BB4 Tamil: Discussion- Week 13 - Thread 2| 3rd DT Warning ! Pg. 1 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Hi all 👋, sorry couldn’t join live updates. took a break from the forum for a day for peace of mind.
Let us just start fresh 👍🏼 . Hope everyone will start posting as normal and have fun 🤗 .

Honey 🤗

@Honey : Baby was dull in sday epi. Thiri was crying 😆 what about you?

It was sad to see him like that.. else he will be roaming saying something n smiling around..

Originally posted by: EmeraldStar

@Honey : Baby was dull in sday epi. Thiri was crying 😆 what about you?

It was sad to see him like that.. else he will be roaming saying something n smiling around..

Actually I felt really bad to see both Shivani crying and Bala crying yday episode . I was really heartbroken to see Shivani crying like that like a small kid 😒 . Bala’s tears showed his pain and guilt .

Yeah, today also he was little dull. But he will be back to full form tomorrow . Efflo kela vilundaalum naanga endhrichuvrom ella ? Isn’t Thiri , you dont feel ma 😊 .

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Actually I felt really bad to see both Shivani crying and Bala crying yday episode . I was really heartbroken to see Shivani crying like that like a small kid 😒 . Bala’s tears showed his pain and guilt .

Yeah, today also he was little dull. But he will be back to full form tomorrow . Efflo kela vilundaalum naanga endhrichuvrom ella ? Isn’t Thiri , you dont feel ma 😊 .

He is hurt... I feel bad wen he cry😒 In bb format u can't blame anybody for not playing.. For shivani also I felt bad. May be her mom is hurt coz of outside happenings. Shivani has good logic points but not arguing so in editing goes off..

Hope bala bounce back.

Originally posted by: EmeraldStar

He is hurt... I feel bad wen he cry😒 In bb format u can't blame anybody for not playing.. For shivani also I felt bad. May be her mom is hurt coz of outside happenings. Shivani has good logic points but not arguing so in editing goes off..

Hope bala bounce back.

Arthi 🤗 . Being in our club , you and Shan started liking Bala at least little bit, at times , without you guys realizing it 😊 . Only satya not fully converted . Pappom adi mel adi adicha ammium nagaram 😆

Hope Shan can join us for live updates today. He said he was busy with work and will join in few days.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Arthi 🤗 . Being in our club , you and Shan started liking Bala at least little bit, at times , without you guys realizing it 😊 . Only satya not fully converted . Pappom adi mel adi adicha ammium nagaram 😆

Hope Shan can join us for live updates today. He said he was busy with work and will join in few days.

🤗

Wen first time bala cried that time thiri n me felt bad.. I said baby crying nu n this sathya n Shan statred teasing me fan club captain nu 😆

Me n Shan support him wen he is right n someone wantedly pulls him fight for fight😉 😛

Yeah he said wil join soon.. fan n fun club missing him badly 😒

A lot of celebs are now criticising Shivani’s mother’s actions on Twitter, calling it “toxic parenting” and “emotional abuse”. While I found what her mother spoke to Shivani as very harsh, I don’t know if those are apt phrases for her. She tried to set an image to the audience that Shivani might be a gullible person, but she has a stern environment around her. For me toxic parenting would have been if she said “engaiyaavathu pogi tholai, inimey veedu pakkaam varaatha, nee enn ponney kidayaathu”. Shivani is also not some small child who didn’t have space to respond back to her mother. Minus the beep words, Shivani’s mother’s conversation seemed like any other mother-daughter scolding session 😂 Anyway, just another controversy for a day...

Originally posted by: llptch

A lot of celebs are now criticising Shivani’s mother’s actions on Twitter, calling it “toxic parenting” and “emotional abuse”. While I found what her mother spoke to Shivani as very harsh, I don’t know if those are apt phrases for her. She tried to set an image to the audience that Shivani might be a gullible person, but she has a stern environment around her. For me toxic parenting would have been if she said “engaiyaavathu pogi tholai, inimey veedu pakkaam varaatha, nee enn ponney kidayaathu”. Minus the beep words, Shivani’s mother’s conversation seemed like any other mother-daughter scolding session 😂 Anyway, just another controversy for a day...

