A favor: Please criticize constructively - Page 7

Originally posted by: CutiePiee4

oh please...all the other womens u are talking abt didnt wore the nakab of sharafat like shweta..

Originally posted by: CutiePiee4

oh please...all the other womens u are talking abt didnt wore the nakab of sharafat like shweta..

Originally posted by: _VERSACE_

if only it wasn't for that extremely presumptuous comment about shweta's motive behind bathing in the jungle, i would have let this slide without so much as a word... sigh. here goes,

1) since when did any girl taking a shower with their bikinis on equate to an open invitation to the "voyeurs"? i take issue with that statement cause you're not only questioning shweta's but also all the rest of them women's intentions when you say that her taking a shower was aimed at the "voyeurs". why, a girl can't genuinely feel like washing herself without bringing any voyerism-whatever intention into play? how's that any different from girls swimming in a public pool with their bikini sets on for that matter? when girls don't give so much as a hoot to the lecherous gazes while swimming, i don't see why shweta should have to conform to the lecherous mentality and keep from taking a shower when her body was smeared with the ick factor all over? the way you're making it sound like, one would assume that she went nude or something. besides, what else could she opt for? take a shower in full clothes? pray, tell me what you would have done if you were in her shoes?!

2) as for the dhak dhak step, that "shaking bosom in a suggestive way" is one of the most well known steps choreographed by Saroj Khan and performed by one of the most prominent bollywood actresses, Madhuri Dixit. it's a signature step of that song, just so you know, and a whole lot of people have performed that step on several occasions. they received accolades for their creativity and effort but when shweta takes a shot at it, she's bad? amazing stuff, really!

3) as far as shweta hobnobbing dolly goes, just because you are behaving civilly with a person who you find despicable does not have to entail being two-faced. it can also mean that you're trying to steer clear of drama. why did the thought not occur to you that perhaps she was trying to keep the atmosphere healthy, given the occasion? oh, but that's right. how can you infest your mind with anything remotely positive about her intentions!

4) today, Salman let slip that shweta "could not leave the house even though she wanted to". that should save her the bs people were throwing her way. what's funny is how her stay-back was proliferated as shweta lacking morality, character, basic human ethics and all that jazz. to an extent, it had irked me too that shweta backed out on her words but what did I see here? the entire gang of *coughs* non-fans zooming it in, and then bas***dizing, stretching, twisting and otherwise annihilating it beyond all recognition. and then their assembled pals clicking "like" on their nonsensical posts and providing background beat just like good trained loyal doggies to the seemingly leaders of their packs while they duke it out. it really was a roflmao-worthy sight!
even if salman had not let slip their underhanded negotiation with shweta to stay back, it takes more than just a blunder to question someone's moral framework as a whole.

5) re her being two-faced, i say why just two? do se uska kya hoga? she's a multi-faceted personality!! and guess what? every human being is! welcome to the land of Homo sapiens!

6) @ "shweta is perfect": if i had a dollar for every time someone said that. *rolleyes* that statement of yours is getting stale. as stale as last week's bread. I mean, uh-duh every person who has something positive to say about shweta thinks that shweta is perfect....not!

Originally posted by: Jesse22

If you have a disaggreement, please criticize constructively.

Criticism is not same as calling somebody ---

"Do muh wala saanp"
"Makkaar"

One reason why people hate them is for they think celebrities make easy money, when they work 24/7 to accomplish 1/10th the amount they earnin a day.

Celebrities are very important, and ones having a huge fanbase as Shweta, they look up to Shweta with confidence. And honestly speaking Shweta has not done anything in the show to be hated by everyone.
So ignore the fans who put your favorite celebrity down, coz they may do it as retaliation or some other reason.

Originally posted by: roshnii

Oh luk who is givin da lecture. U go 2 da extent of bashing people just becoz dey r frm pakistan.just bcoz u hav changed ur username doesnt mean i dnt remember ur posts.practice b4 u preach.

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

dont have time to go thru entire post.. but seems to be inspired by Nazis 😆

Edited by lonely0planet - 14 years ago

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

For Martand's question --

Also a lot has been spoken about me wearing a two piece or a bikini suit on the show during the bathing sessions. Before we started the show, we were given the choice of wearing full/some garments/a costume, depending solely on us. We were told cameras would be all around to capture the footage & our every step and word. Just before my shower, I had completed a task where frogs leaped & jumped about all over & around me! I was covered in their slimy liquid & their urine!!! So to get myself off all that & spick & span, I wore a two-piece, which allowed me to cover myself the most I could. I was feeling very dirty after the task, & a full body shower was required! Even otherwise, I see nothing wrong in what I did/wore. I am an actress & dancer, so also if my profession would demand it & as long as it goes with my job, I would definitely wear a bikini.

For more reference .. Please CHeck Shweta's blog on IF 😊

Originally posted by: Emptiness

There's nothing wrong with wearing a bikini, she's neither the first, nor the last woman (or Indian woman for that matter), to have worn one. A woman should be allowed to wear what she wants. Wearing a bikini doesn't make anyone any less of a lady than anyone else, nor does it make anyone a s**t. The argument is that, cause she wore a bikini, she should be ok with Hrishant's dirty jokes, there is absolutely no logical connection between the two.

Wearing a bikini, or a short outfit, doesn't mean that one should tolerate, or accept everything under the sun. If she doesn't appreciate Hrishant's jokes, then it's her choice.. and Hrishant should've had the basic decency to refrain from doing so.