Amar is not spineless but... - Page 2

actually hats off 2 Amar 4 keeping his cool...
it cud hv been sunny n cos game plan 2 provoke amar...in his place sky or sid cud hv reacted by bringin up her proffession...

actually Shonali started all this followed with sunny later...has any one seen how Shonali danced in that rain dance...she too looked cheapo...but putting wrong allegation on amar...

Amar was playing the best game till couple of weeks back. But lately he has been accused to nasty stuff and doesnt know how to counter them. If he wants to win he needs to develop a strategy against the evil trio.

I agree that he just loses his train of thought and gets distracted by the sudden situation and ends up apologising for things that make no sense. Amar was totally baffled when his wife told him about the allegations shonali had made...he was stunned and kept saying to her "nai yaar..sachi?" then he went and fought with shonali with very weak arguments...clearly showing the lack of words and/or a proper strategy. he exposed his weak point in that fight to the rest of the house. Instead he should have gone upto shonali with someone by his side and speak to her calmly and sort out the confusion. sunny would never have even thought of such a thing...but she knew he had been accused once before and she made her accusation also followed by juhi making her bogus arguments...

Amar is not a gr8 game player, but a good decent disciplined mature human. He can be called spineless as he is a scary chicken, he doesnt fight until he is sure that there are some people to support him. He avoids fight for votes also ,and also bcoz he doesnt have much guts and cant win any argument, its no bad , but he has his limits. He knows even if he is right he cant go to the level of Sky.Jinki izzat hoti hai wohi izzat khone se darte hain, , Sky ki izzat nahin hai, so he doesnt care.

just bcoz amar d not stoop 2 dirty level lyk sky it d not mean he is spineless...
amar is a family man...he has not used abusive language...
sky n sid start abusing n shouting...y shud amar behave lyk em...

I think that he is quite mature person and knows that Sky is a dirty, cheap, disgusting and very unhuman person, when he starts barking he barks like some wild dog and has no control on his tongue. One never knows what he can come up with or how low he can stoop down to. Now when Sky started including Hetal's name also in the fight Amar decided to stay calm and controlled and stop him peacefully instead of provoking him even more by fighting and giving him chance to become more unhuman and talk shit about his family. Of course he is here to win and at this point in the show when he is so near he doesnt want to leave just due to a sick pshyco person.

Amar shouted at Shonali when she accussed him. Why didnt he shout at Sunny or Juhi..

He said to Shonali that " You not only need good looks, you need brains also". Why didnt he say something like that to Sunny or Juhi..

This shows how afraid and spineless Amar is..He is so afraid of Sky.