Originally posted by: nehlove
Buffie..
First of all I have to say, I thoroughly enjoy your posts as they constitute in healthy discussions (most of the times at least). I loved reading your posts in jdj forum and its nice to see how well you work with words to put your point forth.
I however think its quite unfair of you to limit this thread to just rakhi when there are quiet others in the BB house that have a similar behaviour as well. You might not have appreciated the way rakhi behaved and you voiced your opinion here which is fine but how right is it to stop others from putting forward their opinions on the same matter just because they do not involve rakhi and others who live with her.
Neither you or I live in that house with all of them 24/7 and we do not know the circumstances they might be in when they say certain things. One might say here that rakhi never has valid reasons to nominate anyone except name calling which ofcourse is never justified but then again you still cannot blame someone for nominating a person for no reason. Most of the times you judge a person the very first time you meet them and then you stick to that very judgement all your life with no efforts to make friends. In real life its easier to not say anything and forget about it as we are not obliged to stay with them all the time.
Rakhi called carol a monkey in the confession room... I call most of my friends bi****s even though I dont always mean it. And sometimes I use maybe words like dummy or retard with my acquaintances because thats the kind of person I am. And I come nowhere close from the kind of background that rakhi is from. I am educated, never lived in india, come from a upper middle class family, know english, hindi and about 5 other languages. And I still like rakhi for her straightforwardness.. she is honest and correct me if I am wrong but she has never intentionally bad mouthed about one member of the BB family to someone else. What she says and does in the confession room is because thats her right to do and say.. she can say whatever she wants and I am sure she knows that the camera is keeping a watch on her at all times. Kadi nazar... solid assar.. :)
FINALLY,a levelheaded post👏
Well,calling your friends names is totally understandable...and we've thrown light on that point earlier too,when I said Rakhi's calling rupali a "kutti" on her face is something very normal as it happens quite often as we tend to take leeway with our friends
But,would you call any of your acquaintance a "B🤬" on national television??....
Regarding limiting this thread to only rakhi,well,doesnt it become really easy to digress from the main point and take the thread on a totally different tangent altogether...What purpose is achieved??..We start discussing about everything under the sun,and finally the purpose of the thread isnt achieved!
Someone earlier spoke about the freedom of speech,and everyone having the freedom to say anything they want...agreed,but it shouldnt be misused,should it??...If she spouts everything that strikes her mind,she must be ready fo the flak too!😊..Some might not be offended,some might..Bottomline..everyone is entitled to an opinion,and opinions are never right or wrong,as they are OPINIONS at the end of the day,NOT facts😊...Thus everything should be treated as just an opinion,which some RAkhi fans didnt,as they resorted to passing judgments on the thread starter's character....As long as it doesnt get personal,its all nice...But the monet it gets personal,things tun sour and ugly