Tanisha. - Page 3

Originally posted by: Aamina2013

in my opinion it does take great strength and and self control to put up with abuse and violence without retaliating but I also believe it takes even more courage and strength to admit that you are being abused (be it verbal, emotional, physical etc) and admit that you need help.
what's happening to Tanisha is wrong but the perpetrator is to blame here not her.
I can understand why people hate Tanisha and how it's annoying to watch her follow him blindly and not stand up for herself. but indirectly are we not doing the same by calling her names when it should be Armaan who deserves it all and needs to be blamed as he is the culprit or is it our frustration towards Tanisha that she is allowing it hence we are directing our anger towards her and not Armaan?

I request no bashing as I have genuinely put forward my views regarding the question by the TM

Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Tanisha is not a child that one should feel sorry that she is being abused. She is a grown up 35 year old woman! Armaan is not going around catching hold of her by the hair and asking her to bear his abuse She is doing it all on her own cuz she likes being his devoted slave. People are blaming Tani cuz she can walk away anytime she wants or put him in his place but she chooses to be silent and "love" him anyway. How can someone feel sorry for her? In this day and age if a woman chooses to do that without any legal ties, she is condemned because she puts to shane every other woman who has struggled past way more abusive circumstances to free herself from such a male. Armaan IS like that. Tanisha has a choice which she has no courage to take. So yes, she is to be blamed more than Armaan. Zulm karne wale se zulm sehne wala gunehgaar hota hai.

PS - Request to others not to bring in absurd arguments regarding rape and murder and stuff. I am talking about Tanisha's case and all the other women who prefer being doormats in a relationship.

Originally posted by: Baingan

I did not liked , soha said to tani thar she is dignified ,others r not?

Dignify in what taking abuse from armaan?

Originally posted by: dolly_11

Well she isn't calm and composed by nature

she only takes shit and abuse from Armaan

She does get mad at other people in the house

All i can say is that she is too much into Armaan ..she wants him in her life at any cost ..atleast thats how it looks like on telly..BB is fake so i don't know if all this is true or fake

Originally posted by: M.F.E.O

i love these people that they can fathom tanisha's pain. 😆. she does not has any problem with arman but these guys seem to have bigger . how caring are these people. love you <3

she lost her mind after getting close to armaan... she fights/wishes only for armaan... god even HM are making fun of her 😆 and her armaan jaap

I think Tanisha, just by herself, is a very strong personality. She sometimes does seem to show some nervousness, some lack of confidence, but for the most part, she stands tall.

My guess is Tanisha is playing the smartest game by standing behind the bully. If you see all the earlier episodes I get a feeling that she was playing Armaan and she is the one who is playing him even now. Armaan might think he is very smart but Tanish is playing it strategically.

People in big boss house tend to get carried away; they don't always remember that their are lots of cameras surrounding them and forget their real world and that's what happened with tanisha too.She forgot where she actually belongs from and is wasting her energy on arman.Arman has become her habit and she must get rid of it as soon as possible.Hopefully her family may show her he isn't right for her and if they are cool with anything then god bless her.Maybe she will realize she has better options outside.Big boss should have sent tanisha out rather than arman..maybe it could be of any help.It is nice if she loves him but she should not be his dumping zone where he will vent out his all frustrations and she will recycle it into positiviness .If he manages to control his anger it's good else god bless tanisha :)

Originally posted by: PiscineMolitor

Thanks for your views. I understand abuse in a marriage, where you have mo choice, or maybe you can give chances. But tanisha is held by no vows here. I see no reason for her to put up with it.

I think it is very common for people to be in abusive relationships whether they are married or in a relationship especially in the UK. emotional abuse is one abuse that I find can exist in many different relationships such as friendships, families ,siblings etc and often the victim won't even be aware of this because they can't see beyond the loving side that the perpetrator may display and sometimes although they are aware they are somehow able to justify it