Hmmm trying to pull me in 😉

I was watching a korean drama in that there is a story called the hand, the monkfish. It is a dark fairy tale. Shivani mom reminds me of that story. The gist is a beautiful baby girl raised by her mom with so much pampering. One day when mom falls ill , she will ask the girl to feed her. Girl will say I dont have hands, as I never used them they vanished. Can you carry me on your back? Girl will say , u carried me all the time so my legs vanished. I just have a mouth. Mom will get mad and shout you are not my perfect baby anymore.

Shivani mom sent her inside BB thinking she would get more famous, will be good for her career. Now she is been called mixture and teased by almost everyone outside , hurt her. She wanted to give Shivani a shock treatment and wake her up. Actually it just broke Shivani more. As a mom , she knows Shivani is an introvert girl. She did whatever she could inside BB.
She should have been more competitive, shouldn’t have gone for fake drama , tried to be more independent. Shivani mom should have advised her rather than shouting like that in TV esp when she was crying her mom said , stop your fake crying , unna paatha veruppa eruku . That was really over the top. Yelling/shouting is okay but it is should be private not in front of cameras or in front of other contestants.

Assuming she did it in good intention by saving her daughter from SM abuse, still she should have done it without hurting Shivani that much.

Originally posted by: llptch

A lot of celebs are now criticising Shivani’s mother’s actions on Twitter, calling it “toxic parenting” and “emotional abuse”. While I found what her mother spoke to Shivani as very harsh, I don’t know if those are apt phrases for her. She tried to set an image to the audience that Shivani might be a gullible person, but she has a stern environment around her. For me toxic parenting would have been if she said “engaiyaavathu pogi tholai, inimey veedu pakkaam varaatha, nee enn ponney kidayaathu”. Shivani is also not some small child who didn’t have space to respond back to her mother. Minus the beep words, Shivani’s mother’s conversation seemed like any other mother-daughter scolding session 😂 Anyway, just another controversy for a day...

Her mom is hurt.. in sm ppl calling her daughter sidekick of bala and mixture in bb more to that bb showing her eating in between others conv. Ppl go overboard in teasing others.. will they call their own family members like that? Still i feel could have handled better.

Good Shivani is trying to come out of it.. In sday epi we can see that. Hope she keeps her point strong in coming weeks..

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Hmmm trying to pull me in 😉

I was watching a korean drama in that there is a story called the hand, the monkfish. It is a dark fairy tale. Shivani mom reminds me of that story. The gist is a beautiful baby girl raised by her mom with so much pampering. One day when mom falls ill , she will ask the girl to feed her. Girl will say I dont have hands, as I never used them they vanished. Can you carry me on your back? Girl will say , u carried me all the time so my legs vanished. I just have a mouth. Mom will get mad and shout you are not my perfect baby anymore.

Shivani mom sent her inside BB thinking she would get more famous, will be good for her career. Now she is been called mixture and teased by almost everyone outside , hurt her. She wanted to give Shivani a shock treatment and wake her up. Actually it just broke Shivani more. As a mom , she knows Shivani is an introvert girl. She did whatever she could inside BB.
She should have been more competitive, shouldn’t have gone for fake drama , tried to be more independent. Shivani mom should have advised her rather than shouting like that in TV esp when she was crying her mom said , stop your fake crying , unna paatha veruppa eruku . That was really over the top. Yelling/shouting is okay but it is should be private not in front of cameras or in front of other contestants.

Assuming she did it in good intention by saving her daughter from SM abuse, still she should have done it without hurting Shivani that much.

Honey, I agree the scolding looked really bad on camera. Aanaa Shivani had all room to defend herself, like Losliya did last year. Ava enn adhu kooda pannalanu theriyala. But still toxic parenthood laam too much words maathiri irunthathu for this situation. A few on the forum mentioned Shivani only wanted to go into BiggBoss and her mother didn't like it at all because it meant she had to stop acting in one popular serial she was already doing. I blame VijayTV for her failure on this show. The channel must be knowing she is an introvert because she has been with them for a long time. But still they selected her to go inside over anyone else. Her 4 PM Instagram posts also started around the time it was rumoured she would be entering BB. They thought oru glamour factor vachchi they could drag in her fans, but she ended up being a colossal failure.