Kushal or Salman? - Page 6

Originally posted by: vish11111

I get your point but does that mean he should not take the right stand? Suppose the daughter of Bill Gates insults you...do you just become a coward cuz you want to work for that company?

I am just responding on the questions you asked..lets not get into whether he was right or not because we may have our own opinions..but supposing he felt he was right then even if he has aspirations to get into Bollywood..its good that he has the courage to speak up for what HE FEELS is right. He has gotten public support...obviously Salman is a bigger star but there have been many who felt betrayed and started supporting Kushal. Thats his victory. Now if he struggles to get into Bollywood cuz of this...too bad...but he wins as a person for standing up to what he felt was injustice.

Its much better than saying something and then giving a fake apology the next minute just to be on the safe side.

Originally posted by: vish11111

Oh yes absolutely, i agree... as i have said a lot of times it is not abt being abusive n insensitive towards each other and not to any contestant or the host... it is just nice to exchange different opinions and learn abt how other ppl feel in "same" situations...

let me reply to each of ur points in same "structure":

1. oh i absolutely agree and i did like tht he was not just simply saying sorry with out meaning it (i absolutely do NOT (NEVER WILL) "favor" Armaan's behavior, but tht is a different issue and i dont know who Sid is, neither did i see tht season i guess, so i will leave him out of this discussion) ... i do not feel tht Kushal should have simply said a fake sorry n tht all would have been fine... tbh i somehow do get the point of Kushal, that Tanisha pushed him was wrong... but i would have wished him to explain things... i mean being silent does not make u right always... see from my pov Kushal was wrong in some stuff too... i was actually expecting from Kushal to say something like this:

"Salman Sir, i do understand that this whole situation is not easy and probably a lot of ppl got offended by my behavior, including you, but let me explain my way! I feel tht the task was to annoy someone tht much tht they will leave the box as soon as possible. In that i felt tht Tanisha was the weakest point of the group and would b the first one too leave the box so i focused on her, I DO AGREE THAT I GOT CARRIED AWAY, but when Tanisha cam out and immediately pushed me i was furious and could not accept the fact that this is being tolerated by BB, neither do i believe tht her push was justified. I think she shouldnt have done tht!

Further i did say some really nasty things to her after tht in rage as i didnt know any other way to defend my self, i DO APOLOGIZE to drag her family, her career and her personality into this, it was hurtful and i didnt mean to hurt anyones feeling, especially not anyones family's. My point is tht we both have wronged each other in this situation and me from my part i apologize for becoming personal, but still dont agree that this is justified to use physically violance against anyone, not even for a girl!"

arre wah! i could do this professionally hahahahh 😆 but u see my point? Kushal did some stuff which was too much and did provoke Tanisha a lot, but there is no harm in admitting tht and tht is y i dont understand Kushal's point... if he admits tht there was a 50% fault of him too, it would not make him smaller, would it?! ... i bet u if he would explained his point in tht manner, then Salman would have asked Tanisha to do the same and after tht Tanisha and Kushal would have the opportunity to talk things out and find a solution, no!? ... my issue with Kushal is just tht he stopped talking at all and didnt defend his view, neither did attack tanisha, but more was making this an Ego issue and being stubborn to leave or kick her out...

2. Now yes Kushal did ask to leave the house very politely, but Salman being on a spree was most definitely not because Kushal... I refuse to believe tht... i think the person who made Salman lose his cool was Gauhar and tht too justified... she was pulling comletely different points into the whole situation and started a dramatic act and i am sorry she was going OTT... as i still say tht she is the reason the whole situation got out of hand anyways... but challo whatever... and Kushal looked quite dure abt leaving the house is true... but there was a cut in tht "scene" so what we saw was clearly edited... as i personally thing Salman did remind Kushal in tht situation tht if he leaves the house out of his personal choice there is a fine (50lakhs) he has to pay to the channel also tht he is putting his whole acting-future on stake... here again no one can blame Salman for tht, this is their contract and every person knows tht when they sign it... which is the reason Kushal decided to stay back n sort things out... i dont want to get carried away in speculations, but i personally think tht Kushal was since then being so silent n waiting for a situation to break rules so he will b kicked out, as he wanted to leave for sure, but the fine was too much... but again, no one knows whats on his mind.. tht is just my gut feeling...

3. Yes i know i read an interview too where he was saying tht... but thts what i was trying to explain in my 1st post here na, i am not saying tht Salman was not biased... i think he probably was, BUT i believe tht he was trying to PROTECT Kushal in this whole situation... as he is the one whose career n future was in "danger" ... as i said before i believe it is like the kind of situation a lot of ppl have had in their upbringing...ur father scolds u "openly" so after tht no one else has the "guts" to do so... my point is tht there is A LOT of subtext in Salman's words always... n in this situation he was giving kushal a hand to pull him out of the mess...most deffo in his own "aggressive" way... after coming out Kushal has also said tht Salman has been very kind towards him n said tht he thinks Kushal has a bright future... so i personally thing.. tht by insulting tanisha Kushal has pissed off a lot of biggies in B'town and Salman was trying to "protect" Kushal from them...

Kushal did indeed not bow down, which is a good thing, but sadly his actions and his behavior has not shown the point he is standing for... him not bowing down seems for me more like an ego thing and that is nothing to b proud of... because as i said before.. i still have NO IDEA what he stands for?!

Originally posted by: muskaan23