Hacking Kareena's personality (insecurities, etc)

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Posted: 16 years ago
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This is strictly my take on Kareena. I hope no one is offended, feels that I'm spreading some kinda agenda, etc. etc. I felt like an analystical mood, lol. Its a friday night ppl, my car broke down on the freeway, I had a lot of time on my hands to just think about random stuffwhile my roommate was freaking out waiting for AAA 😆
Kareena's very complex to decipher. In my 9 yeras of following her closely, I've sensed that she's a very insecure person. Very insecure, and very sensitve. There's a lot of inner turmoil inside this girl. A lot of pain that perhaps never makes it to the surface, but she just represses because she wants to believe she's strong. Or she wants to believe that she's happy, or victorious..I dunno, lol.
In the HT interview with saif I sensed that she was very upset about certain comments that had taken place across the media from both sides recently.
There was a venom in her responses that was absent before. She always mentioned shahid in the highest regard. And she's not one to fake. If she had felt this way about him before, trust me, she woudlnt have hid it, lol. She would have said it back then.
Her anger was bubbling up, and I sensed that Saif was trying to control her.
Example:
"I don't understand how people can be two-faced about being in a relationship," says Kareena, "If you love someone, the worst you can do is to hide it."
No guesses who she's referring to specifically here. This could be her response to:
"Its not difinifed to talk about one's relationship" and "Talkign about personal life over and over again is cheap"
Saif tried to draw her outta it by changing the topic slightly to it being difficult to admit relationships and how he did it back when tehy first appeared.
Example 2:
"It's amazing how Saif goes out of the way to do that something extra. This is what makes this man so unique and different from anyone I've earlier been with"
I know kareena's had a few relationships, Shahid, and this guy named Vicky, whom she dated before entering the industry.
And saif once again, I can tell, trying to control her.
"Easy, easy," says Saif, clearly uncomfortable at being compared with anyone. "I don't think I did anything great, it's most natural to be wanting to be with your woman on her birthday,"

I think I have it figured out now, lol. According to ME, when Kareena gets hurt...she wants that someoen to hurt as well. And her way of doing that in the past was her overdrive of PDA with Saif. And now, I sense it in how she wants to scream that Saif loves her, she's desired, she's happy, and NOT stuck in the past caring about "who someone else dates. ", and wanting PC outta shahid's life (she reallly did take those personally, lol )
And the journalist specifically noticed that kareena got really emotional.
Too emotional to stop, Kareena goes on, "He's the best I could ever ask for in life."
And Saif understood she was getting really emotional. Which is why he also continued, more to show her than to show anyone else. And it works, lol. She finally becomes quiet, haha.
At this, she gently puts her head on his shoulder and he holds her hand.
I think that gesture might have been followed by a moment of just silence, so the journalist switched the topic to her family taking saif.
I know now what saif meant in one of his interviews, that its a very intense relationship and one that needs reassurance.
There's a vulnerable side to kareena. And Saif has seen it.
That's why I feel he has behaved how he's behaved since htey went out. That's why he went on an overdrive of yakking about her. FOR HER. To show her that he means everything that he says, he shouted it out to the world.
I mean isnt it strange that saif didnt behave this way when he was with Rozza or Amrita. He was open, but not to this extent. And it fascinated me to see saif completely removed in their harper's shoot. He was minding his own business, reading a book, not caring about anyhting. He joked with the reporter, wasnt mushy. Put in the sense of humor and then ADMITTED that he came across as a retard when he reads his preivious interviews.
You may not agree with me, and that's fine.
I feel this inner turmoil and restlessness in kareena stems from perhaps a sense of not being appreciated. Of being let down. Maybe a long line of relationships that didnt work. I know before shahid, kareena used to be with a guy named Vicky. That was before she joined the industyr. Then I feel she had a MAJOR thing for Hrithik. And obvoiusly he didnt feel the same. I think that's why he's uncomfortable working wht her, coz htey ahve a history. Jackie Shroff once said, "Her weakness is her heart. She could lose her heart to a butterfly and it shows. "
I think her feelings for hrithik were pretty obvious. And he obviously had no such intentions. He was in love with Suzzane. I even remember her quote at the time saying, "the most painful thing in the world is loving someone and being able to express it".
Ok, I'm done with my book. 😆
PLEEAAASEEEE dont attack me. These are just my viewss.
But as usual, you are more than welcome to agree/disagree. 😊

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Posted: 16 years ago
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wow...nice comments...i believed most of what you just said.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: desigal90

Her anger was bubbling up, and I sensed that Saif was trying to control her.
Example:
"I don't understand how people can be two-faced about being in a relationship," says Kareena, "If you love someone, the worst you can do is to hide it."
No guesses who she's referring to specifically here. This could be her response to:
"Its not difinifed to talk about one's relationship" and "Talkign about personal life over and over again is cheap"

Desu..if she did referr to PC n Shahid.I don't think it was necessary at all.
Coz how each couple conducts a relationship is very different.And if they are private does not mean that they are trying to hide it,they just don't want the world to know the intimate details.
So I don't think couples who don't talk about each other are being two-faced.
This was Katrina's quote in a recent Filmfare interview-
I don't speak about my relationship with somebody 'coz it's not right to discuss your relationship with the entire country.Imagine how people point fingers that "He did it,she did it",there's no respect then.I won't deny my relationship but I won't speak about it either.
Obviously there's no need for secrecy anymore,everyone knows of my realtionship with him.
Salman has been my best friend in so many ways,we talk about everything.Obviously he's much older than me and I have utmost respect for him.He's always there for me
I am not saying that I support the way Sal-Kat conduct their relationship.V all want them to loosen up a bit.I mean it's been 6 years for god's sake..
But we fans have given up and know it will not happen coz Sal is of that nature and Katrina has gone on record and said that she does not talk about the relationship coz Salman does not.So it's obviously his choice.
Similarly PC also has same views.Dunno if Shahid too has same views now.
Even in HW Gwyneth Paltrow and her husband are not that open and till date have never attended any event as a Couple.But they've been happily married with 2 kids for so long now.So it all depends on individuals.
So either Bebo or Shahid should stop the sarcastic comments coz it's not doing them any good.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Yeah they both should stop it, but I'm trying to keep the focus more on kareena's personality here and hwo she reacts and whatnot. I used it as an example 😊
And this perspective is also why I feel kareena went into rebound with Saif so fast. Its normal for a girl to feel down or insecure after a broken relationship. Normally, most girls try to rebuild hteir self esteem and confidence, but for kareena, saif's support was the security she desperately sought for.
She said one time, she loves the security of a relationship. I dont think kareena's the kinda girl who flies solo. I feel she needs saif more than he needs her.
And he's a good influence on her, because he is kinda removed from teh industry drama and gossip. Like evne in the interview, I could sense his sense of control over her, trying to cool her down. With the easy easy now.
His calm nature is doing kareena a lot of good.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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desigirl have you got the interview where she talks about someone being two faced?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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omg desigal yar u r too much into kareena n saifu
i dnt blame u
but nowadays 90% of the topics on bolly section are abt saif n kareena n out of them 95% are from u
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Coz I love em!
But this isnt about saif and kareena. Its just about kareena, I just used the quotes from the interview with saif.
This is the first interview where I saw her insecurity dancing and playing out in front of my eyes, lol
Back and forth back and forth, with him trying to do damage control.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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u knw desu sumtimes i feel that media just go crazy
anyway desi wats ur name?

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