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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Misfit

No I don't agree. Here it is just one sided relationship. It is clear that Armaan doesn't love her and she does. Then what's the point in pushing someone to like you, when clearly the other doesn't respect your feelings. The truth is she loves him so much that she doesn't mind getting disrespected again and again. It's annoying to watch.


Most parents love their kids and give up everything for them, but their are so many who disrespect their parents after they grow up. Parents still love their children even if they continue to disrespect them. Would you be annoyed at those parents or feel sorry for them?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: stotra


Most parents love their kids and give up everything for them, but their are so many who disrespect their parents after they grow up. Parents still love their children even if they continue to disrespect them. Would you be annoyed at those parents or feel sorry for them?

If the child does not respect his parent, then the parents have to be tough with the child, access love is only going to spoil the child, because if they didnt show him he is wrong, how will he learn. Anything too much is not good.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I'm not sure if I agree with you. This can work for a child of yours, but if you're looking for a potential relationship with someone then this can be very unhealthy. In relationships both partners should try to understand and encourage each other to do well. It can't be one sided. She is trying to bring about a change in him, but he still continues to throw tantrums and abuses her.

I don't believe in unconditional love if it's one sided and the other person continues to abuse you on a regular basis. You've some self-respect of your own if that person cares about you then they will respect you and encourage you to do better as well. They won't repeatedly disrespect you.

They call her a doormat because she doesn't have a mind of her own. She allows him to walk all over her. Armaan said "A" Tanisha instantly chants "A". I have rarely seen her challenge him which would be a sign of a healthy friendship or relationship or whatever.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Misfit

If the child does not respect his parent, then the parents have to be tough with the child, access love is only going to spoil the child, because if they didnt show him he is wrong, how will he learn. Anything too much is not good.
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Sorry, I meant some grown ups after they have their own family do not care about their parents much and often disrespect them. That time mostly parents cannot afford to be tough with them but still they love them.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Legolas3

I'm not sure if I agree with you. This can work for a child of yours, but if you're looking for a potential relationship with someone then this can be very unhealthy. In relationships both partners should try to understand and encourage each other to do well. It can't be one sided. She is trying to bring about a change in him, but he still continues to throw tantrums and abuses her.

I don't believe in unconditional love if it's one sided and the other person continues to abuse you on a regular basis. You've some self-respect of your own if that person cares about you then they will respect you and encourage you to do better as well. They won't repeatedly disrespect you.

They call her a doormat because she doesn't have a mind of her own. She allows him to walk all over her. Armaan said "A" Tanisha instantly chants "A". I have rarely seen her challenge him which would be a sign of a healthy friendship or relationship or whatever.


I agree with you that if the person cares about you he wont repeatedly disrespect you. One thing you should understand that people do not change overnight , it takes months of constant efforts. Armaan has no control over himself, it will take a long time if he wants to change. Tanisha can walk away and thats absolutely fine (and if it is going to continue the same way then she should), but if she wants to stick with him the way she is handling him is the only way. There is no other way that guy can change and I am only saying I am appreciating her efforts and her capacity to handle rude comments and not getting affected by it much.

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