Was Bani Right in Convicing Others not to Cycle - Page 2

So true! Everybody around us use the "F" word even in normal conversations. I don't understand why this forum is so hell bent on saying that using F word is some sort of a sin!!!
I agree not all of us curse (I don't and would never) BUT i am always surrounded by people who are used to using such words even in normal conversations and that is why i dont understand both the housemates and the people of this forum...either everybody is so shareef here that nobody curses or I am stupid enough to even write this post. 😛

Now coming to the task, it is a game and if it's not worth it then its fair to not do it.

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Personally i dont have any issue with Bani and others deciding not to cycle.They are human not robots .They had done enough for the day and had every right to stop cycling.No issues.
But its the way Bani stopped and reason that she gave that bothers me.

Her reason wasn't i am tired hence i will stop now.Her reason was all other HM's are usless hence i will stop.Lopa didn't thank me,Gaurav didn't sit with me,other HM's didn't support me hence i will stop.This is what bothered me.

Like Rahul pointed the other HM's were supportive did sit with them only i dont know may be Bani expects way too much

I had issues with lazy housemates not sitting with the ones pedalling away. They should've taken turns to support them. But except Baba, no one showed up. They should've stopped sooner.


As for Bani...she was looking for excuses to give up and if she'd just said that she doesn't want to do it anymore coz she's tired...that'd be the end of it. But she had to heap abuses on everyone and THEN quit. Hopeless.

As for the F bomb being used by everyone on the forum...yes ppl do. But are we talking about members or about HMs here? I bet Bani wouldn't take as kindly if people talked back to her as she does to people. Rahul was 100% right today. He showed her the mirror and she proceeded to abuse and rant further. Full marks to Rahul for the patience he displayed in face of another of her little tantrum.

Originally posted by: .Frozen.

So true Lopa is another tanna in disguise. Lopa has got so much of ego in her that she can't thank Bani along with the others.

The big difference between Tanna and Gautam was that Tanna was self absorbed while Gautam reacted based on the occasion using his brains. And that is why he won. Same may happen with Lopa. If she really thought like Gautam, she would thank all four and there would be no issue. But Lopa did not and acted like Tanna. Only time will tell who wins but one's qualities can not be changed for the purpose of a show.

On the other hand, everyone is stuck on the F word and not that Lopa purposely did not thank Bani. Hasn't Lopa used the F word several times. No one is upset now.

Originally posted by: MithiBani

I had issues with lazy housemates not sitting with the ones pedalling away. They should've taken turns to support them. But except Baba, no one showed up. They should've stopped sooner.


As for Bani...she was looking for excuses to give up and if she'd just said that she doesn't want to do it anymore coz she's tired...that'd be the end of it. But she had to heap abuses on everyone and THEN quit. Hopeless.

As for the F bomb being used by everyone on the forum...yes ppl do. But are we talking about members or about HMs here? I bet Bani wouldn't take as kindly if people talked back to her as she does to people. Rahul was 100% right today. He showed her the mirror and she proceeded to abuse and rant further. Full marks to Rahul for the patience he displayed in face of another of her little tantrum.

Just to clarify, others, including Lopa, have used the F word in BB. If we believe other HMs, MM abuse all the time but not shown. So why is this different.

I am not calling it an excuse but a realization by Bani that they were working hard without support and the cheap shot by Lopa by not thanking ONLY her out of FOUR. As I said, LOPA, Manu and Manv in her place would have found kind of excuses until BB intervened. So let us not put others on Pedestals also.

Swearing is perceived as aggressive and same goes to tattooed person too ... i dont agree but it is the truth .. and BB house perception is most important ..

Originally posted by: naturesk

So true! Everybody around us use the "F" word even in normal conversations. I don't understand why this forum is so hell bent on saying that using F word is some sort of a sin!!!
I agree not all of us curse (I don't and would never) BUT i am always surrounded by people who are used to using such words even in normal conversations and that is why i dont understand both the housemates and the people of this forum...either everybody is so shareef here that nobody curses or I am stupid enough to even write this post. 😛

Now coming to the task, it is a game and if it's not worth it then its fair to not do it.

May be BB is not showing others using bad words.

Fake brat miss india. That's why I love big g boss everyone gets exposed.

Originally posted by: --BLRbabe--

Swearing is perceived as aggressive and same goes to tattooed person too ... i dont agree but it is the truth .. and BB house perception is most important ..

Rahul point was people get turned off bcoz of ur swearing .. but bani swears u have accept it whether u agree or not ..

on cycling part .. i felt bad, in other seasons the housemates were co operative they used wake up early to ease the stress on people pedaling but even at 5 - 530 am no one is ready to wake up to help the these guys out as their energy needs to be conserved for other essentials of the house like food and water .. i felt Hms were totally insensitive

We all know by now what Bani is and how she behaves. Why is this an issue now?

What I saw Rahul doing was that Bani should be worried if others are not concerned and sleeping peacefully. On the other hand, it does not take much for Rahul to loose his temper. Loki's one action of tissue box and he took it from her hand threw away. Babaji pushed the cart near the sofa and Rahul took it away but pulling his hands. So, not sure what was Rahul's agenda but he is no saint to give parcharan to Bani.

Originally posted by: msd21

Just to clarify, others, including Lopa, have used the F word in BB. If we believe other HMs, MM abuse all the time but not shown. So why is this different.

I am not calling it an excuse but a realization by Bani that they were working hard without support and the cheap shot by Lopa by not thanking ONLY her out of FOUR. As I said, LOPA, Manu and Manv in her place would have found kind of excuses until BB intervened. So let us not put others on Pedestals also.

I know others, including Lopa, have used that word. But as often and as exceedingly as Bani?? NOPE! MM abuse and no one defends them anywhere. Bani's abuses get defended every where you turn to. Even Bani defends her abuses by saying GENEARLLY bola. She told Lopa last week...main kutton se baat nahin karti or something like that while ending the conversation. How is that right? Had it been Gauhar/Tanna in place of Lopa they'd have torn Bani's hair from its roots. I don't blame Lopa for not wanting to talk to Bani after being at the receiving end of such filth.

Not putting anyone on pedestals. Not uselessly defending anyone either.

Originally posted by: msd21

May be BB is not showing others using bad words.

Probably, or the rest housemates try to not swear as much as bani does because of the cameras. Bani is definitely appearing the most real of all of them. She is what she is there seems to be no goody fakeness going on.