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Posted: 8 years ago
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It was ungracious of Lopa to not thank Bani, while she thanked the others. And she should've just thanked all of them generally. But - Bani's hangama on this makes no sense - it was Lopa, not Gaurav - her and Lopa have an open and acknowledged rivalry - they take cheap shots at each other ALL the time - or has Bani forgotten than she recently told Lopa "main kutton se baat nahin karti"? That's her level of dislike for Lopa, and she has a problem if Lopa forgoes a 'thank you'?

Her display yesterday was uber needy - she wasn't the only one peddling, and it isn't the first task of the sort to ever be done - they all had the choice to stop peddling, and if they were tired or felt unappreciated they should've done so. But when people came to support them, she drove them away with abuses, she needs Gaurav to spend every waking moment with her on her bday, and she needs her rival to appreciate her, if said rival is appreciating others.

Is the rivalry to have a narrative now? That Lopa can take a shot at Bani in only certain prescribed circumstances, and not in others? And is Bani going to return that courtesy? I think not.
Edited by SP2684 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i am actually very very confuse about Bani.. Yes the task was tough.. In fact very tough.. all four must be tired.. But the task was a lot by Bigg Boss not by the house mates.. if they want rest they could have request them.. The reason was invalid by bani that all r sleeping..
Bani said Lopa did not thank her.. as if Bani thank Lopa for cooking food? Do she thank Mona for washing dishes.. NO Naa.. They cooked n washing dishes for whole house just like Bani infect all 4 did the task for whole house
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: hunder

well then Lopa should stop eating because its actually Bani who is doing ehsaan ko lopa by doing the hard work. what benefit did they had when they did hard work all night so that everyone can sleep. Now a word thanks is not a big thing for that. so Lopa should learn basic manners. Even if she wants to ignore bani she could have said thank u everyone. So according to me Bani is right when she says she won't do it for people like Lopa

Its not a task for Lopa. Bani is not pedalling for Lopa, shes doing so for the whole house. The main question is Why does Bani get affected by her hater Lopa so much? Lopas words matter to Bani that much that unless she gets a pat on her back or a thank you she thinks shes not being appreciated ? I guess Banis hater in real life always have a upper hand then since they can irk her easily.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have repeated it n number of times and I will say it again:
Bani thinks she is the centre of her imaginary universe and doesn't like it when someone doesn't give a flying f**k to her existence. 😆 And Lopa ne wahi kiya. Without even swearing, Lopa left Bani butthurt and banging her head on the wall. This is what we call ROYAL IGNORE. Poor Bani! 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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bani has no manners and etiquettes is the common opinion on this forum but then the etiquette devi lopa does all her sneaky stuff and no one wants to question the lopsided queen?! WHY?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -naureen786-

i am actually very very confuse about Bani.. Yes the task was tough.. In fact very tough.. all four must be tired.. But the task was a lot by Bigg Boss not by the house mates.. if they want rest they could have request them.. The reason was invalid by bani that all r sleeping..

Bani said Lopa did not thank her.. as if Bani thank Lopa for cooking food? Do she thank Mona for washing dishes.. NO Naa.. They cooked n washing dishes for whole house just like Bani infect all 4 did the task for whole house



But then why thank only three people out of four? It was a very childish move. I don't know if she does it on purpose or if she's really that petty.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Twitz

Its not a task for Lopa. Bani is not pedalling for Lopa, shes doing so for the whole house. The main question is Why does Bani get affected by her hater Lopa so much? Lopas words matter to Bani that much that unless she gets a pat on her back or a thank you she thinks shes not being appreciated ? I guess Banis hater in real life always have a upper hand then since they can irk her easily.

You know if you look at her Roadies audition dont know the dudes name but he tells her right away that shes weak and therefore has tattos to prove otherwise. I didnt buy it then but her constant breakdown in the house never fails to remind me of that video. i just cannot relate to Bani at all
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WhatDoYouMean



But then why thank only three people out of four? It was a very childish move. I don't know if she does it on purpose or if she's really that petty.


Have u seen the previous fight between both of 2?? Bani clearly told her k mein kutton se baat nhi krti.. She was a bitch for her naa.. then why cribbing now?? I m glad Lopa did not go to her to invite more fight..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bani expects much from people surrounding her . she expects them to understand her , but she doesnt understand perception is a big deal, it doesnt matter what her intentions are, its how she presents it .. she is little socially awkward ..
outside i feel she surrounds herself with only the people she gets along with , she doesnt know how to deal with people other than her friends .. it requires strong childhood or some hard life experience to learn how to deal with indifference
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Twitz

You know if you look at her Roadies audition dont know the dudes name but he tells her right away that shes weak and therefore has tattos to prove otherwise. I didnt buy it then but her constant breakdown in the house never fails to remind me of that video. i just cannot relate to Bani at all


question is not why Bani gets affected, question is why do Bani need to do this task for anyone. U are right its not Lopa's task, if it was i am sure she would have felt the same. If Bani is doing a thankless job of doing work all night so that everyone can sleep then atleast don't insult her efforts by praising 3 and ignoring 4th. Trust me no matter how strong u are it does feel bad. It is insulting. Lopa said mein kisi ki naukar nahi hoon so bani bhi to nahi hai na. so why should she do it for HMs. Atleast ek thanks to deserve karte hai sab challengers

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