If you dislike someone and have declared a war, why get affected

I am neutral when it comes to Bani and Lopa, I hve bashed both of them equally whenever I thought they were crossing the line. so as a neutral veiwer, I think Bani is mentally weak . In our everyday life when we dislike someone or are not friends with them, their criticism or their presence /absence in our life doesnt affect us and thats something we learn to do. We simply ignore that person and we do not get affected by any of their BS and it takes a lot of courage and guts to do so. After watching yesterdays epi we can see how much compliments and appreciation that from her hater means to her. Is she that weak that she needs a thank you that too from a person she hates the most in the house? if Lopa has put you in her "Do NOT Exist" List why is she getting afected by her so much? are you that weak Bani?

Are you seriously questioning someone's mental strength and ability because they got upset about their hard work being ridiculed and not appreciated?

Because they were up all night, they were mentally and physically drained, their butts and legs were on fire all night after working hard for the sake of the housemates, and their sacrifice got royally ignored. On their birthday of all days.

Originally posted by: khaleesii

Are you seriously questioning someone's mental strength and ability because they got upset about their hard work being ridiculed and not appreciated?

Originally posted by: khaleesii

Are you seriously questioning someone's mental strength and ability because they got upset about their hard work being ridiculed and not appreciated?

Originally posted by: Falo0da

Because they were up all night, they were mentally and physically drained, their butts and legs were on fire all night after working hard for the sake of the housemates, and their sacrifice got royally ignored. On their birthday of all days.

To sum up.

Usually people get emotional on their birthdays...it was her birthday and so she was emotionally drained as while day and night she was doing cycling with 3 others...m she didn't expected this at least on her birthday and this came out as anger from her ...she isn't weak but she was pointing out partiality of Lopa for not recognizing her hardwork...

Anyway...Yeh sab discussion hai...God kabhi kisi ko uske Birthday pe aisa draining work Na de...is all I pray. Be it Lopa or Bani or anyone.

well then Lopa should stop eating because its actually Bani who is doing ehsaan ko lopa by doing the hard work. what benefit did they had when they did hard work all night so that everyone can sleep. Now a word thanks is not a big thing for that. so Lopa should learn basic manners. Even if she wants to ignore bani she could have said thank u everyone. So according to me Bani is right when she says she won't do it for people like Lopa

Originally posted by: DoremonLove

Appreciated by whom lopa like seriously as if shes cycling for lopa only dude its for the whole house not for lopa alone she doesnt need to put blame lopa or get affected by her thank u or sorry or anything. Its so weird how is it even justified if lopa is her rival why will lopa thank her and why is she even expecting simply if she doesnt want to cycle then say no. Whats with cribbing and sulking. Agar gaurav ne aisa kiya hota n she was upset so we get the point but lopa

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Originally posted by: Twitz

Yeah but if you hate someone expect a birthday wish from them or a sweet gesture is nothing but a stupidity? i guess we can compare her reaction to ourselves and ask what we would do in her position? would i get affected if my hater didn't wish me happy birthday or thank you to me? NEVER! i wanna see that attitude in Bani too cause just having tattos and a good physique doesnt make one strong