Rochelle's INSENSITIVE and selfish comment!

First Previous

Page

Frequent Posters

zehreeli.kheer

@zehreeli.kheer

Trailblazer

+ 7

Posted: 9 years ago

#21

He was talking about his experience and how the news broke him..I'm sure he didn't tell all that to Rochelle in the CR. It was really sad the way he explained things even Kishwer was crying.

He did! He told her the news of the cardiac arrest and his brother passing away in sleep.. and then roch asked him if he is absolutely fine cuz things are not going to be easy in house on which he said he is ready.. kish cried cuz she recieved the news then.. roch had already cried about it and had time to pull gerself together.. also after everything when rishab was smiling abd say8ng we are glad to have you back, did that mean that he wasnt sorry fir keiths loss.. no it simply meant that sometime had elapsed and you are seeing a video that is forwarded...

Quote

niksidfan

@niksidfan

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#22

ok if u r really worried about the commnet, i wanna say rochelle is too talkative and sometimes she blabbers out something which she doesnt mean... and this was one of the sequence..it happen to us also in real life...

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

Darya

@xDarya

Explorer

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: niksidfan
ok if u r really worried about the commnet, i wanna say rochelle is too talkative and sometimes she blabbers out something which she doesnt mean... and this was one of the sequence..it happen to us also in real life...

Thank for accepting the comment was wrong..instead of taking it somewhere else and justifying it. 😊

Quote

Not Avaliable

@lovely_lady

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#24

How is the comment sick? Because of the timing? Because to me, the comment came across as her realizing that she was rude in bitching about Priya/ Kawal when they refused to give her details about what Keith was up to when he was outside the house. She was acknowledging she was wrong in her previous behaviour. Sure she could've worded the comment better, but the intent was fine.

I don't understand why the comment is sick. It was fine to me. Why is it wrong in your opinion? Because it's insensitive? But who is it insensitive towards? Towards Keith? Because she didn't empathize with his brother dying that long? She did cry tho -- her face was blotchy. She had time to grieve. People grieve differently. Comparing Kishwar and Rochelle's reactions in this situation is completely wrong and dumb. Again, people grieve differently and passing judgement upon the way people grieve is an asshole thing to do.

Quote

Raz2012

@Raz2012

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#25

I'm sure even if rochelle sneezed at that time some people would have had a problem! Seriously 😕

Quote

Darya

@xDarya

Explorer

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: lovely_lady
How is the comment sick? Because of the timing? Because to me, the comment came across as her realizing that she was rude in bitching about Priya/ Kawal when they refused to give her details about what Keith was up to when he was outside the house. She was acknowledging she was wrong in her previous behaviour. Sure she could've worded the comment better, but the intent was fine.

I don't understand why the comment is sick. It was fine to me. Why is it wrong in your opinion? Because it's insensitive? But who is it insensitive towards? Towards Keith? Because she didn't empathize with his brother dying that long? She did cry tho -- her face was blotchy. She had time to grieve. People grieve differently. Comparing Kishwar and Rochelle's reactions in this situation is completely wrong and dumb. Again, people grieve differently and passing judgement upon the way people grieve is an asshole thing to do.

Once again I'll say it that the timing was completely wrong and if she was really sorry she should have said SORRY instead of thanks like she was relieved. I talked about Kishwer crying to explain the atmosphere of the situation I wasn't comparing their reactions. 🥱 Why are you bringing grief into it? Did I say she wasn't sad for Keith? Did I say she didn't feel anything? I said her comment was insensitive and said in a very wrong way!

Quote

Not Avaliable

@lovely_lady

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: xDarya

Once again I'll say it that the timing was completely wrong and if she was really sorry she should have said SORRY instead of thanks like she was relieved. I talked about Kishwer crying to explain the atmosphere of the situation I wasn't comparing their reactions. 🥱 Why are you bringing grief into it? Did I say she wasn't sad for Keith? Did I say she didn't feel anything? I said her comment was insensitive and said in a very wrong way!

I thought the timing issue was clarified? She and Keith discussed his brother's death earlier when they were reunited, where she cried and stuff, and then he came out and told the rest of the HMs. So in that timeline, I don't think she was too bad. She could've said it later sure, but it's not super bad or insensitive I think.

And regarding the wording, again I also said that she could've worded her sentences/ words better. My issue was that her intent was right and hence her comment wasn't that bad.

Grief was brought into it because your initial post was unclear. It seemed like you brought in Kishwar to contrast their emotional responses to Keith's exit explanation. And that's why I said all those earlier things about grief. Good job in editing your post, makes your topic clearer.

Quote

niksidfan

@niksidfan

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: lovely_lady
How is the comment sick? Because of the timing? Because to me, the comment came across as her realizing that she was rude in bitching about Priya/ Kawal when they refused to give her details about what Keith was up to when he was outside the house. She was acknowledging she was wrong in her previous behaviour. Sure she could've worded the comment better, but the intent was fine.

I don't understand why the comment is sick. It was fine to me. Why is it wrong in your opinion? Because it's insensitive? But who is it insensitive towards? Towards Keith? Because she didn't empathize with his brother dying that long? She did cry tho -- her face was blotchy. She had time to grieve. People grieve differently. Comparing Kishwar and Rochelle's reactions in this situation is completely wrong and dumb. Again, people grieve differently and passing judgement upon the way people grieve is an asshole thing to do.

@bold: yeah this may be the reason she uttered those words because before she blamed priya and shouted on her and so acknowledging her fault and thanking the WCs

Quote

Raz2012

@Raz2012

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: niksidfan
@bold: yeah this may be the reason she uttered those words because before she blamed priya and shouted on her and so acknowledging her fault and thanking the WCs

I also agree with the bold statement

Quote

1 2 3

Rochelle's INSENSITIVE and selfish comment! - Page 3

Related Topics

Explore Topics