and Mannu coz I felt really close to them at one point. I only mentioned them becuause i felt COMFORTABLE enough to point out that i felt their behavior changed. And I wanted both of them to speak up ON THEIR OWN and be a part of that discussion. Clear up my doubts. Only Hiru spoke up. I never relaized that i woudl get discussed in their fan club for doing that. And I said what I felt liek saying Geet. I never said anything negative against the two. Not once. If it was taken that way, then wow, lol. I do feel humbled to have been discussed in great detail in the fanclub though.

About the first instance I remember Desu - a lot of people supported you afterwards. There was the whole petition thing. At that time I think Riya was one of the few active Shahid fans on the forum. Yes I don't remember her name - but there was a member who criticized you for your posts - but didn't people support YOU after that in the petition?

And I am not sure what fanclub you're talking about?

Oh stop it, I saw it with my own eyes. Deepika's FC. I saw it.

And the only reason I POINTED THEM OUT, was so they can SPEAK UP and talk to me there, right there, in frton of everyone. Because I cared enough and a lot was being brought out, and specific examples were being asked.

You think I'm blind? I never said anything after that because it was over adn done with. I wanted Hirtu and Mannu to speak as individuals right there because they were asking for specific examples. I never called anyone LAME, i never called anyone NAMES.

Go back into the thread, look with care.

But I'll be the first to claim, that YES Ihave been attacked IN SWARMS, and groups. I've also noticed another certain fan who's grammar is ridiculed. And no, i'm not talking about the one who doesnt make any sense and flips out in random topics. I'm talking about a reall sweet member and in gernal fans of htis actress are ridiculed, specifically grammar wise. And its literlaly bullying in groups. Its so NOT cool.

Ok.. so I can't sleep.. I don't wanna go around circles again.. But I agree with Desu.. I did kinda feel belittled by the whole fanclub comments.. its like those comments were made right in front of our eyes on the same forum.. And I honestly felt afraid of them.. cauz I thought like these people kinda potray diff feelings once they are in the fanclubs.. And I found it scary.. Cauz I am always up for it if someone calls me a biatch on my face.. but going behind back and doing all the just seems iffy to me.. it just seems creepy.. The point is yes me and Desu and many others have also said stuff to you guyz.. but Atleast we said it on your faces and not behind your backs in OPEN PUBLIC Forums.. We all have two faces.. its human nature.. but I think its more courterous to either criticize someone in front of them or use PM SERVICE.. Fan clubs literally had become bash clubs and it always felt weird to me..

Thanks Adios...my intent was never to belittle anyone. But to bring to attention that two members had left and no one seemed to care. It escalated to the point where a lot of issues were brought out.

And examples were asked. And examples given. Some members were blunt. To the point. I tried to let everyone see my point of view, and tried ot remain as neutral as possible. But everything's taken out of context. Pointing a certain behavior out becomes attacking. I thougth I had cleared it all up with Hiru. But here it seems like a lot was made out of my statemetn adn perhaps discussed...

Saying that.. I still feel that we should call it even.. we all have done bad stuff.. and I think its time to give it a rest. There will always be people in this forum and also in real life that we always have inclination towards.. because maybe our ideas.. values.. and things just click between us.. Like I will always side wid divz or desu more.. and in a way that I would never be able to relate to Geet... Although I wish I could.. cauz she comes across as a very intersting person.. And Geet would never be able to relate to me the way she relates to Riya.. or Hiru.. But this SHOULD NOT mean that we on the opposite side cannot be cordial.. You guyz feel that because of US.. some of your fav members left.. Then I am personally ready to call those members back.. and request them to come back.. And I have also felt wronged in the past.. like am sure you guyz have also.. so lets just call it even steven.. and not resort to blame games again and again.. Cuaz this will never end.. I am sure I have 10000 more arguments left and you have 1000000 more.. just let it rest.. and please its a humble request.. try and be upfront guyz.. even if you feel that my comments right now are insincere.. the I WOULD MUCH APPRECIATE.. if you would SAY IT ON MY FACE.. Rather than holding it in.. and saying it somewhere else..

Agreed with Adios. I for one had nothing against any of em. What i said on the topic was what I sincerely felt. Nowhere did i discuss hiru or mannu ever in any argument with ANYONE else. Or in ANY other topic or PM. Because I have never had anything against those two, ever.

welcome back adios...it was shocking to see u banned..anyways have a blast as a newbie now LOL 😊

Originally posted by: desigal90

Thanks Adios...my intent was never to belittle anyone. But to bring to attention that two members had left and no one seemed to care. It escalated to the point where a lot of issues were brought out.

And examples were asked. And examples given. Some members were blunt. To the point. I tried to let everyone see my point of view, and tried ot remain as neutral as possible. But everything's taken out of context. Pointing a certain behavior out becomes attacking. I thougth I had cleared it all up with Hiru. But here it seems like a lot was made out of my statemetn adn perhaps discussed...

You dodo bird, next time you have exams, can you atleast PM me and warn me in advance. Especially since Flav had previously did the same. And your weird siggy message was "gone with teh wind"

What in teh world does one make of htat? 😆

OK I am a little confused. I remember discussing the infamous thread in the FC. I remember talking to others about how I felt it was unnecessary and that I was tired of the attacks on BS. But I said pretty much the same thing here as well. I also remember other members of the FC talking about how they thought the comments being made were lame - not the people making them - but the comments themselves.

I think that is not as bad as calling someone lameass or a dimwit to their faces OR behind their backs. And all of this happened AFTER the thread started.

And Desu I said people who namecalled AND who supported it. It seemed like the people doing the name-calling did have support from everyone else going "oh we need people like you here - you're sane and balanced".

As for being two-faced - well that is something I don't even want to go into. Obviously when people stopped posting in BS because of all that happened they were going to discuss it in the FC. But I still don't recall name-calling. I do remember this issue being discussed and some people did say that "other fans are biased too" or "why are we being picked on" or that "the posts are lame" but that is not a personal attack on any particular member. And that is exactly what people said in that same thread too in the open - on BS. Since they were not posting here anymore they used the FC to vent some frustration but I don't recall people calling you names or asking you to leave and stop posting - and that is what I mean by personal attacks.

Aww thanx Kawal and Mannu.. Honestly when I left I did not think that that many people even knew me.. I mean my posts were always eccentric and weird.. I had no clue.. that many people followed my posts and had any idea of who I was.. seriously.. It was just shocking..