~ Shilpa Shinde AT #16 ~ Silence Is The Best Response [DT Note Pg 146] - Page 97

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Posted: 7 years ago
It's an established fact that men have dominance and no matter what we say that's a fact.
She is clearly uncomfortable and she wanted to slap him but held herself back. but, LET'S JUDGE THE VICTIM AND BLAME HER.
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Posted: 7 years ago
I want Ashutosh to come this week and tell her to be strong.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: pawancool


This is nonsense. It's not an equal world for men and women.




Playing victim card n calling someone victim is two diff things ... here she is victim of sexual harasment which is serious thing then stupid victim cards ppl use in BB house.

coming to she not voicing .. we don't know the clause of there contract, what if no one supports her .. like it has happened outside, she has a case on her .. which was even preventing from coming on this show ... VG himself accepts this on day 1 ..
How do u expect her to complain to anyone ..


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Posted: 7 years ago
Something is 'a miss'.
I am not quoting any one coz I dont want too.
Tell me fellow shilpians... would you rather want your fellow shilpians venting here or in main forum?

I repeat my pov.. one should be a fan not a blind fan.
I have agreed with all who said let's wait for ED.
I am too waiting for shilpa to realise that she needs to stay away AT THE LEAST.

Saying you are not a fan if u see this or u don't see this... is childish...no reaction for it.
No one here forced me to be a fan and none of you can give or take away a tag from me or anyone of being a fan.

It's simply my choice.

Lastly understand the context of the difference of opinion.

My challenge - if even 10 of you from her genuine fan tell me this - "We as a fan think its OK for shilpa to be friendly with Ak after this particular incident." Then I will humbly accept my thought were wrong.

Edited by imLoveAddict - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
Firstly, WHEN SHE CLEARLY SAID NO, THAT MEANS NO! what more people want her to do? Thrash him black and blue and get another STAMP ON HER HEAD OF BEING ABUSIVE with OTHER STAMPS LIKE UNPROFESSIONAL, JINXED, FRUSTRATED SPINSTER etc.
She literally has but loads of cases pending against her. She is om bb11 with an anticipatory bail and SHE HAS NO GIRL SUPPORT IN THE HOUSE. WHEN BANDAGI LEFT SHE SAID I AM THE ONLY GIRL LEFT NOW (WITH NO GIRL SUPPORT). when SHE HAS NO CONFIDANT and then on top of that a guy id sexually harassing her, and she does what she thinks is right. But, we are still judging her? ONLY THE ONES WHO HAVE FACED SUCH ABUSE KNOW ABOUT HOW IT FEELS. NOT EVERYONE REACTS IN THE SAME WAY. BECAUSE EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT.

GIVE THE LADY A BREAK!
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Posted: 7 years ago
Its really sad to see the thinking of some ppl in this forum where they instead of standing with a woman is talking bad things as though she encouraged the behaviour. I think this is depicting our society also where a woman is blamed for everything
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: imLoveAddict

Something is 'a miss'.

I am not quoting any one coz I font want too.
Tell me fellow shilpians... would you rather want your fellow shilpians venting here or in main forum?

I repeat my pov.. one should be a fan not a blind fan.
I have agreed with all who said let's wait for ED.
I am too waiting for shilpa to realise that she needs to stay away AT THE LEAST.

Saying you are not a fan if u see this or u don't see this... is childish...no reaction for it.
No one here forced me to be a fan and none of you can give or take away a tag from me or anyone of being a fan.

It's simply my choice.

Lastly understand the context of the difference of opinion.

My challenge - if even 10 of you from her genuine fan tell me this - "We as a fan think its OK for shilpa to be friendly with Ak after this particular incident." Then I will humbly accept my thought were wrong.



I understand you want her to voice out .. but with whom shall she, what if contract says it is ok and not a voilation.

her real friends outside did not support her in similar matter .. three ppl whom with she is co-ordial .. PUN saw it himself, HT never takes a stand .. and VG, forget shipping, reality she knows the truth of there equation. she doesn't trust him ..

Coming she being friendly with him, doesn't mean she is interested .. she was equally pissed off and asked him to back off again n again. she can't slap him according to contract.
may be she is thinking he will go off on friday so its matter of 2 days so just toleate this man n keep distance ... she doesn't know about voting lines rt ...
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: imLoveAddict

Something is 'a miss'.

I am not quoting any one coz I dont want too.
Tell me fellow shilpians... would you rather want your fellow shilpians venting here or in main forum?

I repeat my pov.. one should be a fan not a blind fan.
I have agreed with all who said let's wait for ED.
I am too waiting for shilpa to realise that she needs to stay away AT THE LEAST.

Saying you are not a fan if u see this or u don't see this... is childish...no reaction for it.
No one here forced me to be a fan and none of you can give or take away a tag from me or anyone of being a fan.

It's simply my choice.

Lastly understand the context of the difference of opinion.

My challenge - if even 10 of you from her genuine fan tell me this - "We as a fan think its OK for shilpa to be friendly with Ak after this particular incident." Then I will humbly accept my thought were wrong.




Yea..She should keep safe distance from him 😡
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Posted: 7 years ago
Just become we are not her fans so we will use this chance to take a dig at her and question her character.. Sab ki khunnas khulke bahar aa rahi hai.. These kind of ppl encourage rape culture because they think she has said wrong things in the past so she deserves it. Hats off to this mentality
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: mybro_2004



I understand you want her to voice out .. but with whom shall she, what if contract says it is ok and not a voilation.

her real friends outside did not support her in similar matter .. three ppl whom with she is co-ordial .. PUN saw it himself, HT never takes a stand .. and VG, forget shipping, reality she knows the truth of there equation. she doesn't trust him ..

Coming she being friendly with him, doesn't mean she is interested .. she was equally pissed off and asked him to back off again n again. she can't slap him according to contract.
may be she is thinking he will go off on friday so its matter of 2 days so just toleate this man n keep distance ... she doesn't know about voting lines rt ...


I am ready to buy your point if I see her staying away and not letting that pervert touch her again.
I don't know details of their contract but I know this one thing, that no contract will say it's OK to be kissed by other contestant if it's not consensual.

Agreed she has zero support in house. Agreed she can't or don't want to emphasise this episode due to her pending issues.

But her future actions are in her hand is all I am saying.
And if she thinks she can't control his behaviour she can simply say that to biggboss.

It's sad to see that all of you see how serious issue this is.
Many of you agree women can't be molested then how can you want for the victim to be like CHUP REHNA THIK HAI. BHUL JAO AND LET'S BE FRIENDLY? IT'S JUST ABOUT 2 DAYS? SEH LO DO DIN AUR?

Actually thus is the true Indian mentality that the old ladies tell their daughters ki CHUP raho seh LO and it will be OK in future. SAD REALLY SAD.

Edited by imLoveAddict - 7 years ago

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