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Posted: 16 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: purva

It happens when people fall in love.. they can not think of anything beyond the person they are in love with. When they fall out of love they realize how fake the other person was.. Vivek is in that stage now 😊

beauty is dangerous. anyway vivek is a good lesson to others.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: purva

So if Ash is not responsible for her MIL's comment why is she upset about Vivek and Salman now? Her MIL spoke her mind and so did Vivek.

Haha.. you are telling me that "man on a mission" was used in a good way by Mrs. Jaya Bachchan? Then by that logic "plastic" comment was not for Ash either. He never said her name. He just said "there is so much plastic in the film industry" It could be anyone.. no?

The two situations mentioned are not analogous. Aishwarya is not responsible for what comes out of her MIL's mouth. It's not a known fact what her reaction to her MILs comment was so the analogy is practically non-existent. That said, she does have the right to be upset (if that's even true because I don't think it is) when people make negative comments on her. Similarly, Vivek has every right to be upset at Jaya's "man on a mission" comment, though it escapes me why he would be because the comment in and of itself is not offensive as it does not have negative connotations (unlike calling someone plastic/fake) unless you choose to interpret it that way.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: purva

So if Ash is not responsible for her MIL's comment why is she upset about Vivek and Salman now? Her MIL spoke her mind and so did Vivek.

Haha.. you are telling me that "man on a mission" was used in a good way by Mrs. Jaya Bachchan? Then by that logic "plastic" comment was not for Ash either. He never said her name. He just said "there is so much plastic in the film industry" It could be anyone.. no?

I wasnt being snide on my previous post I really thought Jaya Bacchan meant that. Its up to you if you choose to laugh at my post. I was just asking if you could tell me what she really meant by that.
Really How can she be held responsible for her MIL's comment ? IMO there is a difference when the people concerned speak and when a third person not directly involved speaks.
And honestly I dont know if Ash is plastic or fake or whatever I do not know her personally to know which part of her or her behavior is fake or real. And if Vivek chooses to call someone plastic its his wish tho IMO it reflects on him rather than the person he intended it for.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: qwww
I wasnt being snide on my previous post I really thought Jaya Bacchan meant that. Its up to you if you choose to laugh at my post. I was just asking if you could tell me what she really meant by that.
Really How can she be held responsible for her MIL's comment ? IMO there is a difference when the people concerned speak and when a third person not directly involved speaks.
And honestly I dont know if Ash is plastic or fake or whatever I do not know her personally to know which part of her or her behavior is fake or real. And if Vivek chooses to call someone plastic its his wish tho IMO it reflects on him rather than the person he intended it for.

Sorry if you felt bad that I laughed but I have seen that KWK episode too.. by no means it was a positive comment. So that other meaning of her comment made me laugh.. sorry about that 😊

And now that you say that it's his wish that he calls her "plastic" .. there is no debate left. 😉

To me.. both of them were wrong.. She chose to keep silent.. fine her choice. He chose to speak about it... his choice. So why tell him to keep quiet just because she did too? After all he was the one being made fun of and ridiculed na?

And he never blamed Ash for all the wrong happening in his life like people here are claiming. To me he appeared to be hurt by the way she treated him after the PC.. and plastic comment came from there. It is amusing how people say it's OK to break up with the undeserving one over an SMS but not OK if the undeserving one talks about it.. that's my issue.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: simran1285

😲 im sure he loved ash b/c even today i feel he is not over her, but to say he respect her is confusing. salman was accused of abusing ash thats not respect or maturity. both vivek and salman need to stop tlaking about her since she is a mrride woman who has a husband and it must be so hard for her to hear he ex-mistakes still tlaking about her.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#56

Vivek was wrong but he realized he was wrong. I don't want to mention anything about Aish.

Salman has a strong sense of loyalty but he is not a backstabber. If he doesn't want to forgive and forget it's his business. Ofcourse the nicer thing would be to forget about this. I doubt he tells people don't hire Vivek. But I can understand why people would want to be on Sallu's goodside.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

Vivek was wrong but he realized he was wrong. I don't want to mention anything about Aish.

Salman has a strong sense of loyalty but he is not a backstabber. If he doesn't want to forgive and forget it's his business. Ofcourse the nicer thing would be to forget about this. I doubt he tells people don't hire Vivek. But I can understand why people would want to be on Sallu's goodside.

Aww perfu loved the answer...such a good girl being so politically correct!😉 But I agree yaar Vivek has the right to open his mouth and clarify his side of the story and since Aish was involved her name has to be brought up so I think she should just suck it up and move on.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: simran1285

That is so true, I think Ash used both Sallu and Vivek and then left them to clean up the mess that SHE made. I never felt that she was the victim in both relationship something was always fishy and now I am more than certain that Ash was just pretending to be the damsel in distress...she is such a horrid actress no wonder i never believed her😆

I say hip hip hurray for Vivek for finally coming out and clearing the air!! As for Ash well she is just TUPPERWARE🤣

I know that in bollywood many people use others as stepping stones to get ahead but still I haven't heard of anyone who left someone in such a huge mess as Ash did. I don't exactly blame her for everything, I also think Salman and Vivek are also has their share of responsibility in this mess and also the media and all the other people who ridiculed Vivek and all that.
Vivek has already accepted his faults and apologized for everything, He came clear about it and he needed to since you can't really say because Ash is married he shouldn't have bought up the past, Why shouldn't he? I mean after all he has gone through a lot for something that wasn't only his fault and still is taking all the bad treatment by everyone so he deserves to get tell his side of the story clearly.
And those who say he should shut up because she is married and all then please tell me if you would have to take the entire blame for something that wasn't only your fault and over that have all the people you trusted leave you and get treated badly for all this would you keep quiet? Would you shut up and take all the crap for something that wasn't only your fault? Would you not want to tell your point of view? No? than I have to say your a REALLY forgiving person. 😊

For people who say he is always whining about her, Please do tell me where you read about him whining about Ash because I have never read anything like that before.

Salman has been quiet about everything, he has also moved on well he has I think I dunno still have the feeling he hasn't but anyway he is doing good in life and has a girlfriend and he is doing great but he needs to forgive and forget things sometimes but I can understand why he doesn't do that mostly because he has been back stabbed a lot but nowadays he seems to be losing some really good friends of his so I just hope he will just forgive and forget what happened with Vivek.