BLAST from PAST: Vivek's Press Conference(Edited) - Page 22

great posts, plasticpolaroid, roshini, coco and pragaya...

alot of members are acting like feminists and refusing to look at both sides of the pictures. if its easy to understand ash being a woman then one needs to step out of the comfort zone and try to understand vivek and his stance.

Originally posted by: Enycedoll

alot of members are acting like feminists and refusing to look at both sides of the pictures. if its easy to understand ash being a woman then one needs to step out of the comfort zone and try to understand vivek and his stance.

One doesnt come across alot of people in life who are willing to turn their whole lives upside down to make you happy. Im not saying she shouldve stayed unhappy with him and carried on the relationship because he was by her side when NOBODY was, im just saying that before dropping him she shouldve made the effort to ensure that he was holding no grudges against her and ending the relationship on a postive note rather than ending it admist rumors that she's dumping him for someone else.

Originally posted by: ShadowKisses

The same articles have also said that Vivek left his fiance Gurpreet for Aishwarya. So, when he had absolutely no qualms about ditching Gurpreet for greener pastures, he hardly has any right to be angry when Aishwarya allegedly does the same. As far as I know, Aishwarya had broken up with Salman before she moved on to Vivek; ergo, it's not her responsibility to send Salman a memorandum when she has a new boyfriend.

salman, uska kya kehna, lol....i think vivek's only sucking up to salman now because he wants his career back, hence the statement, 'i totally understand how salman felt, bcause im in the same situation'....hes far from being in the same situation...and salman fans are perhaps in denial...but i wouldnt like to believe that ash is the angel in the whole situation, because shes not....she wronged vivek just as salman wronged her....(maybe less lol)

hmmm... i won't exactly call that 'wrong vivek'.. because when you feel threatened for your life, it's only natural you would react this way... and i don't know how true that story about 'dumped vivek via sms' or was it without one...? either way, if she avoided his calls and never greeted him on his visits, then he should've gotten the hint.... just because someone stands up for you, you don't need to be their slave for the rest of your life...!

Originally posted by: Enycedoll

alot of members are acting like feminists and refusing to look at both sides of the pictures. if its easy to understand ash being a woman then one needs to step out of the comfort zone and try to understand vivek and his stance.

One doesnt come across alot of people in life who are willing to turn their whole lives upside down to make you happy. Im not saying she shouldve stayed unhappy with him and carried on the relationship because he was by her side when NOBODY was, im just saying that before dropping him she shouldve made the effort to ensure that he was holding no grudges against her and ending the relationship on a postive note rather than ending it admist rumors that she's dumping him for someone else.

Originally posted by: Enycedoll

alot of members are acting like feminists and refusing to look at both sides of the pictures. if its easy to understand ash being a woman then one needs to step out of the comfort zone and try to understand vivek and his stance.

One doesnt come across alot of people in life who are willing to turn their whole lives upside down to make you happy. Im not saying she shouldve stayed unhappy with him and carried on the relationship because he was by her side when NOBODY was, im just saying that before dropping him she shouldve made the effort to ensure that he was holding no grudges against her and ending the relationship on a postive note rather than ending it admist rumors that she's dumping him for someone else.

I agree with the bolded part she should have ended it properly .
but maybe she was scared that he would go psycho on her like her previous BF :P
That being said she doesnt have to be in debt to him for anything - he did what he thought was right then and now he is doing what he feels is right by apologizing to Salman.

IMO, Being a feminist doesnt mean one is refusing to look at both sides - it means looking at both sides fairly and equally.

Originally posted by: pksanam

hmmm... i won't exactly call that 'wrong vivek'.. because when you feel threatened for your life, it's only natural you would react this way... and i don't know how true that story about 'dumped vivek via sms' or was it without one...? either way, if she avoided his calls and never greeted him on his visits, then he should've gotten the hint.... just because someone stands up for you, you don't need to be their slave for the rest of your life...!

considering salman's connections, i can't say i blame her... even amit ji had to apologize to raj thackary over the most stupidest of reasons...

such is this industry... jis ki bhains, us ki laathi....!!

Originally posted by: Enycedoll

salman, uska kya kehna, lol....i think vivek's only sucking up to salman now because he wants his career back, hence the statement, 'i totally understand how salman felt, bcause im in the same situation'....hes far from being in the same situation...and salman fans are perhaps in denial...but i wouldnt like to believe that ash is the angel in the whole situation, because shes not....she wronged vivek just as salman wronged her....(maybe less lol)

I agree with the initial parts of your post but not this one. Even if we are to believe that Aish just up and walked out on Vivek without letting him know, you still cannot compare that to being beaten up by a boyfriend. I think there is a world of difference between dumping someone insensitively and beating up a spouse.

If Vivek's only reason for standing up to Salman back then was Aishwarya then I don't think he would be apologising to Salman now. This is just my interpretation of the whole situation, but I think since Vivek and Aish broke up while he was going through a lull in his career, it became easy for him to make the press conference the major reason for his professional downfall. That way he could shift the entire responsibility to Aish. Its much easier to blame someone else than accept your own responsibility.

And once again how do we know exactly how Vivek and Aishwarya's relationship ended.