Harman talks about PC, Shahid... - Page 25

Originally posted by: ranig

<br><br>I think It's completely true. Harman clearly says he is at fault for the relatinship ending. IN fact, he says it's between the couple what went wrong.IT's been almost a year since Priyanka has hung out with Harman. She was friends with Shahid before she started dating him. In fact she has been clearly hanging out with Shahid for the past year. <br><br>But, still people are saying that Priyanka cheated on Harman. So, Priyanka does not want to talk about her relationshiop with Shahid with Harman. That's up to her if she wants to share it with him. IF they've broken up why does she need to talk to him about who she is dating or who she plans to marry. <br><br>I find that if a guy moved on from a previous relationship like for example All the men in bollywood have left women and gone for other women. Akshay Kumar, Salman Khan, Abhishek Bachchan and many many more. They have all left their previous girlfriends to be with their ladies. They have also had many secretive relationships. Many Many and they still do. <br><br>But, this will never be discussed. You don't think Shahid left Sania Mirza high and dry for Priyanka too. Well, let me tell you he did. <br><br>All I am saying is that if a man does this, there will be no issue. It will not create this kind of thing. But, if Kareena did this. How could she? Or what about Saif. Didn't he leave Amrita for Rosa and he had 2 children. I don't think he got any heat for that. <br><br>I just think we have absolutely different standards for men. And most of us here are women which is even more unfortunate. All I can say is if you can't give time to your girl and you are obsessed with your own insecurities then it's your fault that you have lost her an nobody elses. <br><br><br><br><br><table width="100%" cellpadding="2" cellspacing="0"><tbody><tr><td class="heading" align="left" valign="top"><br></td></tr>
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I understand where you're coming from and sure you are right as I too have seen people blaming women all the time. But its not always that way atleast not on this forum of IF. Not too many days ago people including me were lambasting Bacchan Sr. for his infidelity and affairs. Akshay Kumar also was criticized for all his affairs. Shahid too would have met a similar fate regarding all his affairs if the media put him in a bad light and highlighted all his linkups.

So, on BS its not the woman who always gets bashed. Now it maybe the case in pinkvilla and YT but I have not seen too much of female bashing here, so I'm going to have to disagree with you on that count.

I'm going to restate what I did before, in this case, we are all interpreting his answers in our own way since he gave very vague answers especially towards the end. Now obviously you like Priyanka and know more about her than I ever will, so you're going to be picking her side. I barely know anything about her personal life other than what Harman has mentioned here. So, to me, from this interview alone Harman comes across as someone who received the shorter end of the stick.

Now I never said definitively that Priyanka cheated on Harman. I said I got that impression from that particular response Harman gave and I already explained why I thought that.

ditto with rani

Originally posted by: -bluemoon-

The ppl who said "Poor Shahid" aren't the ones posting on this topic and defending PC. For instance, I never said poor Shahid. Riya, one of Shahid's biggest fans, wasn't going on criticising Kareena.

My point is no one is evil and two wrongs don't make a right.

Originally posted by: tpam

geet i ws nt saying to u dear. niether to riya , i kno u both for quite a long to kno wat u feel , bt it ws a general statement made for every1 :)

Thanks Ammu. I feel the same way about all of these situations. I haven't followed Kareena or Aish's interviews too much so I give them the benefit of the doubt. After reading Shahid's when the whole PC-Shahid thing started I came to the conclusion that the Shahid-Kareena break-up was mutual.

After reading up all the Shahid-PC related stuff I think that they got together after things were already over with Harman. Harman and her haven't made a public appearance since Late Sept/Early oct 2008. This was just a couple of weeks after she started shooting on Kaminey and from reading up stuff, Shahid-PC were friends during the shooting of Kaminey for a while before they got together. That is the reason I am skeptical about the cheating angle.

^^^Ummmm aneesha I know for a fact that when a member criticized Shahid for dumping Hrishita bhatt for Kareena and also for dumping his mother and moving in with hid dad, Shahid fans on here attacked her calling Hrishita a slut and whatnot.

I can't remember names because many members have changed their usernames since then but I bet some of the well known Shahid fans attacked her as well.

So yea Shahid's morality has been questioned on here before. I don't know about the Sania fiasco, no one posted that on here and I'm definitely not going to hunt down articles of some actor I don't really like.


Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. There's really no need to imply that certain members are sexist just because they seem to look at a female actress in a negative light THIS TIME AROUND.

this guy has guts man.He is taking his part of the blame.But to say he could not watch kaminey shows his vulnerable side.He is not pretending to be a superman.Hope he finds peace and happiness.

Originally posted by: ranig

psychobalehead<br><br>I disagree completely about the whole male/female issue double standards. I think it's evident not just in India but all over the world that the women is highly blamed for a relationship ending. <br><br>But, if a guy moves in a relationship, nobody will consider the girls feelings who has been left behind.<br><br>Even in this , Harman clearly indicates that it was his fault. Shorter end of the stick. Yes he seems depressed that he has lost someone. <br>But, why assuming PC cheated on him. <br><br>Now, if he came out and said PC was with me and him at the same time and she cheated on me. Yes, then I would say blame her. I will blame her with you. <br><br>I like PC and I am obviously protecting her and admit I will be coming from that bias. But, still I would like someone to tell me where Harman says she cheated on her. He says only the couple knows why a relationship ended. It does not mean he will feel happy seeing his ex with another guy. Not many people feel that way. Does not mean the ex has to admit to what they are doing with anybody else. <br><br>In fact, he is lucky she did not back out of this movie due to this issue.. She could of , but she kept her commitment and dealt with a movie where she was with her ex and was trying to develop a relationship with another guy. How awkward.<br><br>Anyway, I do think men get treated better with these things and the BAD is always assumed with the women. <br><br><br>

I never said or implied gender bias does not happen. I very well know it does. I was talking about this forum on IF alone. I even mentioned it. I said people on here are not sexist for the most part because I've seen first hand they don't hesitate from bashing male actors for sexual indiscretions either. I also clearly stated it happens on pinkvilla and YT a lot but I've not witnessed it in this forum to a noticeable extent. Now if you want to talk about India and the world, then obviously I'll have to agree with you and conclude that gender bias happens and female actors are massacred by their own gender.


Like I said before, you like PC you'll use that to interpret what Harman said. I have no strong opinion on her so even a retarded/ambiguous interview by Mr. Baweja can pull me to either side.

i really have NO idea about the shahid-hrishita angle,to me they were like teenagers in love😆..they were kiddos then...

Originally posted by: psychobalehead

^^^Ummmm aneesha I know for a fact that when a member criticized Shahid for dumping Hrishita bhatt for Kareena and also for dumping his mother and moving in with hid dad, Shahid fans on here attacked her calling Hrishita a slut and whatnot.

I can't remember names because many members have changed their usernames since then but I bet some of the well known Shahid fans attacked her as well.

So yea Shahid's morality has been questioned on here before. I don't know about the Sania fiasco, no one posted that on here and I'm definitely not going to hunt down articles of some actor I don't really like.


Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. There's really no need to imply that certain members are sexist just because they seem to look at a female actress in a negative light THIS TIME AROUND.

I was here when Hrishita Bhatt was mentioned and I don't remember anyone calling her a slut. What I do remember is that one member said that it was Hrishita who broke up with Shahid when her Bollywood career started (this was a few years before Ishq VIshq came along).

As for the Sania issue, most people still think that wasn't an actual relationship. The only people who are convinced are Shahid fans. Everyone else was saying that its just a "media link up". So I guess that is why it wasn't discussed.